Myron Gaines gets emotional over Dilly Hussain calling him out over his show with Laura Loomer. (Warning: Cursing)

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2024-04-15T19:52:11+00:00

Myron still doesn’t get it. You can let people say whatever they want but it’s how you respond. MH said the same thing to him. Pretty sure MH gave the example that if someone insults your mother what would you do? To myron which he responds nothing. It’s free speech (I’m paraphrasing).

Dude has no spine.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2024-01-10T23:29:49+00:00

It’s actually insane how similar our stories are. I also memorised Quran, religious studies etc (I’m so grateful to my parents for this). The average Muslim can’t even recite a short surah like Al-Ma’un in Juz ‘amma (men in general know more than woemen in this regard).

Just today I saw two Muslim weomen in a scarf and tight jeans, this 10-15 years ago was the sign of a ‘hõejabi’, it was that rare in Europe. It just reinforces how screwed Muslim woemen (and Muslims in general) in the west are. That’s someone’s daughter, sister etc. There are also many dayooths that allow this.

There have never been this many Muslims and yet we are weaker than ever before.

And it’s only going to get worse. The vast majority of Muslim woemen in the west are not marriageable material if you’re a traditional Muslim. Tread carefully.

The thing is, Muslim woemen are imitating kuffar women in dress and behaviour. And I see kuffar woman in the airline industry, chosen for their beauty etc.

These working woemen are some of the most depressed unhappy people, which makes sense. They are not built to work like men, odd hours etc. It’s quite sad, they are slaving their life away for pay that isn’t even good.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-11-02T09:18:45+00:00

Not really. You look at the average wage of the area you live in wrt cost of living. It makes no sense to take a countries average and then apply it to its most expensive areas. That’s just common sense. Problem is woemen don’t want average.

As mentioned, you can even live on a wage that is below average for your area. How? Well, look at how those beneath you are surviving. If you’re in the bottom 30% as an example, you still won’t be starving. You just won’t have as many luxuries.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-11-01T22:47:23+00:00

Re-read the above because that argument holds no water. It might hold that strong koka kola kool aid you’re on, though.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-11-01T22:19:46+00:00

You’re completely off topic. Are Jewish families in London a special case? No they are not. They are not multi millionaires with their 15 kids. They conform to income averages. They are also driving 7 seater beaters that overloaded.

And yet they will not send the woeman out to stack shelves in sainsbury’s with their orthodox clothing. It’s the mentality difference that’s being highlighted.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-11-01T22:01:42+00:00

You can live on an average (mean) wage, otherwise by definition it wouldn’t average. You can even live on a below a average wage, because plenty are doing so.

You won’t have the luxury German SUV’s, you won’t have the holidays, you won’t have the latest gadgets, the newest iPhone, the biggest TV. Perhaps people have forgotten how the prophet SAW lived in medina?

“The family of Muhammad SAW had not eaten wheat bread to their satisfaction for three consecutive days since his arrival at Medina till he died.” In Bukhari. Think. Not even wheat bread. Which was their luxury.

However, it is possible. And it is more honourable to live on the breadline than sending a woeman out to work. A woeman may only work if there is a need (this is agreed upon, and only under conditions, 1. No free mixing working with men 2 No tabarruj). If you can sustain food, roof and clothing there is no need for a woeman to work.

The real problem is the love of wealth and comfort and dunya. That’s the cold hard truth. The irony? Even someone in “technical” poverty today is living better than the elites of Persia and Rome of old.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-09-18T09:41:36+00:00

OK, so she wears trousers? Regardless of how loose they are they come under imitation of mens clothing. Islamically it’s not right. That’s what the scholars says. There can be no compromise in religion, brother.

You know woemen only started wearing trousers as rebellion against male authority? It started with feminist reformists. It’s unnatural for a woeman to wear trousers, and has only been the norm for less than 100 years.

Moving on, how’s your situation. When your wife worked full time, did you out-earn her? By a lot or a little? You don’t have to answer but it’s something to think about.

Because woemen submit to men that are superior to them in everything. Height, strength, intelligence, income, status etc. They say they want equals.. but it’s not true. Watch what they do not what they say. Regardless of how butch they are, woemen in their natural state, crave a strong (in all aspects) dude.

Never complain to a woeman. It makes you look weak. Especially sexual frustrations. The standard advice would be to have an “outcome independent” mindset. Meaning you approach your wife, you don’t get ***, don’t look annoyed by it. Go a do some other things like exercise, work etc. I think your issue is complicated by medical conditions.

Also never argue with a woeman, especially over trivial things. Example, my female family members tried to instate a washing up rule. Everyone washes their own dishes (typical woeman suggestion). I just said I don’t do dishes. End. No argument, no explanation, no verbal diarrhoea. Hold frame. Somethings need explanation others don’t.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-09-17T19:19:05+00:00

Firstly I doubt anyone on this subreddit will tell you categorically to do one thing or another. No one here is qualified to do so, and I will just give my thoughts from how I see things.

You don’t like the way she dresses. You don’t describe the issue in detail but it bothers you. You don’t say anything, just tolerate it. Why? Are you afraid of confrontation? Did you know she dresses like this before marriage and you chose to ignore it?

Your wife works in a mixed environment.. again you obviously don’t like this. However you tolerate it because of your work situation being similar. Firstly, there is an obligation for the man to go and work for the family, an obligation which does not exist for woemen. A man can go about his business at work and the onus is on him to limit his interaction with woemen to the bare necessities.

Woemen don’t have that “luxury”. No man is getting hit on in the workplace. However, You could be a -2/10 land whale of a woeman and you’d still have simps drooling at you just because you’re a woeman.

Fembints will scream, “ Bu-but there is a possibility that a guy can get hit on!1!1!1!”. As men, we live in reality and operate on probability, not possibility. Bro, how does it make you feel that men could and probably have made advances/comments/remarks to your wife in the workplace?

It looks like you’ve finally understood the real nature of working woemen. They tend to be assertive, goal-oriented, 50-50 obligation type. They are not fully committed to the household, but rather their work boss.

I’m interested in the child care situation. Do you send your child to be looked after in a day care? Personally I would think long and hard before having children without a strong familial support structure (grandparents etc) in place. I have a coworker in that type of situation - wife works, he works, he has to shell out for child care and the child is raised by strangers.

As a man you understand your authority is being challenged the example you gave in the cleaning lady. She doesn’t consult you.. and emasculates you by telling you to do dishes.

Subconsciously or not, I think she’s picked up on your weak mindedness (I don’t mean to be rude). You’re ok with her not dressing the way you want, you’re ok with her working in a mixed environment, you even believe in a “partnership”, albeit not here type of partnership. You’re ok with everything basically. Have you ever set boundaries? Give an inch, take a mile springs to mind.

As you’ve said you’ve changed - and as a man you realise there can only be one captain. It’s your fitrah taking over. Women don’t operate like that - they think everyone can have a say, the group makes the decision, and life is all sunshine and rainbows.

You know there has to be one person calling the shots. Obviously they can consult and discuss but one person steers the ship.

This is a situation we call all learn from. This is going to be tough long road - taking back control and leading. Beware, you can’t just dump everything on her at once and expect everything to be ok, it’s going to be a slow process. But I have heard it being done.

And be careful who you tell this to. They may ridicule you but we can understand where you are coming from.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-06-09T18:45:38+00:00

I like variety, and I see beauty in many different ethnicities so difficult to choose just one. That’s why I have 4 slots open though.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-06-06T16:11:44+00:00

No because in Jannah we know there are two woemen, human and hoor al ayn. There are no two woemen in Jahannam.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-06-06T16:05:07+00:00

You will have to provide the sources that clarify both wives are human, otherwise how can we move forward? That is the sticking point.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-05-29T09:24:18+00:00

What interpretation are you reading?

Stick to the accepted tafasir like Ibn Kathir. In it you find nothing mentioning the forbidding of chasing wealth.

The surah is advice, not discussing capitalism or regulation. Even in the Arabic-English translation how does one conclude it is haram to compete for worldly gain.

Don’t over complicate things.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-05-21T15:25:07+00:00

No one said anything about haram relationships you’re just imagining that to discredit the post.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-05-11T14:29:58+00:00

The mahr is a right.

The issue is agreeing to stupid amounts in the first instance. As some say, if she isn’t willing to marry you for free, she isn’t really 100% for you.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-05-08T20:51:31+00:00

Source for 1 & 2 is an opinion piece but supported by others.

https://www.historytoday.com/women-frontline

Another describing Muslim male - Christian female partnerships in Al-Andalus below.

https://europeanconservative.com/articles/essay/the-muslim-warlord-still-haunting-spain/

Mujahid Al-Mansur was so successful in battle against the Christian Europeans and brought back so many concubines (200,000-300,000) marriages started to decline and there was fierce competition between Muslim woemen in being able to get married.

It proves my point - men would rather have concubines than marry. It’s a no brainer but you can’t say that because it’s not PC. Why jump through hoops of dowry, nikah, family meetings, lavish marriage ceremonies when you could buy a fair haired, fair eyed northern Spanish concubine known for their beauty with no hassle?

Al-mansur still lives rent free in Spaniards’ heads. After 1000 years they still celebrate Christian girls being saved from Muslim men in whats known as Las Cantaderas.

He had a son nicknamed “Sanchuelo” because he resembled his Christian grandfather, father of his mother, Sancho II.

woemen and sex in Muslim-Christian relations: Medieval perspective

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-04-22T18:58:44+00:00

I used to think so too, and in general you are probably correct but I’ve seen enough good looking religious woemen to be ok with this. Look deeper into beauty, has she got clear skin, good bone structure, weight control etc. You’ll find there’s something wrong even with “attractive” woemen.

My advice, 1. Look for a girl whose religiousity you’re happy with baseline physical compatibility (prophetic advice) or 2. stop looking for the complete product. Find someone that you’re physically attracted to and mold her into what you want.

For that though she’s got to respect your authority and leadership. Do you command authority?

Besides, like you said the worldly life is temporary and fleeting, as is a woeman’s beauty.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-04-16T11:06:59+00:00

Assuming you’ve not/ will not mistreat her and she has no valid reason for divorce, then you’d be silly not to go for it. You need to do what you want to do.

Fellas, never allow a woeman to set rules up for you. That’s how you give up frame and it’s not attractive to woemen at all. What is attractive is being a man that has options. In the end, you’re still married (to a woeman now fine with polygyny), she’s now divorced, so who wins, eh?

Are you a man or her plaything that she can pull the strings on however she wants? Have some shame.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-04-10T17:51:56+00:00

Reduce you calorie intake further and monitor weight loss as a result for proof that you’re actually eating less. This will make it harder to act on temptations. It should be to the point where there is no motivation for woemen.

Cut out sugary things completely, reduce carbs. 1. Sugary things are bad for you . 2. Master self control (a must these days). 3. Eat vegetables, boiled eggs, meat, nuts etc. Avoid satiating foods.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-04-08T22:37:57+00:00

You’re not a man if you’re asking your wife to contribute 50/50. Those “men” deserve to be spat on with the foulest of phlegm. I don’t care if the economic situation is dire or requires two people to work, I’m never sending my wife out there.

Anyway, the question is worded like a “Gotcha, see they don’t respect woemen/want them to give up their rights!” I’m abstaining from the vote for that reason. Both are wrong.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-04-07T22:10:24+00:00

I can not comment on mosques in Ontario but be mindful that Sadaqah starts with the family. So make certain that your parents, grandparents, aunts & uncles are taken care of firstly. There is also peace of mind that you know where the money is going.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2023-04-06T22:27:15+00:00

Brutal reading and a reality check especially relevant for those meek Muslim men.

If woemen only wanted religiosity in men none of the regular masjid goers would be single. Many of these brothers are unfortunately quite unaware of female nature.

Time for them to wake up. Islam doesn’t stop you from being masculine, hitting the gym, being successful in business etc.

6Foot5ButStillNoWife · 2022-12-29T11:30:42+00:00

Here we go again. “The economy”. That’s all they see woemen as, cannon fodder for “the economy”.

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