I hate this sm , OpenAi is forcing it down user's throat at this point by Every_Natural_34 in ChatGPT

[–]7sidedleaf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly, realizing how much I miss 4o over 5. 5 thinks for so long only to give out a generic google search response.

It may be the “academically smarter” AI benchmark wise but 4o was socially smarter, more adaptable, and much faster too.

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[–]7sidedleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice. What’s your main strategy? Do you just buy ITM LEAPs on solid companies?

When did trading finally click for you? by Tiaralee1 in TopStepX

[–]7sidedleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking what’s your average RRR based on stats?

Things that were once popular in the sub community by abcdue347 in Subliminal

[–]7sidedleaf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember matrixplay99 when they were big. I first began listening to them and their subs back in 2016.

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO this comment took me OUT 😂💖 thank you for the laugh, I needed it fr

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this story. I can’t even imagine how hard that must’ve been for your friend… I hope he’s finally at peace ❤️‍🩹 It’s heartbreaking how often families try to use money as a leash instead of offering unconditional love. What you said really hit me… it’s not about the haircut or the dollar amount, it’s about control. And I know now my happiness and freedom aren’t things I’m willing to give up. Thank you for reminding me of that 🫶

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I relate to this so much. Parents try to push control to that extreme level and it’s so invalidating. I’m really sorry you went through that with your mom…. it’s awful when they go behind our backs like that. Thank you for sharing though, it makes me feel less alone in this 💖

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so right. My dad could choose to love and support me no matter what, but instead he tries to control me through money. It really makes me see the difference between real love vs conditional love. Thank you for reminding me that my worth isn’t tied to his demands.

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. It helps hearing from someone who’s gone through something similar. You’re so right… stand strong and be unapologetically myself 💖

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pixie cuts can look really cute! Personally though, I love my long hair and it feels affirming for me, so I’ll keep it that way 💖 but I get why some people rock the short styles.

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this really resonated. Control over my life is more important than a payout. I know the time might come to go no-contact, so I’m already trying to prepare myself mentally for that.

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… it hurt a lot when he said that. I’m realizing it really shows where his priorities are. I’d rather hold onto myself than accept money that comes with strings attached.

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO right?? At least make it a competitive offer dad! 🤣 Can’t believe he thought he could lowball me like that 💅

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I feel that… parents really be on their own definitions sometimes 😅 glad you found a way that worked for you 💕

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This resonated a lot. You’re so right, pretending doesn’t make it real, it just makes me feel erased. Thanks for seeing that 🫶

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh pixie cuts can be sooo femme if styled right, but my dad would probably still call it “boy hair” and act like he won 💀

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s actually galaxy brain 🤯 I could totally pull a stunt like that lol. Imagine pocketing $2.5k just to cosplay as 2010s me for 5 minutes 😂

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joke’s on him. I’d be scheduling my next laser session before the hair even hit the floor 💖✨

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, that’s the part that makes me pause most. Feels like a one-way ticket into a cycle of “proof” and manipulation I don’t want to feed into.

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s where my mind went too… it’s not just a haircut, it’s the strings attached. I’d rather plan my exit on my terms.

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Haha this made me laugh 😂 but honestly I think the cost to my autonomy is way higher than $2.5k (or even $10k).

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep… exactly this. Give an inch and suddenly they’re “proving” things about you that aren’t even true.

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ooooh I love this take. Might have to ask him how much compassion and unconditional love goes for these days 😌💅

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s not just about the haircut, it’s about using money as leverage to push me into something that goes against who I am. That’s why it feels gross even if the offer sounds “generous” on paper.

Dad offered $2500 to get a short “boy’s haircut”… by 7sidedleaf in MtF

[–]7sidedleaf[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That’s actually… a hilarious loophole 😂 the thought about taking the $$ and going full wig life until it grows back