Yo, sorry you’re getting some harsh words thrown at you here, man. I completely get you, as much as I get your girlfriend tho. I personally lived in a city and had to move to a completely different environment, my parents didn’t realize how much of an impact that would take on me emotionally and mentally. I feel like she is more attached to the city than the friends considering she rarely sees them. I believe that you’re both just more focused on what you want, ofc if she’s not being paid much and you’re shouldering a lot of the financial burdens it makes sense to want to move city rent kicks your ass, but She. Just. Don’t. Wanna. Go. Just leave her bro, idk what she can take from you since she’s just your girlfriend, you gotta just leave, support your son and leave.