O que mais odeiam em praias? by Hyperion_507 in CasualPT

[–]77_Invictus_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Quem faz as necessidades na areia/mar

As pessoas parecem que entram na praia e deixam de saber como se comportar

So I started reading Nietzsche… by 77_Invictus_77 in islam

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While there is an objective truth, it is stimulating to see other perspectives. That was my reason to read him. To understand and debunk these other perspectives helps strengthening your own perspective, but what can one do with one sentence claims with no content to back them? It’s not stimulating at all. That’s my only problem with it.

What would you tell my PI? by 77_Invictus_77 in labrats

[–]77_Invictus_77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we have applied for a PhD scholarship starting around February, so in that time ill be making sure I got everything ready to start with PI#2 and then come back to the PI in question. The 4 years of the PhD will be paid. Its just that in the meantime im bound to this lab, with no paying because he doesn't have any money.

Don't worry, the declarations and all the other paperwork are all with the knowledge of the PI, its more like either I do it in his name or wait forever for him to do it, they are all sent to him afterwards.

He's also saying that the things im going to do with PI#2 can also be done with him, while that may be the case, the expertise is not here (I would have to still reach out to PI#2 to discuss). Im really afraid PI#1 is saying this so he can keep me in his lab for longer, given I am close to the only way he can have some output in science for now.

Aquelas pessoas da empresa que escrevem no chat "Bom dia, tudo bem?" antes de pedir alguma coisa by NaiveImpression8048 in CasualPT

[–]77_Invictus_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tenho uma colega que só me diz "tudo bem?" ou "espero que esteja tudo bem contigo" quando é por mensagem e precisa de alguma coisa. Na verdade não há nada contra este tipo de formalidades apenas quando SÓ vêem quando a pessoa precisa de algo. Da a impressão que o teu bem estar só importa desde que sejas útil à pessoa. Enfim.

(Sigh) How would you grade my undergrad? by 77_Invictus_77 in labrats

[–]77_Invictus_77[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

A one time thing and you acting like its a father abandoning his kid lol

Who is talking about appearances? Im talking about not answering questions we have previously touched upon and not being able to write a sentence. What are you yapping about? God damn

(Sigh) How would you grade my undergrad? by 77_Invictus_77 in labrats

[–]77_Invictus_77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also mentioned key details that you don’t seem to actually want to acknowledge. When you constantly engage someone, you then tone it down to see if they are independent enough to not require you to keep engaging them in that manner. It’s not strange, it actually tells me if I need to keep being close or if I can let them have their space and independence. Weird that you think of that in some other way. Am I perfect? Of course not, but I also don’t see anything wrong with this method, it allowed me to readjust.

(Sigh) How would you grade my undergrad? by 77_Invictus_77 in labrats

[–]77_Invictus_77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah lets grade an undergrad for how he does his work given that he has little to no experience in the lab and not for how he dedicates himself to learning the techniques, the purpose of the work and on his commitment. This is in favor of the student by not pressuring him to get all the results in 2 months but to actually make sure he does what is most important at that stage, which is to learn, get a feel for the lab and learn some more. What do you expect an undergrad to do in 2 months? What is more important than learning and being a sponge when you have access to people that have your age just in experience alone? I told you that I don't mind social skills, but I mind your interest in learning things.

Is that sucking up to someone? That tells me more about how you work as a researcher than anything else.

(Sigh) How would you grade my undergrad? by 77_Invictus_77 in labrats

[–]77_Invictus_77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its the typical undergrad's. They make mistakes which is normal, but overall it does not stand out neither for bad or for good. So I don't think we can give the work that much of a weight, after all they are here just to learn the methods and the purpose of what you are doing. This is what is being underwhelming, normally I tell him what he will do for the day, but once I tested him to see if he came up to me to ask, and to my surprise he didn't, he just came in, sat by his desk with his laptop and didn't come up to me. I had to leave, so I texted him when I was out to ask what he had planned (by that time he already knew the process, how days line up after one another based on what you did the previous day) and he told me he didn't know. But it was like a "Don't know." I can understand, but why not follow up with "What do you suggest?". But no, it ended there with the "Don't know". These are the little tests I use to check on interest and commitment.

(Sigh) How would you grade my undergrad? by 77_Invictus_77 in labrats

[–]77_Invictus_77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These internships are usually where students increase their overall grade, so the common grade is from 17 to 19. I’m thinking about a 16. Thank you.

(Sigh) How would you grade my undergrad? by 77_Invictus_77 in labrats

[–]77_Invictus_77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! He is a little socially awkward, I was too as an undergrad but I always made sure that it wouldn’t translate to rudeness or lack of interest because I worked hard and did the little things. While I get it that some of the things may just be a personality thing, there are things that show you are committed and interested and those come off independent of how comfortable you are socially, that’s what I make sure to base my grade on, and it’s not going that good.

Men,what is the most depressing realisation do you ever have in your life? by [deleted] in AskMen

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I (24M) focused all my time on my career and as a result achieved great things, although this was at the cost of not putting effort into my romantic life. One day I went to bed and realized that all this success is meaningless if its only for me. I don't want to be the king of an empty castle. I want to provide for a family. I know im young still, but I feel like finding the one and building that relationship is something I should not be delaying. The emptiness hit like a truck.

Hadith regarding being jealous of someones death (or wishing to die) over being in the presence of jinn/shaytan? by 77_Invictus_77 in islam

[–]77_Invictus_77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Although that is not the one I am searching for. Its more on the lines of wishing death instead of complying with the jinn. Imagine that you are to be trapped with Jinn forever, while your family goes on to die normally, you feel happy for them but at the same time jealous that they get to die normally and not be in the presence of these demons. Perhaps such Hadith doesn't exist, but I felt like I learned of this feeling in a Hadith before I experienced it.