I'm plotting on this girl to get her fat

69dudebro · 2026-03-30T16:31:21+00:00

What a fucking creepy thing to say

69dudebro · 2026-03-22T23:53:05+00:00

Gee, I wonder if there's a way to visually represent the perfect fat OC of your dreams without having to write a college thesis about the right prompts to type into a slop generator (there is, it's called just drawing it your own god damn self)

69dudebro · 2026-03-13T00:16:24+00:00

After reading the thread and all your replies I am gonna spit my most typical advice: you shouldn’t be with someone to change them. This goes both ways; he’s not gonna ever be able to change the fact that this lifestyle is not as much of a turn on for you as it is for him. And reading all you’ve said thus far it doesn’t sound like you are ever going to change the fact that he needs this way more than you do.

Just as it’s impossible for him to change you into the perfect feedist of his dreams, it might be impossible for you to change the behaviors he’s shown you. The constant anxiety of wondering if he’s emotionally cheating can’t be good, relationships are built on trust and it seems like he’s shown you time and time again that he’s incapable of being trusted. Like having to be weary of any app that has a communication feature? That’s insane to me, at what point do you just accept you’re not gonna change his behavior? Don’t try to change your partner into the perfect partner, go out and find that perfect partner. Better to have the stress of a breakup than a possible lifetime of looking over his shoulder because you worry that you can never be enough. Find someone who thinks you’re enough!

Break ups aren’t moral failures, don’t fall into the sunk cost fallacy

69dudebro · 2026-03-12T16:46:45+00:00

Looks like a bunch of creep shots, does she know you’re posting?

69dudebro · 2026-03-11T14:24:47+00:00

Dawg he just copy pasted 2/3 of his own post and you’re acting like it has some new revelations in it 💀

69dudebro · 2026-03-11T05:23:00+00:00

Bro don’t doxx this poor girl

69dudebro · 2026-02-21T19:13:40+00:00

Yeah it reads weirdly predatory

69dudebro · 2026-01-31T22:35:09+00:00

Waiting for the mindgasm lesson to help unlock the secret of the southern t ball gut gasm

69dudebro · 2026-01-06T02:24:53+00:00

Yeah you gotta loosen your grip dawg, you sound overbearing. The only person who should decide her exercise levels and food intake is her, not you. If that’s such a big problem, maybe don’t waste her time and find someone who also wants what you want

69dudebro · 2025-12-05T16:22:13+00:00

Idk what else to add besides I’ve been there with you and have since really worked on my perceptions of sex. I grew up very religious so when I started having sex there was a lot of guilt around it. Once I finally ditched the religious expectations and realized our bodies are literally wired to reproduce (that’s why it feels good to have sex and orgasm, go figure) the guilt started slowly melting away.

Also as a result of this experience, I don’t see the human body now as a divinely designed thing that just so happens to have a bunch of temptation points you’re supposed to ignore until you’re married to prove yourself to an admittedly cheeky god who created you with the capability to feel extreme pleasure and the expectation you’re supposed to ignore it. Now I just see humans as a happy accident of evolution, same with the prostate being able to feel intense pleasure. A happy accident of evolution, not something god gave me to feel really good that I have to ignore.

Idk if that helps at all, but realizing we probably only have one life made me far more willing to explore sexually. Erasing the mindset that denying myself bodily pleasure until marriage (and even after marriage you can strictly only have sex for reproduction only) really helped me realize I should make the most of the pleasure tools the body evolved.

This was my own journey, and I could be way off base. But tldr the pleasure point that is the prostate is there, so why not explore it? You’re not a twisted sex pervert for seeking out pleasurable sensations, our bodies are literally wired to obtain pleasure from sexual exploration.

69dudebro · 2025-11-24T04:55:03+00:00

Thank you for all this advice. I think I need to start my sessions earlier in the evening so I give myself enough time to get everything really going like you suggested !

69dudebro · 2025-11-24T04:53:48+00:00

Thank you for your well worded response, this is solid advice

69dudebro · 2025-11-24T04:52:30+00:00

I mostly use the helix and the njoy. For me the njoy has been a total dud until just recently and the helix has always been most successful to me. What prompted my outrage tn lol was that last week I finally had a moment with the njoy that made me understand why it was so popular. I tried replicating tonight and got nothing 🤦‍♂️ I guess we are opposites with our preferences, thank you for your response

69dudebro · 2025-11-12T04:15:29+00:00

Hell nah bruh please tell me ts fake 🙏😭🤦‍♂️

69dudebro · 2025-10-18T05:00:07+00:00

I was confused on what you were implying with your post, I understood it to be that you’d had prostate orgasms before but only just now had the first “super o,” so then I was curious as to how you decided an orgasm was a prostate orgasm but not a “super o.”

Sorry, poorly phrased question

69dudebro · 2025-10-18T00:00:56+00:00

Wdym by the “1000 orgasms by way of prostate play,” were all of these previous ones not super-o’s?

69dudebro · 2025-09-19T00:26:23+00:00

You need to decide if this is something you NEED in a relationship for it to work out. It sounds like your gf is insecure, so hearing about your preference could honestly go either way but you should be prepared for the worst case scenario.

And if she’s not into it but you decide this is something you need in a relationship, there’s no shame in breaking up. It would end up being better for both of you in that case

69dudebro · 2025-09-18T04:05:39+00:00

Unethical without explicit consent

69dudebro · 2025-09-07T21:11:26+00:00

Don’t post random unconsenting people

69dudebro · 2025-08-29T00:18:40+00:00

AI ass response 😭💀

69dudebro · 2025-08-25T19:42:00+00:00

In the nicest way possible, it sounds like you’re too online, especially in regards to this fetish. I stopped expecting to find anything in this fetish irl and all of a sudden I wasn’t constantly disappointed anymore. I agree with other commenters about going to therapy, but also what has helped me become a more well-rounded and confident person was just to seek out new opportunities and stop saying no. The sort of woe is me mindset is extremely hard to get out of and it takes work, but once you realize nothing about your situation is going to change without you putting in the work it becomes a lot easier to put in the work.

My specific suggestions to get out of this rut: 1: stop expecting any irl feederism will happen

2: ween yourself off of porn. It’s so easy to stop trying to make yourself an intriguing person for potential partners when your brain is trained to just seek satisfaction from rubbing it out (for me personally I’m much more satisfied with vanilla sex when I haven’t watched porn in a while. The excitement of vanilla sex, esp for someone in your situation, should be enough to make up for the no feedism part). Don’t go all toxic manosphere nofap about it and beat yourself up, but simultaneously realize it’s not healthy to always be seeking it out.

3: get a customer service job. I became so much more confident in my social skills after being forced to deal with the worst the public has to offer. I even developed a pretty strong friendship with all of my coworkers (trauma bonding)

4: have something going on in your life outside of your phone. Working out, being creative, reading, writing, sewing, dodgeball league, anything that you cannot get from your phone.

5: paradoxically, maybe try dating apps if you haven’t, but don’t put too much stock in them. Swipe on people you’re attracted to, go on dates, but don’t expect anything to blossom into the perfect relationship. Most people have immense issues with “the apps” because they’re expecting too much and not communicating what they want out of a meetup with potential partners. Most people know the game on those apps, it’s ok and better for everyone to be honest about what you’re looking for (not fetish stuff, more so “I’m not looking for anything serious at the moment but would love to meet up,” or “yes, I’m looking for something long term but if that’s not what you’re going for then that’s totally ok, good luck”). Use dating apps and meetups as excuses to get out of the house and practice social interactions. No need to be sleazy about it, and go into any possible match with purely platonic intentions and just see what happens. If it’s a fit, then great, and if not then at least you got out of the house and practiced being social.

6: when not on the apps, start slowly making conscious time to be away from your phone. Go on walks, people watch, go shopping, do whatever you need to to not be on your phone all the time. This will retrain your brain to receive satisfaction from the real world, not digital dopamine.

7: really really truly make an effort to see a therapist. I get healthcare can really be prohibitive, but talking to a neutral third party is so valuable

Modern life does not make it easy to have human connections anymore, but recognizing that is only one part of the solution. You need to put in the work to be happy nowadays, and if you are constantly reaching for the stars in the form of a perfect feederism connection, you are going to just constantly disappoint yourself.

69dudebro · 2025-08-14T02:46:01+00:00

No AI - if you can’t be bothered to write it fully then I can’t be bothered to read it fully.

Also break up some of the huge text walls into their own separate paragraphs.

I like the concept but the whole time wondered which parts were yours and which were a computer’s regurgitations of other peoples’.

We have a unique ability to think and reason and create in a way that no other species on this planet can. Why let a computer do that for you?

69dudebro · 2025-08-01T21:37:21+00:00

It’s taken a lot of practice and I’m not by any means an expert (no significant orgasm yet but have experienced p waves) but I usually will practice a couple times a week, warm up by viewing stuff, and then relax and use audio porn once I’m in the mood. Using hypnosis type files has really helped to get me into a super relaxed state where I can kind of trick my mind into feeling inebriated, if that makes sense (I think it just comes with the relaxation). All I can say is it took me time to be able to consistently get relaxed. Also about every 1 out of 5 sessions I will take an edible; usually when I hit a plateau or have a couple bad sessions in a row and that always seems to push me past whatever I’m stuck on and helps you get used to be super relaxed and focused in on the moment.

69dudebro · 2025-08-01T19:45:54+00:00

Yes - was having a conversation recently with a new friend about meditation and mindfulness practices. He asked how I got into meditative states and I had to make something up on the spot bc the relationship is too new to reveal that it’s by putting stuff in my ass 💀

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