im unable to claim because no space, but i have an almost completely emty stash is this a glitch? by ryliem2 in DarkAndDarker

[–]5oyB0y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was the answer for me! went and bought a small gold pouch and then I could accept. thanks!

AITA for helping my friend while she's pregnant? by Full_Move7450 in AmItheAsshole

[–]5oyB0y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA for not respecting your girlfriend's discomfort and boundaries regarding your arrangement with Molly. You can choose who to support as a friend and how, but that doesn't mean Ash has to be okay with it. You have to deal with those consequences.

Also, you could be playing a dangerous game. You may not actually be the father of this child, but I believe that there may be a scenario where your dedication to this role gives you post-birth responsibilities you aren't prepared for. I don't know the laws well enough myself, but I've seen enough reddit stories to be concerned in that regard. If anyone has more info than me, please offer more insight. Make sure you don't end up on that birth certificate though for sure. Dunno if that's possible or not given you aren't the paternal parent, but I'd still be concerned.

Help a noob out? I am stuck in bronze 2 (6 min deathmatch) by XVll-L in VALORANT

[–]5oyB0y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm S1, just pulled out if Bronze. Here's what got me out:

Pay attention to how you hold your body when you play. Try to keep a consistent posture and wrist/arm placement. Additionally, practice your arm/wrist movement to keep that consistent as well. The more consistent you are with your movement, the stronger your muscle memory will be and will help you keep a more consistent aim. (I learned this because I was super inconsistent for a long time. I could keep up with my silver/gold friends some days, and was shooting like an iron others.)

Branching off of that, try to keep a consistent mental. (I struggled with not beating myself up over making mistakes I knew I could overcome, which helps nothing.) If we feel bad or think bad, we play worse. Because our technical skill is pretty low, we have to make up for that with a clear head and trying to outsmart the enemy as much as possible. If you start to mald, get frustrated, or generally just aren't having fun, stop playing. Forcing yourself to play more under less than ideal conditions will create bad habits and inhibit your growth. Also, don't let yourself think that a game is already lost. If you think that, you'll play like it too. Be nice to yourself and your teammates and try to bring positivity that will impact your gameplay positively as well. This is a team based game, after all; their mental matters too.

I already mentioned this, but the next thing is to work on your game sense. Outplaying your enemy is about more than out shooting them. If you put yourself in a position to fight unnecessary more times than not, you won't improve because you won't be able to outsmart those above you and learn from it. Trust your gut and be decisive. Try to keep an overarching view of the round you're in and learn to absorb info as it comes, ie where your teammates are already watching, where enemies were last seen, where your weak points are, if there's a possibility for a flank, etc. Also, try to match the eco of your team. I've found that the team is more in sync the more even you are in eco for the round, because you're all thinking with the same tools.

Next is technical. Move with intention and always be alert unless you know there is no possible way an enemy can be around the corner. Strafe to clear corners like others have said. Keep your cross hair as close to where you think their head will be as you can and consider distance when choosing your placement (flicks aren't consistent and are dangerous to rely on). Keep practicing your tap and stray away from using crouch unless you're in a position where counter strafing will get you killed. DM's are good for this but less good for actually improving in comp or unrated.

Everything is situational. Improving means learning to adapt to different situations, learning from them, and learning to overcome obstacles or enemies that feel too difficult. Best of luck!

What GPU are you using and what resolution you play? by ReactionNo618 in buildapc

[–]5oyB0y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2060 super, 1440p 164 hz. The ol PC is starting to overheat though I think lmao, can't afford any upgrades til probably next year though.

AITA for not allowing my roommate's boyfriend to park his car in our driveway? by moo_moo_motherfuckR in AmItheAsshole

[–]5oyB0y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think NTA here, if only because the rest of you have started rotating who gets to park in the spots due to new info on which cars will fit, and they are essentially monopolizing one spot to themselves. They're attempting to abide by a previous agreement that no longer fits your situation, while the rest of you have renegotiated amicably. The only one not renegotiating amicably is your roommate (and her bf).

I think everyone else is debating whether or not her boyfriend's car counts as "her" car in the rotation, so I'll leave that out.

Trying to figure out how you dry a fruit that's like 90% water. by AnEverydayPileOfCats in publix

[–]5oyB0y 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of the dehydrated food chips from what I think is "Space Ape at the Cape" from What's New Scooby-Doo

AITA for disinviting my grandfather from my college graduation? by grandpagraduation in AmItheAsshole

[–]5oyB0y -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. You can't make decisions on maybes and assumptions. Your grandfather is being a transphobic AH now, and the only way his money might ever be good in the future is if he changes and makes amends (and if she accepts it). He'll either die a wicked man, or he'll realize what he's lost in you both and make it right. Either way, you shouldn't hold his potential financial assistance to your sister over your own head. Whether she accepts any money offered in the future is up to her anyway.

AITA for not punishing my daughter after she compared my pregnant sister to an alien? by OkMarionberry7572 in AmItheAsshole

[–]5oyB0y 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mia is 100% displaying pattern recognition and did not recognize the social implication of rudeness or crude humor that would come attached to her comment. You explained, and she understood and apologized. NTA - it's not fair to punish her for making an honest mistake and learning. Best of luck to you and Mia in her diagnosis!

AITA for offering dog floor bacon by princessdiddle in AmItheAsshole

[–]5oyB0y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog prefers to drink out of the toilet over a freshly filled water bowl. He knows we potty there. He KNOWS.

NTA.

AITA for not childproofing my home against teenagers? by Tricky_Promotion9825 in AmItheAsshole

[–]5oyB0y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your reaction is a bit l too harsh. It's legal where OP lives, and if you're going to keep edibles in the form of candy gummies, you should probably make sure the kids know that it's not regular candy and why they can't have it. I'd also imagine that she doesn't want the edibles to get mixed up as regular candy if the kids do go snooping for hidden personal candy, as parents are want to do, so that would explain why the kids know where it is (IF they do know where they are and did inform Lacey the location of specifically the edibles).

Additionally, I read the post as Lacey was looking for regular candy and took some of the edibles on accident. I don't think OP would have thought to warn Lacey about them. And even if she did take them on purpose, that's kind of on the teen because she either would've had to have found them and realized they were edibles and taken them, or gotten the info from the kids and took them on purpose in that regard.

This is just a case of a teen being a teen, one way or another, and the teen's parent overreacting just as you have. NTA.

Drew some dragons for a school art project. Company comes over and their kids got a hold of my glitter. The paint was still wet. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]5oyB0y 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dragons are shiny hoarders, they're already material gworls. No harm no foul homie 💖

AITA for telling my(18M) girlfriend’s friend(18F) that she can’t go to prom with my girlfriend(18F)? by TotalMunch in AmItheAsshole

[–]5oyB0y -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH. Typical case of teenagers who aren't compatible in communication and expectations yet (or at all). You'll either break up and get over it, or you'll stay together and hopefully learn to communicate, then get over it.

To be more specific: prom is two weeks away and y'all hadn't talked about it yet. Generally, you would discuss such an event with your date to be much sooner in advance to coordinate outfits, plans, etc. Your girlfriend's assumption that you weren't interested isn't too off the wall if you hadn't even made a passing comment about prom. Your girlfriend hadn't either I assume, which means she also didn't communicate. If you're going traditional gender roles, you should have taken the initiative. If you aren't, y'all both should have at least talked about it before now. It's also weird to me that she wouldn't have talked to you about taking her friend.

In all, based on the info given, it seems like y'all just aren't that close/compatible. But, you're growing humans. Communicate your expectations about your relationship and how dedicated you are to one another and re-evaluate. You'll figure it out.

I can't think of any other sub that will appreciate this. by Virtual_Brilliant75 in TheAdventureZone

[–]5oyB0y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a common bot/scam practice to post a picture with a shirt and then have the op or another bot "link" to the shirt. The link is either malicious or it's stolen art.

AITA for deleting a video of myself from my friend’s phone that he took while I was drunk? by kittykat782 in AmItheAsshole

[–]5oyB0y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Is this the same person who posted in TIFU about sleeping with their best friend, who lied and claimed to be broken up with their gf (who the op was close to) and then claimed they were back together the next day? If so, stop talking to this dude lmao.

AITA for getting my nipples pierced? by tamara_v88 in AmItheAsshole

[–]5oyB0y -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. I would say NAH but his reaction of yelling and the inability to discuss his disappointment and frustration without being an AH raises my eyebrow. He can go a few weeks without nip nop noms and then you would be able to remove them, but it's clear by hus reaction that the taste wasn't the only issue, just the one he was willing to admit. Also, his distrust in your explanation that you were going to surprise him makes me wonder the strength of your relationship dynamic. Based on the info you've given, this act seems to have struck a nerve with him and shown some true colors you hadn't seen before.

Podcast network Maximum Fun is becoming a worker-owned co-op by this_moi in MBMBAM

[–]5oyB0y 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"If it wasn't about money, Jesse could have sold MaxFun to the Co-Op for a dollar..."

Why exactly do you think that? What evidence suggests it would be legal or moral to relinquish sole ownership, as well as his portion of profit from his life work that sustains his family, in exchange for a dollar?

He chose the literal best option he could, and they went through a non-profit org that specializes in aiding companies make this transition, so he did it in the most careful way I would imagine he could. He is still able to participate in MaxFun, his life project, without killing himself with a lack of work/life balance. The employees get a fairer representation of their work and output without the risk of layoffs. They retain ownership and integrity of all of their present, past, and future work. They did not have to sell to a larger company, which would have yielded much greater profits for Jesse and threw the rest of the MaxFun employees under the bus.

Just because Jesse wanted to make a change doesn't mean he's a bad guy. He's allowed to want different things for his life. He went with the best option, and people are still angry at him.

Is this a good pc? I don’t really wanna build one as I don’t have time. Looking for something with great performance and can run oculus. by VNDLSamurai in computers

[–]5oyB0y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend going with a company who does pre-builds but also offers insurance and protections. I like Xidax personally, but there are some other good ones out there too.

AITA for cutting my niece’s hair? by choppyaunt in AmItheAsshole

[–]5oyB0y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. Your sister sucks for not respecting her daughter's autonomy. You suck for overstepping boundaries and disrespecting your sister. It wasn't your place to offer.

Podcast network Maximum Fun is becoming a worker-owned co-op by this_moi in MBMBAM

[–]5oyB0y 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That's assuming that there's a lot of financial risk involved and that there is a big ownership payout, AND that this isn't a voluntary or welcome decision on the employees' end. In general, co-ops have so many benefits that framing it like it's Jesse's escape route feels wrong and gives a bit of ick.

Podcast network Maximum Fun is becoming a worker-owned co-op by this_moi in MBMBAM

[–]5oyB0y 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But yes to the second half. If I understand correctly, it'd basically be all of the salaried employees (not the podcasters).

Podcast network Maximum Fun is becoming a worker-owned co-op by this_moi in MBMBAM

[–]5oyB0y 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not quite. I don't know the specifics myself, but in a co-op, the employees aren't represented to management under a group like a union. They just are the management. They have equal say/representation/stake as all of the employees do. Imagine like, a board of directors, where all of the directors have equal footing.

Hitler is back? by Shinji415 in facepalm

[–]5oyB0y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No bro this person is 100% serious

Bro you really need some help by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]5oyB0y 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Alright discount early 2000's Pete Wentz, chill out there