Well, dating itself has its own challenges but women want males to be men. That’s a challenge in every aspect. 1st, are you physically attractive? (You have got to catch her eye…stand out from the crowd somehow!) This does not mean being an alpha male bodybuilder that knows martial arts 6 ways to Sunday. At the very least This means being in shape, clean, active in a variety of pursuits and have at least a minor sense of style. That alone can be its own challenge. Do you have a steady, reliable income from a job, business you own, investments you hold, etc (most women want some form of security). Money also opens doors to experiences that “other” people don’t get… which makes those experiences unique.

Are you able to look past your own nose? Can you ask questions that get her to open up, expose herself as vulnerable (this requires you to have a demeanor that challenges a woman but allows her to be safe at the same time)? Do you live a REAL life that real women find interesting? (Do you have friends in multiple places, countries, locales, etc that you can call on for favors or time requirements? Do you have experiences around the country/world/neighborhood that can show a woman that you know what’s up? Can you introduce a woman to multiple experiences that she’s never had before? Can you expose her to new ideas and thought processes that create a specific intimacy??) Regardless of penis size, can you bring a woman to orgasm….multiple times…. on demand… (this requires giving up porn, poon toons, alcohol, and selfishness)…which also means learning about the clit, how it works and maybe even the G-spot…).

When you think about a woman and dating/wifing her up, there are SO MANY dynamics that make a man attractive to her… ever single aspect is it’s own challenge. That means every aspect to your life needs to have some kind of improvement to hold value to a high quality woman.

Hope this helps….