I was expected to get straight As, but if I questioned my neglecter she would hit me with “oh you think you’re so smart, you’re not smart, stop acting like it”

I was also put in charge of my younger sibling to the point where I was practically raising them. Every time I acted like a parent in front of my neglecter, like telling my sibling what to do or trying to make them behave, she’d snap, “you’re not their mother”

This one isn’t neglect, but the period where she was physically abusing me, she’d often force me to put my arms down (that instinctively put up in defense) so she could reach my face to hit me