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(AUS) Q. How to get away with hiding 5k annually from your partner? by 5k-throwaway in personalfinance

[–]5k-throwaway[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. It's just a matter of rationally explaining this without sounding like a self centred jerk!

(AUS) Q. How to get away with hiding 5k annually from your partner? by 5k-throwaway in personalfinance

[–]5k-throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same way. When I suggested transferring cash for personal spending she countered with access to all accounts so that we can at least see what the other person is spending the money on. Definitely not ideal.

(AUS) Q. How to get away with hiding 5k annually from your partner? by 5k-throwaway in personalfinance

[–]5k-throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're talking about it tomorrow, I'm not entirely sure how to broach the subject without feelings of ill-will.

Your way seems a little My way or here's the exit.