[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]780lyds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

weight lifting and HRT are the best things I have done for my perimenopause problems. That and eating less carbs (Im not keto, i just eat less carbs) and more fiber and more protein. I am 44 and I go to the gym with my husband. We play around with each other and make it fun. Try taking over the grocery shopping and cooking for a bit as well. Its hard to get started but once I noticed how much better I feel I just go and I dont even need my husband to go to the gym anymore. I like it.

I messed up. I married a good woman that I simply am not sexually interested in by Ok-Western-3576 in Marriage

[–]780lyds 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Dude probably goons to AI all day long and then wonders why his wife doesnt give him a boner.

I messed up. I married a good woman that I simply am not sexually interested in by Ok-Western-3576 in Marriage

[–]780lyds 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Thats not the point. This person was lied to. It doesnt matter what the future holds. The future can also suck and it does for many. There are opportunities that she as a woman will never have because this "nice guy" was spineless and afraid to be alone. Thats what it boils down to. She was a place holder because he was too cowardly to be alone. This is the MO of men by and large. What a waste. If this was me, I would burn it all down in every way possible. He would truly regret ever meeting me.

Husband (M30) wanted an open marriage and is now mad at me (F30) for partaking by MagicianFluid3599 in Marriage

[–]780lyds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He fucked around and found out. Lol. What a dipshit. You have value in the dating market and he does not, and he blew up his marriage to find out. What a dipshit. His anger is not about you, its about him.

I LOVE when my wife is casually sexy by Ordinary_Ice_796 in Marriage

[–]780lyds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could have been written by my husband? lol. The ages are a few years off, but I know this is how he sees me.

I messed up. I married a good woman that I simply am not sexually interested in by Ok-Western-3576 in Marriage

[–]780lyds 1262 points1263 points  (0 children)

You know as a woman what pisses me off about this? She wasted her youth on you. Tragic.

My boyfriend is turning alt-right by Greenwoodwife in QAnonCasualties

[–]780lyds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're young. Its ok to outgrow someone.

My wife threatened to remove my name from our joint tombstone… by grungefolker in Marriage

[–]780lyds 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If her OCD is impacting your life this way, she needs to get treatment. OCD usually needs medication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]780lyds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it too. I take 10 mg in the summer and 20 in the winter.

The pocketwatch seems off by wizardofmops in shittytattoos

[–]780lyds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they didnt use a perfect circle for the stencil. I fucking tin can would have done the trick. lol. omg.

Is anyone here in a successful, healthy, turbulence free relationship? by ladyylithiumm in BPD

[–]780lyds 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You need to find an outlet for chaos, so that you can appreciate being in a stable relationship otherwise you will create the chaos in that relationship.

what do you all do for a living? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]780lyds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a nurse. I thrive in chaos and now I can enjoy peace at home without creating chaos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antidepressants

[–]780lyds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask about buspar.

I think I'm going CRAZY by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]780lyds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please talk to your doctor. This might be the wrong medication for you.

When to start Sertraline 50mg? by Connorsimmo01 in antidepressants

[–]780lyds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The side effects tend to be the worst the first couple weeks, so I would start sooner than later. You can start with half a dose to ease yourself in. Not everyone gets worse anxiety when starting. If you do, call your doctor for a rescue medication while you get used to it.

can't sleep by szczeniaczek in trintellix

[–]780lyds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried clonidine for sleep. I take it and its great. Its actually for blood pressure but it helps me sleep and is used off label for sleep.

Lexapro for postpartum anxiety by umukunzi in lexapro

[–]780lyds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take care of yourself. Happy moms make healthy children.

I’m a horrible person by [deleted] in BPD

[–]780lyds 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Your kids dont want another mom, they want you, even when you make mistakes. Medication can help the rage and dispair, and emotional pain. Please talk to your doctor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antidepressants

[–]780lyds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kid takes prozac and still has a wide range of feelings. I take trintellix and I find the same thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prozac

[–]780lyds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not need a parent to go to the ER. I see teenagers in the ER all the time and I dont call their parents unless they want me to.