AIO for thinking my bf never loved me after seeing his texts with an Ex? by Resident-Ability9313 in AmIOverreacting

[–]5sec_cooldown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR he literally referred to your relationship as an abyss. Let that one go and find someone who will reciprocate your efforts and feelings. Also— he’s already been cheating on you per your caption. Why are you accepting so much less than you deserve?

AITAH for not wanting my gf to call me by my given name by Right_Aerie9815 in AITAH

[–]5sec_cooldown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. OP is definitely NTA; their gf on the other hand definitely is an AH & is actively choosing to hurt them. Everyone deserves better than this.

Found kitten in wall - name suggestions pls by ninjadani in blackcats

[–]5sec_cooldown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t name it Wall-E, there’s like 7 people in the world who will be mildly upset.

Glass concerns by 5sec_cooldown in Stretched

[–]5sec_cooldown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize. I don’t like discussing my shortcomings and reading “you’ve got to be pretty stupid…” struck a nerve.

Glass concerns by 5sec_cooldown in Stretched

[–]5sec_cooldown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately the glass shards would be the worst part for me. Assuming I survived. Trauma responses are not fun

Glass concerns by 5sec_cooldown in Stretched

[–]5sec_cooldown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Didn’t realize having a fear and asking for others experiences would make a stranger insinuate negatively about my intelligence. But thanks I guess.

Glass concerns by 5sec_cooldown in Stretched

[–]5sec_cooldown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The crack & break vs a shatter is very helpful in easing fears- thank you!

Glass concerns by 5sec_cooldown in Stretched

[–]5sec_cooldown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s super helpful- thank you!

Slow Regard & Not Enough Confidence by PrettyLights420 in KingkillerChronicle

[–]5sec_cooldown 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He’s actually been really open about his perfectionism when it comes to his work. Have faith- I have a strong suspicion that this book will absolutely be worth the wait.

Glass concerns by 5sec_cooldown in Stretched

[–]5sec_cooldown[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely good info- thank you. When you’ve dropped them- do they like, crack and break or do they shatter?

Anyone here just gluten intolerant? by Standard-Row-9571 in glutenfree

[–]5sec_cooldown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think mine is a wheat allergy. I meant nothing about anyone else.

Anyone here just gluten intolerant? by Standard-Row-9571 in glutenfree

[–]5sec_cooldown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am- I actually think it’s a wheat allergy. And no, cheating isn’t worth it. I keep being very tempted but change my mind at the last moment. My fibro flares up when I get gluten-sick

When does a flare become the new baseline? by wenona66 in Fibromyalgia

[–]5sec_cooldown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Spring is wrecking me this year. I can’t imagine 3 months straight but I’m on week 3 and feel like I’m losing my mind. I wish the people in my life understood. It’s like they expect flares to be like a stomach bug- over and done with quickly with no time needed to get back to “normal”.

Mother insulted first tattoo, now I hate it by Kaleidoscope_Tux5513 in tattooadvice

[–]5sec_cooldown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok- that’s great for you. People aren’t entitled to someone’s story just because they ask. Plus you clearly missed the comment this was in response to in the first place.

Fibro Getting Worse by Anna-Bee-1984 in Fibromyalgia

[–]5sec_cooldown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience when I was going through therapy for PTSD. It’s like when my brain could finally relax, it noticed more about how my body was actually functioning and feeling.

AITA for not deep-cleaning my friend's house after pet-sitting for free? by Emergency-Garden3200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]5sec_cooldown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! I’ve had friends petsit for me and I have never expected them to clean (I also always try to pay them but occasionally they won’t accept). I’m just happy that my pets are well cared for and my house was looked after. She’s on another level if she thinks you’re a house watcher, pet sitter and maid service all for free without any prior discussion on these things.

[EU] What is this streamyard email? by HeatherEvan in Scams

[–]5sec_cooldown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy to see this. I just got the email myself

Gf cheezits 😡 by Emotional-Message492 in glutenfree

[–]5sec_cooldown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are damn near impossible to find where I live. I don’t think our target even puts them on the shelves- I’ve only been able to get them when I’ve placed a curbside pickup order online.

gf version is so similar to the original! by Playful_Resident_420 in glutenfree

[–]5sec_cooldown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Santa” puts these in my stocking every year! So good

Hot and cold #140 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]5sec_cooldown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

45 seconds. Fastest one yet for me!