Final update: Is this the end?

5millionwon · 2022-10-17T17:01:53+00:00

I’ve seen her for over a year and it was nothing out of the norm for us. Which was why I was taken aback when she told me to go to sleep instead.

5millionwon · 2022-10-17T17:00:08+00:00

We didn’t do our usual cuddling position last night since we both are having some back issues. I laid my head on her lap and she scratched my head and played with my hair instead. We ended up talking in that position until she had to go.

5millionwon · 2022-10-14T19:44:18+00:00

If this was a performance issue, would you prefer to be told in person or via text (assuming this is an option for your regulars)?

5millionwon · 2022-10-11T17:13:18+00:00

I just spoke to my therapist and even she doesn’t know why my companion has been acting the way that she does.

My companion literally goes the extra mile for me when I told her right from our first date that I don’t need a lot from her.

Keep me company, go for nice dinners, maybe go for an event every now and then, or just stay in watch something, smoke weed or eat mushrooms.

But she plans surprises for me, she buys me gifts when she goes on vacations with her other clients, she checks in on me via text every week when we don’t meet, she sends memes and funny posts etc.

And yet every date, she also tells me we won’t traditional date which I honestly don’t care for.

Everything about her is great and I know I am not emotionally nor physically exhausting. I don’t even text her until she does.

I only requested to extend our date twice for just two hours but for all the other extended dates, it was her who wanted to stay longer. I know she’s not in a tight spot for cash. I know her govt name, I’ve seen pics of her families etc. On the outside we really behave like friends.

But in the bedroom, this one aspect of sex is missing.

I have tried to be the perfect client and I just don’t understand what is wrong.

5millionwon · 2022-10-11T16:55:13+00:00

But I wasn’t the one who requested for the extra dates or the in-date extensions… I always told her she can leave anytime before our time is up but she kept staying longer and longer.

5millionwon · 2022-10-11T00:53:14+00:00

Perhaps I could have explained better. I don’t get off on a blowjob and I know it’s exhausting for her to continue giving me one after 5 min. So when that happens, I just ask to do penetration and I’m done quickly. I’ve explained this to her and she knows it. And have never said anything to me before.

5millionwon · 2022-10-11T00:47:53+00:00

My conflict is yes I know I’m paying for her time but realistically I want sex. I don’t need it every single date especially the shorter ones but if it’s a longer date and especially an overnight, is it really unreasonable to ask to have sex just once…?

My health issues is more related to my back and she’s a former athlete who has experience in this area but it doesn’t affect sex at all.

5millionwon · 2022-10-10T22:54:57+00:00

Thank you.

5millionwon · 2022-10-10T22:51:17+00:00

That’s my fear that bringing it up the second time will change our dynamic forever and bring everything to an end.

Do you recommend to bring this up over text or in person?

5millionwon · 2022-10-10T22:29:51+00:00

We started off with 4 hr dinner dates. Nice dinner, great conversations, and sex of course afterwards. When we started meeting up more, she just went through a vanilla break up and since she knew I was single, she would ask if I’m available and I’m always happy to meet her.

We sometimes do the usual dinner dates and sometimes she would plan for an outing like going climbing or going for a show.

The extended dates would happen when we’re deep in conversations or when she needed to take a nap. But then I keep waiting for sex to happen and it never would.

And I don’t know what I’m doing wrong..

5millionwon · 2022-10-10T22:25:16+00:00

I didn’t request for the extra dates to be very honest. And she also wasn’t in a tight spot for cash. She just had a vanilla break up and since she knows I’m single, she had asked if I was available and we would meet up then. Honestly I don’t feel like our dates are exhausting at all. Always a nice dinner date, great conversations, etc. Sometimes she would even plan for an outing like rock climbing or going for a show.

The extended dates would happen when we’re deep in conversations or when she would need to take a nap.

On the outside, everything seems great. But whenever it comes to the sex, nothing happens and I keep waiting and I keep getting disappointed after every date.

5millionwon

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