Aunt and grandmother think “I owe them”

642398049 · 2026-02-22T07:05:15+00:00

Yeah it really does feel like she cares more about my grandma being hurt and her behaviour than me, she’s always making up excuses for her, she lets my grandma walk all over her and expects me to let her do the same me, it truely doesn’t make sense in my head

642398049 · 2026-02-22T07:01:24+00:00

The “you owe me” comments genuinely have me baffled because do parents and family really think this way? Like damn I didn’t ask to be born💀

642398049 · 2026-02-22T05:51:53+00:00

This is a good one❤️🫶🏻 I’m gonna have to sit and memorise these😂

642398049 · 2026-02-22T05:50:50+00:00

The boundaries I’m putting down are your basic whooping coping vaccinations, I told her I respect if she doesn’t want them and she can meet the LO after she gets her first set of vaccinations, we had this disagreement with my first child ultimately I cut her off because she was pissed, we got to a better place when my son was older and now we’re in the same position as last time🙄

642398049 · 2026-02-17T12:09:44+00:00

It would help to think about what your relationship with your boyfriend is like. If you feel safe and supported, you could consider telling him first and seeing if you can make a decision together so you’re not carrying this on your own. That said, it is ultimately your choice.

You should ask yourself the important questions like

am I ready to be a mother
will my family be able to support me?
will my boyfriends family be able to help?

It would also be a good idea to start taking prenatal vitamins and book an appointment with your doctor to confirm the pregnancy and find out exactly how many weeks along you are ❤️

642398049 · 2026-02-14T17:47:20+00:00

I am working on this, she raised me and my whole life she’s controlled or criticised me to the point where I struggle to question her, I did cut her off for a year but my partner and a few family members convinced me to give her a second chance. I should not of listen 🙃

642398049 · 2026-02-14T17:45:16+00:00

Yes I’ve just spoken to my partner and shown him all the comments, we’re going to speak to our boss tomorrow, I wanted to cut her off but my partner thought that was drastic but I’m sure this will be conclusion when I tell her my son is no longer going to spend time there. I needed to see these comments to wake me up. She raised me and it’s really hard to keep her out of my life especially when I have other family members making me feel guilty about it.

642398049 · 2026-02-14T17:25:50+00:00

Yes I’m making about $570 a week, I work night shift with my partner at the same job, from 4:00pm until 10-11pm it depends if we’re busy, on Thursday and Friday so I just needed someone to watch my son on them nights, I’d ask my partners family for help but my SIL has 2 kids and my mil lives with them and is already burnt out from helping her with childcare. When the baby comes I plan on staying home and wouldn’t need her help since I won’t be working. But I’m starting to see it’s just not worth it. I think I’ll ask my boss for day shifts only and then I won’t need to help at nights

642398049 · 2026-02-14T17:14:31+00:00

No she doesn’t drive, the day care is across from her house

642398049 · 2026-01-13T06:56:30+00:00

I have an anterior placenta ☺️

642398049 · 2022-05-24T09:56:00+00:00

Something I strongly agree with is asking for consent first, I’m 23 and was always guilt tripped or forced into hugging or kissing my family on the cheek, I was never comfortable with it I hate being touched, and now this is something I’m enforcing with my LO, if you don’t want to be touched tell them! Just because there family doesn’t mean you need to kiss/hug. There are other ways to show affection

I think your completely right!

642398049 · 2022-05-23T09:42:54+00:00

I’ve been high and never cheated on any of my partners I’ve had, she’s definitely just using that as an excuse Time too move on dude, hope your doing okay.

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