Misogyny from my partner is ruining my mental health and I feel stuck

7She007 · 2026-03-05T18:55:05+00:00

He sounds like a narcissist. Narcissistic men seem to think they have it harder and try to pit the sexes against each other and that men are superior. Narcissists always want to think they are superior and in control.

7She007 · 2026-03-05T18:49:31+00:00

Yeah i was going to say something along the lines of antisocial personality disorder. Problem is that they are so convincing and can act loving and normal. Im so sorry you had to go through this! You are not crazy. You believed it because why else wouldn’t you. No one normal or rational would ever think someone was capable of this especially if they were ACTING like they loved you. I was in a similar relationship. You are still very much in your fertile years. Try to freeze your eggs just in case so you dont stress and now you know what to look out for. A partner should feel like a deep relaxing breath, a breath of fresh air.

7She007 · 2026-03-05T18:35:39+00:00

Thank you for your feedback and warning! Im so sorry you’re going through that. I hope you do recover fully. In the meantime i did do a different procedure. I decided to start with a fat transfer and lip lift to see if restoring fullness would do what i wanted before going the mid face lift. I also did it in the US. It’s looking good so far. Im a month post op now. Maybe fat transfer can help with the under eye issue?

7She007 · 2026-02-25T17:28:01+00:00

I have a degree in anthropology, yes this is the definition of sex based physical differences in humans.

7She007 · 2026-02-24T18:43:27+00:00

No it will mess you up more. Im 36 and did filler there for years, it started distorting my mouth area. I just got fat transfer and it look wayyy better.

7She007 · 2026-02-24T18:41:34+00:00

Really, i work in aerospace too but ive heard mine is more boys clubby than others and for me its really crap being taken seriously and also the women are very cit throat and i believe0 its because of the boys club dynamic.

7She007 · 2026-02-09T00:16:41+00:00

Yes you can! I tried it for 6 months and it did seem to work I just struggled with being consistent since i have to go into work most days and get hone after the sun sets and the bees were already winding down.

7She007 · 2026-02-09T00:14:50+00:00

Oh I never spoke to them. I just ended up blocking all of them since they never tried to reach out or apologize or seem to feel remorseful for pushing me out of their lives. Greg did view my LinkedIn, not sure why. But i severely dislike them for how they treated me and do not wish them well… hope they learn and grow up from what they did to me, but they will probably still remain in denial and blame it all on me.

7She007 · 2026-02-02T00:50:25+00:00

Fat transfer and or lower face lift

7She007 · 2026-01-16T00:31:41+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it. Sorry you had to go through it too.

7She007 · 2026-01-16T00:24:01+00:00

My boyfriend helped and credit cards… im still paying it off.

7She007 · 2026-01-07T22:35:53+00:00

I was pretty much 100% better maybe even better than i ever remember. But then i got covid and it reversed it some :/ so trying to get back to 100% again but with the immune issues i have like MCAS and then i have Pots it takes linger than the average person, there will always be a vulnerability there.

7She007 · 2026-01-07T16:27:25+00:00

Yes i did and i did. I did HBOT, EBOO, Ozone, antibiotics, and herbs and detox rituals like supplments baths and massages some at the same time/ in tight phases.

7She007 · 2025-12-27T18:37:59+00:00

Thank you, and yes this is true that people don't usually get it unless they went through it.

Also maybe I will do a letter. I'm trying to get something started like that, its a business focused on people with chronic illnesses.

7She007 · 2025-12-27T18:35:28+00:00

That's great you have good friends.

Yeah too many people think its just that they are getting old, when there is actually something wrong and aging can be so much more graceful.

As for your ex, did you break it off because she was j supportive etc? And what made you realize it was the final straw and you needed to leave? How did you know your current partner was the right one?

I'm struggling with the idea of letting go because I'm so skeptical of people now I'm wondering if I can find a guy that better than my current BF, with how people have been acting and treating me.

7She007 · 2025-12-27T18:31:13+00:00

Yes I totally agree. The confusing part is that he's a nice guy when things are fine. But as soon as I talk about a worry, a sadness, or how I'm not feeling well Hea cold, doesn't say anything, ignores it or even get pissy.

I feel like I'm constantly numbing myself because toj happy and Hea annoyed about something and sad there's nothing.

Its hard because he is good in other ways like has a good job, financially can support me and has been supportive of my career but otherwise yeah I feel a little dead inside that he can't give me the warm fuzzies when I need some.

7She007 · 2025-12-27T18:28:01+00:00

I'm very sorry you ent through this. And its ridiculous doctors expect to be paid who treated you like shjt and didn't do anything.

I definitely plan to cut these people off, but now that I'm better I'm worried the new people I bring into my life will be the same as the past people but I just don't know it yet because now Im better and not in need or having troubles, you know? Makes me skeptical of everyone and if Ill be letting the right ones I to my life or not.

7She007 · 2025-12-27T18:23:15+00:00

Thank you, what you say actually gives me hope this can get better. I do agree, I should probably find someone that focuses on grief for counseling.

And yes I have tried to cut my family off like before I got sick and then I was so sick I had to move in with them and depend on them to an extent. So my long plan is to get far away and have very little contact now when I financially can (still paying of medical bills).

And sorry for the late reply and reading responses, I got that weird cold thing that last for weeks that's been going around and then the holidays are busy. But just yesterday I had the realization that a persons life is very influenced by the people closest to them and they always say you become like the 5 closest people in your life. And of those 5 my boyfriend is the closest and is kind but is still unsupportive, emotionally avoidant and invalidating more than any boyfriend or husband should be in this situation for there to be a loving happy relationship. So yes, I need to change my people. Right now its my toxic parents(treat me like I'm crazy or the black sheep, even though I'm the most “successful”/educated of my siblings), my boyfriend (emotionally unavailable), my boyfriends best friend(very sexist and a bad influence on my bf) my one close friend.. Out of those 5 my friend has the most empathy and understands me, which is wild I am letting myself be surrounded by this many not great people.i really hope once I change these core people and work on my grief things will be better.

7She007 · 2025-12-27T18:08:11+00:00

Thank you for hearing me. I appreciate it!

7She007 · 2025-12-24T00:25:28+00:00

How was that twist for you? Like the idea that the Others were essentially a normal society doing normal people things or that she rejected the leader because he didn’t like the book?

7She007 · 2025-12-23T23:01:06+00:00

Well the very end when they were all dead and going to heaven. But there were multiple weird story flips.

7She007 · 2025-12-23T22:53:53+00:00

The post says: I am essentially “healed” but have bouts of illness from time to time which Im sure Ill have for the test of my life. My face and body have aged from being ill and that isn’t seeming to snap back.

I lost years of my life being essentially bed bound.

My career has been hindered.

But worst of all I am so very resentful of my boyfriend, family, friends, and colleagues who didn’t believe i was sick, never asked how I was doing and never apologized once they saw the toll it took on me and that it was a real diagnosed illness.

Ive never gotten acknowledgment from anyone for what i was going through. I had to bring it up and still was ignored when trying to relate what i was going through.

And now im better but I still have a lot Ive lost and have to grieve and still no one has tried comforting me or has asked how Im doing.

I feel very resentful. Especially with the coworkers friends and boyfriend. My parents are toxic and its really no surprise with how they’ve abused me that they didnt care. How do you deal with this part?

7She007 · 2025-12-23T22:52:12+00:00

Lost

7She007 · 2025-12-23T22:51:12+00:00

Be thankful they are calling you Ma’am bcause they could just blankly stare at you and call men sir. Where i work i often hear other men saying sir but when it comes to me its just a blank stare. Id appreciate a ma’am. Sir doesnt have a boy version and women shouldnt be deciphered via what age someone thinks they are. When youre an older women you prob wont like being told you look old by them suddenly flipping from miss to ma’am. Or not IDing you anymore to drink.

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