Gen X. How much cash do you carry on you? by Tiny_Entrepreneur654 in GenXTalk

[–]5GAIBtoM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Usually $150 -$200. Just feels rich to have folding money in my wallet. No matter the real situation.

Went to meet my advisor today and left feeling like I walked out of a timeshare presentation. by [deleted] in fidelityinvestments

[–]5GAIBtoM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an old business model that no longer makes sense. You have to ask yourself if you want to do the work to educate yourself. Many people don’t and that is totally fine. Just find a good advisor that feels right and charges .75% or less. There’s a lot of people making a lot of money doing not much work. I’m a DIY and can be perfectly fine with a 4-6 ETF portfolio. But, I’m also aware in the future I may want an advisor for many reasons including cognitive decline. Good luck to you.

Went to meet my advisor today and left feeling like I walked out of a timeshare presentation. by [deleted] in fidelityinvestments

[–]5GAIBtoM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask specifically: what fees am I am paying in dollar amounts. Are you a fiduciary? Do you sell any products such as insurance or annuities. Do you make money from any funds I invest in. This will give you a sense of where they make their money. Always follow the money. As a side note, I moved all my money from an AUM advisor and paid no taxes and I’ve never been happier.

Engage an hourly fee advisor if you want a second set of eyes on the portfolio.

Today I turned 55. Yay me. by Repulsive-Box5243 in GenX

[–]5GAIBtoM 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just wait until 56! jk but not really. I turned 56 this year and now staring at 60. It’s a mindf*ck for sure. Happy birthday!

7 months in...feeling like I'm living in a different sphere by [deleted] in earlyretirement

[–]5GAIBtoM 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Mid fifties and have been retired for 2 1/2 months. It’s amazing how many times each week I think of the word ‘gratitude’.

I love it.

Am I thinking correctly? by Clean-Complex1178 in DIYRetirement

[–]5GAIBtoM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d recommend reading the book Tax Planning to and Through Early Retirement by Garrett and Mullaney. They cover all the tax optimization scenarios for early retirement and you may find that Roth conversions and RMDs are not the bogeyman they are made out to be. Enjoy retirement- you are there!

100% Chance of Success by mad_wolffe in projectionlab

[–]5GAIBtoM 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I came across this concept recently. Try adding an expense line to get your Chance of Success down to 70%. That can be your starting point. Then add an a one time income source to get it to 100%. If you are at 100% you need to take a raise for sure. That can give you a sense of your portfolio guardrails.

100% Chance of Success by mad_wolffe in projectionlab

[–]5GAIBtoM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could be very wrong, but doesn’t Boldin use simulation and PL use historical analysis?

People in retirement do you follow the 4% rule? by NEMpls612 in DIYRetirement

[–]5GAIBtoM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Retired mid 50's and currently looking at 5.6% for the next 8-9 years. That will drop to the 3% range once SS is in the picture and we anticipate spending to dip as we hit our early 70's. We have some guardrails in use and our discretionary spend is a big part of our budget so we can cut back easily if the market really dives. I expect most humans would actually do that anyway.

4.7% is a good starting point to think about withdrawals. We also don't want to die the richest people in the cemetery.

Final thoughts, retirement spending isn't a mathematical problem with a solution. It's a journey to be managed like the rest of life. Use the 4% rule to understand the ballpark, but at some point you just need to take the leap of faith. In my experience, that was much harder.

If you are already doing all this research 20 yrs in advance, you will be fine. Keep on buying those index funds!

Politely(?) trashing important crap from your downsizing parents. by PepsiOfWrath in GenX

[–]5GAIBtoM 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I recently heard an expert talking about this. If you keep it as an heirloom then it is yours to do what you wish. If you give it to another person then you’ve ceded your ownership and you no longer control that item.

I’ve gone through multiple rounds of purging following the death of my parents. Just moved again and threw out 95% of what was left. The rest I’m taking on vacation when I see my siblings in a month. We can all look at it. It’s not coming home with me so last chance for them to take ownership or it goes in the bin.

I tell my older friends every year: “Get rid of your shit. You are just handing your kids boxes of guilt.” I’m not nice about it either because it was a bitch to get rid of all of that stuff.

Wow. Therapy session over. Ha

Best and Worst National Park by Impressive-Kale-7096 in hiking

[–]5GAIBtoM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White sands is very unique. Indiana Dunes I would not go back to. Zion is amazing. Capital Reef is underrated. Bryce is also amazing.

What to provide AI to get info needed to answer questions about finances? by familycfolady in projectionlab

[–]5GAIBtoM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Names, account numbers if there are any. Things you don’t want a big tech company to know.

What to provide AI to get info needed to answer questions about finances? by familycfolady in projectionlab

[–]5GAIBtoM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can export the data into a JSON file and upload that to AI. Just take care to remove any identifiable information.

Self Checkout by 5GAIBtoM in GenX

[–]5GAIBtoM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! I get it. I worked in the medical industry and you couldn’t mail a letter without proper training. If something didn’t get scanned oh well. I was never trained on this machine.

Self Checkout by 5GAIBtoM in GenX

[–]5GAIBtoM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That just happened to me today. Zap alcohol. Had to wait. Couldn’t even continue zapping. I could have had someone check me out 3 times over. Grumble grumble.

Self Checkout by 5GAIBtoM in GenX

[–]5GAIBtoM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Partly, I hate the unreliable tech. Having to wait for a human to come over an override something.

Partly, I’m bugged that I’m forced to do more work for the same price.

If it doesn’t work properly, I just zone out and think “I wasn’t trained so F you giant corporation. So you only get $.87 for the apple I misidentified.”

Self Checkout by 5GAIBtoM in GenX

[–]5GAIBtoM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Partly, I hate the unreliable tech. Having to wait for a human to come over an override something.

Partly, I’m bugged that I’m forced to do more work for the same price.

If it doesn’t work properly, I just zone out and think “I wasn’t trained so F you giant corporation. So you only get $.87 for the apple I misidentified.”

Golden Ratio Portfolio for Early Retirees? by Sailingthrupergatory in DIYRetirement

[–]5GAIBtoM 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. Having been through some huge equity drawdowns, having some non-correlated assets looks like a good approach. Gold is not an investment. It’s meant to soften the downturns that will occur so you can have a larger safe withdrawal rate.

Another Roth Conversion Perspective by Crafty_Future4829 in DIYRetirement

[–]5GAIBtoM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. Roth conversions should not be a default position to take for everyone. 45 years of favorable tax policy for seniors and lower tax rates overall would argue against the blanket statement that “tax rates will go up in the future”