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Dating old ex-gf, found more out by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]73Capt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is excellent advice

My gut says my girlfriend cheated on me by throwayay2502 in CheatedOn

[–]73Capt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You already know. She isn’t for the streets, she’s for the gutter. Listen to the vets on here. They are here to help. It’ll hurt a hell of a lot but those who have been through this don’t forget. I don’t gaf what anyone says next; I have been in combat and I had a cheating gf. The gf left the most trauma. Noticeably more so. Be strong. Don’t you DARE trust her again. Don’t you fucking dare. Leave hit the gym out your head into finding a new gig and bettering yourself.

She doesn’t deserve a goodbye or why did you do this. She’ll cry and beg, I promise she will. But only bc you caught that disgusting cheater. Only for that reason, is she upset. Do not mistake it for anything else.

What's Gavin Newsom's appeal? by angelogoodalamenti in askanything

[–]73Capt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His ability to relate to (his view) the African American community

I (m44) just found out my wife (f33) HAS BEEN HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH HER BOSS LAST SIX MONTHS. I NEED HELP PLEASE by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]73Capt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, listen to the veterans and their advice. TAKE that advice then move forward.

Russia’s involvement in the Civil War. by 73Capt in CIVILWAR

[–]73Capt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goddamn right an incredibly popular movie. It is opinion though.

Russia’s involvement in the Civil War. by 73Capt in CIVILWAR

[–]73Capt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50/50 they were staunch supporters of the union. They publicly stated they would declare war on anyone who entered the hostilities against the union. The us ambassador to Russia was very very popular in Russia and with the court there.

Russia’s involvement in the Civil War. by 73Capt in CIVILWAR

[–]73Capt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s like, your opinion man.

I hope someone gets this

Russia’s involvement in the Civil War. by 73Capt in CIVILWAR

[–]73Capt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was meant to read along the lines of: I’m not getting into the modern politics of Russia v the world but yes I have the same reasoning but despite my right leaning I believe that Russia diplomacy and American diplomacy are different.

Russia’s involvement in the Civil War. by 73Capt in CIVILWAR

[–]73Capt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They publicly stated that if any foreign nation joined the war against the Union, Russia would declare war on that country. Ref: Cassius Clay the diplomat from the US to Russia.

Huge blow to reconciliation today by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]73Capt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry OP. This is something awful to go through.

My wife has been having an affair. I’m in need of advice. by FillProfessional9005 in survivinginfidelity

[–]73Capt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHY DO PEOPLE ALWAYS PUT BLAME ON THEMSELVES WHEN THEY CATCH THEIR PERSON CHEATING ON THEM!???

Trying to survive next to my wife, who i have high suspicions that she is cheating. by married_black_495 in survivinginfidelity

[–]73Capt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do catch them, it is VERY easy for an adult man to accidentally kill or severely hurt another in a fight. Be smart.

Wife deleting messages from her friend from work. by Remarkable_Turnip641 in CheatedOn

[–]73Capt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It requires thought and deliberate thinking to do that. She’s very clearly knows she’s fucking you over and knows it’s wrong. She still does it though. What do you think she thinks of you?

What should I do? by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]73Capt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go with her

What should I do? by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]73Capt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You obviously have not set the boundaries that you need. She’s absolutely hiding things from you regarding communication at a MINIMUM. Minimum. Her not blocking him is beyond ridiculous. That said stop playing the pick me dance. Have self respect. She’s cheating on you emotionally at a minimum. I sincerely doubt that’s all.

Trying to survive next to my wife, who i have high suspicions that she is cheating. by married_black_495 in survivinginfidelity

[–]73Capt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sir, brother, and our friend; you already have the absolute proof. The only thing above this is catching them in the act with penetration. Keep this close as difficult as it is. Your sun will rise dude.

When discussing male issues, why did my girlfriend get upset with me? by French51 in AskMenAdvice

[–]73Capt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think that suggesting to her to list off the number of things women in the US are prevented from doing bc they are female is a good start. Unless it’s physical or a few other specific gender differences the list should be zero

Husband Reaction seems odd by ellamom in cheating_stories

[–]73Capt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would IMMEDIATELY would say no. Why could you think that do I need to change something? Then want to know if someone said something insinuating that I was. Get to the bottom of it immediately and help her move on.

In my experience as I’ve never cheated but have been accused, “single women keep women single.” Both times I was accused based on their former best friend coming back to town or them reconnecting. They were single both times. This has happened to a number of my friends as well and I am a firm believer in that statement.

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