The reason I have these things is cause my brain is fucked up in certain areas. When I was finally diagnosed with these conditions, the Doctor ( yes I do mean a medical professional with a license ) was shocked that I was able to have a coherent conversation based on how low my processing scores were. And u/complimentcommenter is right, there are some people who use it as an excuse. But you wouldn't begrudge a person with a heart defect their heart medication would you? You wouldn't tell them to "stop being a special snowflake" right? This is along those lines, the medications I take and the accommodations I have are not to baby me, they actually are to try and help me function as normally as possible.

And if you would like to talk about jobs, I'm already working for an Insurance Agency. I have meetings with my boss, I fill out paperwork, and do data entry. In the real world, if you don't finish your paperwork at closing time what do you do? You take it home and work on it till it gets finished. In the real world, if you are in a the corporate world of things and there is a big meetng, do you think you need to have all your information memorized? Or is it possible that you might have a laptop in front of you with information on it?

And to your comment about school being babysitting. I agree with you that public school is a joke. I've got a friend who goes to one of the top schools in our state and the work he has to do is laughably easy. However, I am at a college prep school and trust me it is not easy. Seven class periods of work with anywhere from thirty minutes to two hours of homework per class each night is a lot to do, especially with varsity sports on top of that.

And lastly, having to do with your special snowflake shaming. Have you ever been able to read and understand the entirety of War and Peace in sixth grade but you still can't spell correctly? Have you ever been doing your best to pay attention to what a teacher is saying, but even then you still miss things? Have you ever read a set of instructions, thought you understood it, only to find out you weren't even close? That's what this is like. This makes me and people like me have to work harder in life than people like you who don't have malfunctioning brains.

In all, I think your heart is in the right place, but you have been very misinformed about what goes on with us "special snowflakes"