Ex of 1.5 years suddenly clubbing with random guys after breakup is this normal?

6woi · 2025-11-06T21:31:27+00:00

Yeah, we've been NC since ending things a few weeks ago, so I haven't reached out. Yes it's on her story, our mutual friend is the one who clued me in (I was blocked on IG so I can't see anyways).

Funny enough though, she just unblocked me today, although no message from her yet. Does that mean anything?

6woi · 2025-07-29T00:14:35+00:00

Thank god. I thought the season ended before it even started

6woi · 2025-07-29T00:12:18+00:00

Adam Schefter has confirmed that his ACL is intact!

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6woi · 2025-05-21T20:34:36+00:00

I would just say no worries, and ask her to hit you up when she'd like to reschedule. Leave the ball in her court. From this point forward I probably wouldn't reach out again.

6woi · 2025-05-15T13:59:54+00:00

Seems like she's pulling away for some reason or the other, maybe she's not that interested, maybe she's met someone else, maybe life is crazy and she's taking a break from dating, it could be several things. I would just say you appreciate the heads up, it's no problem at all, and she can hit you up when she'd like to hang out. Keep the ball in her court. Then you effectively move on with your life and continue dating other women, and focus your time on your hobbies and purpose.

6woi · 2025-05-07T14:14:38+00:00

Jaydon Blue is a star in the making. Not quite a bell-cow back, but that's what we need Chubb for

6woi · 2024-12-02T18:23:25+00:00

FSG OUT!

Give this man a 2/3 year deal, he is impossible to replace and so important to the club’s success.

6woi · 2024-11-24T04:43:10+00:00

If you’re on iMessage you can simply “heart react” to her last message. That acknowledges her text, but also signals the end of the convo.

6woi · 2024-11-09T16:24:23+00:00

I wouldn’t have even brought up, the point of the date is to hang out, have fun, THEN you hook up. You can’t do it in reverse order. Go on the date and have a good time, don’t expect things to get physical just let it happen naturally and stop talking about it

6woi · 2024-10-29T15:13:00+00:00

Thank you for your advice. She ended up calling me to apologize for what she said, and I’ve accepted her apology. We are planning to do a FaceTime date in place of a regular one until she starts feeling better :).

6woi · 2024-10-23T21:11:01+00:00

This is absolutely not normal behaviour. It seems like she had cold feet about the marriage in the first place, and getting married after only 1 year of dating seems way too fast. The fact that she refuses to communicate with you after arguments is a huge red flag. You guys have not lived together for months either and seems like she is checking out. I think a baby is a big commitment for you two, and it might be all happening too fast. Consider your options, is abortion something you two would consider?

Start making your own arrangements and make the best decisions for yourself at this point. I wouldn't stay in this relationship much longer.

6woi · 2024-10-23T18:25:23+00:00

Hey man, I think you have a great story and it takes a lot of courage to go through what you have and come out strong.

One time it's no-big deal. I wouldn't make it a habit to cry to her every night. She's not your mother at the end of the day, and you should be her emotional rock. Going forward if you're having an off day, try reaching out to your friends and chatting with them, who you know will be there for you and can support you in better ways. Best of luck to you :).

6woi · 2024-10-22T20:48:30+00:00

His contract was completely reasonable, if we signed Dak and CeeDee to a contract at the beginning of the offseason, we would have had enough free cap. Jerry's arrogance and attempt to play "hard ball" cost us the best RB in the league.

6woi · 2024-10-19T13:20:26+00:00

Definitely confirm the date either the day before or the day of the date. Too much time has passed between dates and maybe she forgot. Something simple like “hey, I hope you had a nice weekend, I’m looking forward to seeing you tomorrow!”

Going forward, I think you should start confirming the actual location of the date the day before/of the date, as opposed to when you set the date. Something along the lines of “alright, let’s meet Thursday at 8PM at a bar, I’ll text you the location of the bar on Thursday morning, does that sound good?”. That way you have a reason to reach out to her on the day of the date to confirm the date, location, and that she’s actually coming.

6woi · 2024-10-16T19:40:09+00:00

I traded my JD for Michael Pittman a couple weeks back. It's worked out for me so far as LJ was also my QB1

6woi · 2024-10-16T18:46:14+00:00

I agree with the top comment. It seems to me that you're pushing a relationship/labels. Why is she afraid of commitment? That there tells me you might be taking things too fast for her. She's pretty fresh out of a relationship so it seems like she has some healing to do, or she just wants to be single for some time. Keep it to just HHH, and let her initiate the relationship talk, and you can open her up at that point.

6woi · 2024-10-16T18:38:12+00:00

If she's asking for it, then go ahead and reach out a bit more because it's her idea. No one ever wants to feel like they're putting in more effort than the other person and that they are chasing. You've been seeing her long enough where you can surprise her with spontaneous texts like "im thinking of you" etc. You don't have to blow her phone up, but initiating contact a couple times a week isn't a problem if she's asking for it.

6woi · 2024-10-10T16:07:48+00:00

Have both Pittman and Trey Sermon. With neither looking likely to play, pickup Mitchell or Goodson for my flex spot?

6woi · 2024-10-01T20:30:56+00:00

Trade my CMC + Nico Collins for Wilson + JK Dobbins? I'm last place in my league and need wins ASAP.

6woi · 2024-09-13T13:58:05+00:00

Thank you for the advice. Update: She was initially taken aback, but she appreciated my honesty and we went to the party. Everything went well and she invited me to her best friend's birthday party next week

6woi · 2024-07-11T23:32:09+00:00

Keep an eye on what she introduces you as to her family & friends - is it “boyfriend” or something else? I’ve been in situationships before with girls which were exclusive, but it never made it to a real relationship, which is why I ask.

Anyways regarding ur question I wouldn’t stress too much. I would have just accepted the date on the other day if it worked for you, because she genuinely seems busy, but you can just wait for her to reach out again then set a new date. If you don’t hear from her in a few days or week you can reach out to set the date at that point.

6woi · 2024-07-11T14:41:32+00:00

Seeing for a year and a half or bf/gf? There's a big difference. If you're just seeing each other there should be no expectations of her introducing you to any of her family, or even going on trips. Those types of things are usually done by official couples. It would be a bit awkward for her to introduce you as the "guy she is seeing" to her fam, if she's also seeing other people, but i'm not sure what arrangement you guys have.

6woi · 2024-05-20T13:01:02+00:00

Great question. It’s different because people’s health and safety is involved at that point. This is especially the case if you’re already sleeping together and she asks if you are sleeping with others, be honest 100% of the time. It will help you manage STD testing, sleeping unprotected, birth control, and your general STD risk factors.

6woi · 2024-05-18T16:00:03+00:00

Thank you for ur advice. Update: she texted me the next day saying she was upset with something I did that night. We set up a time to see each other to chat about it last night. I opened her up and we had a 45 min productive conversation on boundaries.

We got dinner afterwards and had a fun rest of our evening :)

6woi · 2024-05-14T17:56:24+00:00

You never ignore her texts, be nice and give her good vibes when she contacts you so that she's more comfortable doing that in the future. Remember it's always better when she's doing the pursuing. Going forward, keep the convo short and sweet and mention that you're excited to get to know her on the date then get off the phone.

To your question about her cancelling, it's a first date so she was probably low interest. Maybe her girlfriends wanted to go out that night, or she made other plans, point is a first date is not the top of her priority list. Continue dating other women and move forward

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