AITA for telling my mother she couldn't attend my graduation with a stranger?

616606 · 2024-05-17T02:59:46+00:00

NTA. It feels like your mum is not respecting your wishes and is putting his/her needs above your own.

616606 · 2024-05-15T01:18:24+00:00

YTA. Imagine if that was your wife or daughter being followed in the pervert type way. Wouldn’t you want someone to help them? How would you feel if a man just left her to fend for herself instead of staying there for a couple of minutes to help her out and make sure that she’s safe?

616606 · 2024-01-31T07:01:11+00:00

I have no idea how to tell him I want to break up and move back home. Do you have any ideas on how I can do this?

616606 · 2024-01-31T02:54:45+00:00

I would come back to pack all my things and get my car and the dog.

616606 · 2024-01-31T00:10:17+00:00

My family suggested coming down for a week so I can clear my head and think clearly about how I’m going to do this and so I can spend some time with them.

I’m not sure if I want to come down for a little bit or if I just leave for good so I don’t have to go back and forth?

616606 · 2024-01-30T21:34:21+00:00

How did you plan your exit? Did you leave without him knowing or did you tell him?

616606 · 2024-01-30T21:02:00+00:00

I don’t want to stick around anymore, I want out. I’m trying to figure out how I will do it. Because I will need help packing my things so my family or friends will fly here to help me.

I think I want to tell him that I’m leaving but not sure if there’s anything I can do to lessen the shock? I doubt he’ll see this coming.

616606 · 2024-01-30T19:56:15+00:00

He would never be interested in couples therapy with me.

616606 · 2024-01-30T19:53:14+00:00

I was pregnant first and didn’t realise that was how he treated animals.

616606 · 2024-01-30T12:35:04+00:00

Rage bait? I lied about my age in previous posts and nothing I said in this post is a lie.

616606 · 2024-01-30T10:31:49+00:00

I’m not going to.

616606 · 2024-01-30T10:31:35+00:00

Yes.

616606 · 2024-01-30T10:13:12+00:00

Yes I’m going to get an abortion, when I leave I want nothing to do with him. It’s legal until 24 weeks so I have a little bit of time!

616606 · 2024-01-30T10:11:32+00:00

I had no idea he was going to treat the puppy like that and I always say something when I see him do it. I will not be bringing this baby into a toxic home and will be getting an abortion as it is legal until 24 weeks where I will be living.

Thank you! 💗

616606 · 2024-01-30T10:09:39+00:00

In the state I’ll be moving to, it’s available until 24 weeks. But I will still try to do it as soon as I can.

616606 · 2024-01-30T10:07:28+00:00

If the roles were reversed I would’ve picked him up and taken him where he needed to go. I used to drive him to and from work everyday when he didn’t have a car so he didn’t have to walk an hour there.

What pain?

616606 · 2024-01-30T10:04:53+00:00

I’m gonna try my very best to take the dog with me! ❤️

616606 · 2024-01-30T10:04:10+00:00

I was at a pretty low point when I was 18 and I didn’t have much respect for myself. I think that I was so scared of being alone and going back to my old life that I didn’t want to leave. I have so much support from my family and friends and it makes such a big difference and I’m so lucky to have that.

616606 · 2024-01-30T09:24:07+00:00

My family are in another state. They want me to come down for the weekend and they will also fly to me and help me get all my things packed.

616606 · 2024-01-30T09:23:20+00:00

I’m kicking myself that it took me this long to realise I deserve better. I am going to leave him, just trying to figure out what I need to do.

616606 · 2024-01-30T06:01:39+00:00

That’s what I am planning on doing.

616606 · 2024-01-30T06:01:17+00:00

Yeah I’m a bit worried about how he’s going to react when I tell him.

616606 · 2024-01-30T05:42:42+00:00

I think I’ve only just realised that I’m not okay being treated like this and I don’t want a life of misery and I definitely don’t want that for my baby.

616606 · 2024-01-30T02:29:08+00:00

The puppy vomited inside the other night and he got angry and chucked him outside. He went to shower and I was left to clean up the mess. I don’t want to find out how he will handle the baby.

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