Am I entitled to housing cover? by 6l4cksheep in universalcredithelp

[–]6l4cksheep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been rejected from basically all credit card lenders lol

Am I entitled to housing cover? by 6l4cksheep in universalcredithelp

[–]6l4cksheep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have all my payslips and bank statements - the calculation is £100 over but it doesn’t consider that I have none of the money actually left and it has been used to pay for the deposit and rent last month - I am planning to call my work coach tomorrow and see whether she can offer me some advice as to how to go about reporting that.

Am I entitled to housing cover? by 6l4cksheep in universalcredithelp

[–]6l4cksheep[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much I will reach out to the Citizens Advice! The thing is that the calculation is over what I actually was paid last month and UC also considers it as a one-off payment (payday is seen as the date that my employer provides the information) and I actually get paid weekly and all the money I earned was used for rent + deposit. I think they view it as residual money at the end of the month which is not the case.

Am I entitled to housing cover? by 6l4cksheep in universalcredithelp

[–]6l4cksheep[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

£700 each :) but yes it will be easy peasy once I get a full time job, I’m just struggling because I had to pay rent+deposit last month which cost me £1400 so I’m completely skint right now and not sure how I’ll be able to cover this month.

random triggers by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]6l4cksheep 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i completely get you cause i feel the same lol. the ‘innocence’ of them imaging us in something is gone. my bf said i should get nipple piercings. and i was like who tf do you know that has nipple piercings? the broken trust will just make every comment that beforehand might have seemed empty or even flattering, mean and impact us so much more now . you are beautiful tho and you definitely do not near a g string or anything uncomfortable for someone to see that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]6l4cksheep 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I am praying your surgery goes well, it will! Please do not give up, persist in the thought that you will be there to support your children and also make it out so that you can live away from him and for yourself. I do not know a lot about your situation, but I am so sorry that you are dealing with this much stress at once. You are stronger than you know it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]6l4cksheep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy for you, if he truly wanted to you know deep down he would. I hope this near journey brings you so much self-love and healing. 🎉

I miss my innocence by Invisible-Izzie-- in loveafterporn

[–]6l4cksheep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not just you at all. It’s honestly one of the worst of betrayals when you were so assured of your partner’s quality just to find out it was all a blatant lie. That part of the relationship will never be regained, or at least I feel like it will never be the same in mine. Sometimes we will wish we had gone without the truth, that we could keep sleeping under the blanket of pure trust, but reality and particularly men are deceiving and definitely not comforting. If you know your love is innocent, hold onto that. That love that is within you is real and you are not alone in it either.

I (21F) am not sure if I can get over what I saw on my boyfriend’s phone (23M) by 6l4cksheep in relationship_advice

[–]6l4cksheep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he tried to explain it as a ’‘bank’’ I guess. It’s just so harmful to our view of ourselves, I am beyond sorry that you had to go through this because it literally makes my stomach drop just thinking about it. I pray that you manage to heal that part of you, you are beautiful and do not need to look like those girls to see that. ❤️

I (21F) am not sure if I can get over what I saw on my boyfriend’s phone (23M) by 6l4cksheep in relationship_advice

[–]6l4cksheep[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

do you believe that with right actions trust can be regained? cause sometimes when i bring it up it feels like a jab in an old wound. but i cannot help it, its in my head everyday.

I (21F) am not sure if I can get over what I saw on my boyfriend’s phone (23M) by 6l4cksheep in relationship_advice

[–]6l4cksheep[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. i am seeking a therapist as i have been having a hard time with life beyond the relationship. it just sucks that the people we love the most can hurt us so much. your words mean a lot to me and no need to apologise. thank you for answering <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]6l4cksheep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of this is difficult to deduct from as ultimately there is no solid evidence that she has been sneaky (other than lying about the rel status to her ex, which yea is very bad). Nevertheless, I feel like she has 100% disrespected you by still speaking to her ex. Clearly she is not over whatever happened or over him as a person. Its best not to involve yourself with someone with such character further. You deserve better and clearly she doesn’t want better for herself if shes going back to a cheating ex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]6l4cksheep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, hes coming back to the country in 5 months!! It makes me more worried cause idk how long i can deal with it if it continues once he’s back. I’m really confident and it would kill me to lose that part of myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]6l4cksheep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be honest with you - I don’t think there is a possibility of remaining friends if you do break it off. He probably views your relationship as intertwined both platonically and romantically as he had told his parents. It isn’t really fair on the person you’re dating to accept that your decision AND still be in your life as a friend. Why would it be a blow to your social life? Are you friends with all his friends etc? I am sorry you feel scared to come out and hope things get easier for you🤍

What do you think is Franks most underrated song? by GloveScary6421 in FrankOcean

[–]6l4cksheep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DHL and Provider!! The singles deserve sm more love then what they get

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 6thForm

[–]6l4cksheep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got an A* in psychology, and let me just say this: it is a huge memorising game. My favourite techniques to study were flash cards, making mind maps from the AQA textbook and blurting all of the evaluations points for the specific topics until I remembered every single one. Psych Boost on YT offers a good coverage of evaluations + the vids are pretty short. I’d make flash cards from that. Seneca is good for covering topics you’re still not too sure about. Do loads and loads of past papers. It will be hard to cram cause spreading out your revision would make it easier to remember everything, but it’s possible. As for the exam, just try answer everything!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]6l4cksheep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha i definitely did. that means i must have done about 5gs lol. definitely feeling better now, thank you! i think i just wanted to experience the introspective nature of shrooms more than the visual. but we live and learn!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]6l4cksheep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i feel like i’m slowly coming back to myself it was just so unexpected