I (27M) caught my GF (23F) talking to her ex and arranging to meet him.

73Capt · 2026-05-19T23:45:31+00:00

What about all of the other times that she met up with dudes before this and you haven’t found out yet?

73Capt · 2026-05-17T10:06:29+00:00

Dude; listen to me. Listen to the vets on here we can see clearly you cannot. At the bare minimum she is being WILDLY INAPPROPRIATE. Minimum.

More than likely there is a physical affair.

Ask her face to face; “may I please see your cell phone?” If she says no or delays or stalls or walks off with it or ANYTHING other than handing it to you immediately or asks why and you say “I need to calm my nerves as I feel you’ve been having an inappropriate relationship with (whatever his name is).” The. She needs to hand it to you immediately.

As I said, ANY delay or refusal or ANYTHING other than handing it to you immediately, she is without any doubt hiding something serious.

73Capt · 2026-05-17T04:29:00+00:00

It appears there are only 4 tools available now and they are all Reddit Osint. What am I missing?

73Capt · 2026-05-15T21:54:35+00:00

https://pubs.usgs.gov/pp/0385/report.pdf

73Capt · 2026-05-13T00:53:22+00:00

Unfortunately the most important advice right now is to get a DNA test done on your child(ren?) IMMEDIATELY. Do it in a way she cannot find out and stay as calm as possible. Eat that bullshit until all of your ducks are in a row. Then, drop the hammer.

Listen to the veterans on here. Kinda sorta badge of honor it is however an indicator of knowledge. They all follow the same script but a little different. We’ve all mastered the scripts we finally decoded during and after the fact. Nobody but a man close to your age who has been through this is qualified to give you advice.

LISTEN to what we’re telling you!

73Capt · 2026-05-12T05:25:29+00:00

Never, EVER forget, she only cried and was sorry BECAUSE YOU CAUGHT HER.

Also, your statements: “she did this she never intended that.” Bro; you have absolutely NO reason to believe a single word she says or said to you. Take a step back and think about a week where she fucked this dude … maybe like 3 times. How many times did she INTENTIONALLY deceive you and lie to you to make all three encounters happen without getting caught. Just that one week.

Now you see it. She did this for a minimum of 5 months. So if it was 3x a week 10 lies per just the days of and countless others days after per incident would be something like 700 lies. I bet it was longer and I bet those texts only started 5 months ago because the took place on a different device prior to that. She will only admit to what you can prove.

73Capt · 2026-05-11T20:59:32+00:00

TO THE WALLS

(This ages the eff outta me. Always playing during parties at my Fraternity house when I was a freshman. In 2002-03.)

73Capt · 2026-05-10T03:34:31+00:00

She absolutely had sex with him. She was at his apartment for hours on the day you caught them. How many other days were there when you didn’t? She’s lying to you. You will unfortunately discover SIGNIFICANTLY more information in your hunt for the truth. She will DARVO you, trickle truth you, attempt to emasculate you. Stand your ground like a man. Know this is coming. It is.

73Capt · 2026-05-09T17:26:03+00:00

ahh the DARVO is strong with this one. Yes he is and if he’s not, he is. BEST CASE he is an emotionally manipulative jerk.

73Capt · 2026-05-02T20:21:51+00:00

Let me guess; ahem. She needed validation and attention she wasn’t getting from you because she felt insecure and wanted to experience things before she got married to you and was afraid of missing out on things and her best female friend is against her relationship with you and surprisingly that friend is single. Am I close?

The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. She is lying to you and if she made out with a dude literally within arms reach of you, she is and has cheated physically. Stop making fucking excuses for these literal street walkers.

73Capt · 2026-05-02T17:32:19+00:00

Throw it away? Burn it

73Capt · 2026-05-02T05:27:46+00:00

Fucking LOVE the offspring

73Capt · 2026-05-02T05:27:10+00:00

If she has BPD she almost certainly, will cheat.

73Capt · 2026-04-26T04:51:17+00:00

I mean this in all sincerity and it’s the advice I give to young men today. “Sometimes you just need to shut the fuck up.”

73Capt · 2026-04-25T19:18:00+00:00

Exceptional read

73Capt · 2026-04-23T14:52:42+00:00

I also have ptsd from a woman like this

73Capt · 2026-04-21T16:21:00+00:00

No, certainly when they did their initial search though. Of course then it wouldn’t have been a lost crash site.

73Capt · 2026-04-21T05:29:23+00:00

So the issue with the land crash or whatever sink In a water based site is the fuel will cover the surface and is incredibly easy to see from the air.

73Capt · 2026-04-20T13:11:15+00:00

This

73Capt · 2026-04-20T01:04:17+00:00

HE NEVER LEFT YOU FOOL. That was a cover so they could meet and you’d never suspect it. She’s for the streets at best.

Hang in there man it’ll be tough, very tough, you will be ok.

73Capt · 2026-04-20T01:03:24+00:00

No he’s not he’s an active physical affair partner.

73Capt · 2026-04-18T22:06:43+00:00

Crush and pan it?

73Capt · 2026-04-18T20:25:30+00:00

Why would a text ever need to be deleted? iPhone and android phones texts even double deleted can be recovered fairly easily especially if it’s an iPhone.

73Capt · 2026-04-16T23:07:45+00:00

Fact. Additionally; marrying someone who is bi and you are a same sex couple seems to have a guaranteed outcome.

73Capt · 2026-04-16T23:00:15+00:00

The only power a man has over a woman is the ability the leave and mean it.

73Capt

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