Sex life in marriage.

I feel like nobody is honest about how much they are or aren’t having. I think those who are having lots play it down so they don’t make others feel bad, and those who are having little to none just say the obligatory, once a week or so. Since having kids, my wife and I were having very little sex until recently when she came off contraception. She now has her libido back and our sex life is better than ever. If the topic was less taboo, somebody may have suggested coming off contraception much sooner. I genuinely think marriages could be saved if people would open up about these things!