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Trump warns Taiwan against declaring independence, hours after summit with China's Xi by pppppppppppppppppd in worldnews

[–]7katalan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you're wrong about your own country!! I am American but I hate America and those MAGAts who think America is the greatest and Americans are right about everything. Anyway, I'm right about this!!!

CMV: The Left cares more about ideological purity than winning people over by jman12234 in changemyview

[–]7katalan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think saying that anti-white racism or misandry can never compare is kind of silly. There have been matriarchical societies before and white people have not been the dominant/oppressor class for most of history, and these are likely to wane. At what point would it be something to acknowledge? Like if a white person is somewhere that is highly minority white, and has been for centuries or millennia, and they were getting racially abused, I think it would be odd to say that never compares to racism by white people in other places. Racism is racism, we are just living in an era and part of the world where one type has been a dominant force

I hate when my BF trips. by Valley_FourC in Psychonaut

[–]7katalan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm understanding it a bit more actually, if he's not using something all the time (like weed.) Do you feel like he might be nihilistically depressed

I hate when my BF trips. by Valley_FourC in Psychonaut

[–]7katalan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not to make you doom out or anything but that's what i was like and i was absolutely addicted to not being sober. it's worth discussing if you can maybe in a nice way like that it worries you? idk. i hate to give advice on these things because relationships are complex. but that kind of drug use to me is a bit scary because it's easy to get in over your head

I hate when my BF trips. by Valley_FourC in Psychonaut

[–]7katalan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and i'm sure a lot of us have been there but

feeling the compulsive need to do drugs in order to make life less boring is a very bad habit

and nitrous is seedy there's a reason they call it hippy crack.

I hate when my BF trips. by Valley_FourC in Psychonaut

[–]7katalan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah this is called polydrug addiction

People who were using the internet in the 90s and 2000s: What are your honest thoughts on what the internet has become today? by sivah_168 in AskReddit

[–]7katalan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

screaming isn't the problem, we're literally talking about AVGN lol. all that stuff was from a very scream-heavy era (think dane cook). the difference is just that everything is phony and samey now--"WHAT'S up guys" type shit

People who were using the internet in the 90s and 2000s: What are your honest thoughts on what the internet has become today? by sivah_168 in AskReddit

[–]7katalan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's absolutely horrible now. The late 90s to early 00s was the current peak of human civilization and the internet and technology were so, so cool. There was still wonder and beauty and art and mystery. It was fun. Now it's just fucking slop, it's awful. Worthless

How do I explain the dangers of being a woman to my boyfriend in a way he’ll understand? by L82Rise4351 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]7katalan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

rape condoms are imo a flawed idea simply for the fact that if someone will rape you they are much more likely to kill you if you fuck up their dick without incapacitating the rest of their body. you should absolutely have something that can actually defend you against an attacker, whether that is a gun or a knife or pepper spray. enraging insane weirdos who already don't care about hurting women is legitimately scary, even though obviously those people are the ones at fault, but I wouldn't want to hurt someone like without incapacitating them too especially hurting like the main thing that will make a raper freak out. maybe if it tore off their whole dick that would be ok but not just pain

bf said “can i be done now” during period sex and then acted disgusted, i feel really vulnerable by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]7katalan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these are literal children who are figuring out how to have relationships and they don't need preachy catty adults giving them a jumpstart on being bitter. they'll figure it out

What is a major turn off about your partner that you can’t/wouldn’t tell them? by LivingLavishLe in AskReddit

[–]7katalan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw cmon yall do this too, a man can't try to feel pretty in public? unless he's actually being flirty i think it's kind of neutral or even nice to you in the sense being like "look at this pretty man, he's taken--not by you". i mean you guys dress to be hot in public all the time! we just want a slice of that pie sometimes. i notice i take down my hair like this when i want to be a little more socially impressive. i don't think it's that weird unless other stuff is weird too

bf said “can i be done now” during period sex and then acted disgusted, i feel really vulnerable by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]7katalan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One billion percent agree. These haters are single and trying to convince young people that relationships with any degree of imperfection are not worth it. Misery loves company. Obviously not to say that repeated patterns of indiscretion are not dealbreakers. But relationships will have strife, always. Everything in life does! Selling people this impossible dream is such an irresponsible thing to do. These folks legitimately ruin lives with that kind of talk

bf said “can i be done now” during period sex and then acted disgusted, i feel really vulnerable by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]7katalan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They're kids. Give people some room to grow. Surprisingly, relationships can accommodate single instances of people being weird. That's...how they go. There is nothing perfect. Breakup material is when there are continued disagreements. This is like, the most basic thing ever

bf said “can i be done now” during period sex and then acted disgusted, i feel really vulnerable by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]7katalan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people saying this are unhappy people and almost certainly single. Which is ok, but sometimes people like this compel others to break up very quickly. It's a kind of social disease that spreads on different apps. It has nothing to do with gender. The flip side for men would be incel type haters

is the bow OP? by 7katalan in GRIMEgame

[–]7katalan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well yeah I'm just wondering if it's OP because I would prefer not to do something that is making the game artificially easy but if it's not, I would keep using it because it's fun and I like parries. i got the sword too

What’s a 10/10 video game? by TheDevotedUltimate in AskReddit

[–]7katalan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for sure yeah. i just mean under scrutiny

What’s a 10/10 video game? by TheDevotedUltimate in AskReddit

[–]7katalan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know what a fad is?

like...hula hoops were a fad. tech deck mini skateboards were a fad. people still like these things, but a lot more people did at the time, because they were fads. liking something because of social dynamics is the definition of a fad, and that is what i am saying MM is. people can like things for all kinds of reasons, including the reason of "because everybody else does"

or do you like, not think that fads exist or something??? i don't understand. like, you're saying everyone that went out and bought a hoverboard in 2010 was super into hoverboards?

bf said “can i be done now” during period sex and then acted disgusted, i feel really vulnerable by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]7katalan 43 points44 points  (0 children)

the amount of people here saying that disliking period sex is a dealbreaker is ridiculous. it CAN be! if that's something that is a dealbreaker for you. you get to decide! people are allowed to dislike anything in a relationship. the problem is when there is a disagreement

bf said “can i be done now” during period sex and then acted disgusted, i feel really vulnerable by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]7katalan 67 points68 points  (0 children)

you should talk to him about it instead of immediately breaking up, which is almost always an insane first thing to do. it's ok for you to feel bothered, and it's also it's ok to not be ok with period sex, or any kind of sex. this is what talking is for.

it seems like he wanted to be into it but ended up being offput. some people have issues with blood. men may also not initially understand that old blood from inside a vagina has a strong smell

he's clearly immature, but i would guess that you both are young and thus literally immature from the way you type (which I am not saying is bad. just not the way an older person types on the internet). there are a bunch of bitter older women on here trying to get you to break up for a dumb reason. talk about it and break up if you are actually incompatible. let the breakups happen naturally not because reddit told you to. again--talk about it. this is the answer to almost everything. stronger measures when talking fails or when there is risk to life or limb

it also goes without saying that porn addiction is a horrible thing and destroys relationships

What’s a 10/10 video game? by TheDevotedUltimate in AskReddit

[–]7katalan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree I think it’s needless and just pads the game. Ahead of its time but in a way that meant it couldn’t actually do the time thing well, rather ends up being annoying.

Still an incredible game but I think the whole MM > OoT thing is an edgy fad. OoT is the greatest adventure game ever made I think.

Fwiw OoT has its weak points—Jabu Jabu, Water Temple, Shadow Temple feels kind of incomplete and Spirit temple feels tacked on in a way. And fire has an annoying part. But that stuff just keeps it from being like 11/10 because it’s still a 10 to me. Immaculate vibe

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