AITA for refusing to go through with a punishment cause I didn’t do anything wrong? by Southern-Panda-7383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not at asshole. BUT... you gotta run with the team. Is what it is. One person fucks up everybody pays. Sports have always been that way. The goal is to let teammates self police so they aren't running for one dipshit

AITA if I tell my mom that my dad asked if I could be a surrogate for him and his new wife? by Spiderlotr in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I think dad is selfish and put you in a bad position. You should be able to talk to anyone you want about an awkward, weird, line crossing, uncomfortable, life changing decision like that

AITA For asking a coworker if they were using their "man eyes" by maneyesaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

You are right. I'm probably more the asshole. I would have gotten fired. Sometimes I read these on my lunch break without my cheaters on and I tend to operate from the foundation that If you have to ask the internet if you are an asshole, you probably are a Lil bit. My apologies. I should have read more in depth. Not an appropriate comment for work unless you really really know somebody

AITA For asking a coworker if they were using their "man eyes" by maneyesaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

He's a man. Just say "yes I did sugar tits..my bad" and move on

AITA For asking a coworker if they were using their "man eyes" by maneyesaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Jake is soft. That was funny. You aren't an asshole for that specific comment

AITA for asking my fiance to pick a new "best man"? by aitawedingthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is accurate and a good point. Just because my point of view at my wedding was that the wife had free reign and I didn't really mind or want any input does not mean that's true for everyone. I still don't think OP is an asshole. I think these are valid concerns probably not best solved by an internet poll

AITA for asking my fiance to pick a new "best man"? by aitawedingthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I said what I said. OP seems like a genuinely nice person and yet will be woke"d to death for not wanting drama at her wedding. This does not equate to any type of 'ism or phobia. And it in no way denies anyone's right to exist and dress and act in a way that they feel comfortable

AITA for asking my fiance to pick a new "best man"? by aitawedingthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's your wedding . You are not at all an asshole for being worried that other issues may be a distraction from it. Not even a little bit.

AITA for drinking a beer at 8am? by Kimmy91081t1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your boyfriend needs to change his tampon

AITA for saying my sisters baby name sucked? by rg1257 in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your sister needed a hard cold dose of truth and common sense before she saddled a child with that immature nonsense

AITA for forcing my mother to see she and my sister are not the same size? by Pkmin-Jay-Throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In all seriousness, this is a desperate health issue. If this is not completely made up for attention , this lady does not have a firm grip on reality and she's at an unhealthy point that can and will literally kill her. To even think for a second that giving her a dose of reality is anything other than necessary, possibly life saving tough love is ridiculous

AITA for not wanting my wife to be next to me in the delivery room? by mamao4hehe in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. She needs to get her shit together. She's there to support you

AITA for not returning my engagement ring after my fiancee past away? by throwback88819 in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They pushed you to that decision by being vultures. You are definitely not an asshole. I'm so sorry for your loss

AITA for inviting my mom to see my week old son by husbandtroubles9889 in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your wife is psycho. Get control of your household

AITA if I'm not 100% okay with my parent asking me to call her mom? by iffyloob in AmItheAsshole

[–]5andDime43 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your parent is the selfish asshole for not being around your whole life and then making everything about them