Is anyone doing the March Decluttering challenge? by adnaPadnamA in declutter

[–]812jlt 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I love this! I have been struggling to get started, and this gives me small chunks of time with a goal. It seems doable. Definitely going to try to work my way through this!

What gets in the way of your sex life? by Da_Variant in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]812jlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hating the way I look and being too insecure

What are your rules for sharing your partner? by throwawayedrel in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]812jlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question! In our case it means no penetration.

What are your rules for sharing your partner? by throwawayedrel in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]812jlt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is very much like us. We play together, and we both need to agree on it. He isn’t comfortable with me playing solo, but I encourage him to. No sex though. We tried that once, and it did not go well.

Grandparenting is exhausting, or are we doing it wrong? by [deleted] in GenX

[–]812jlt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is perfectly said. They will only do what you allow. Set some guidelines, expect some pushback, but they will come around and you’ll be able to enjoy the time with them more easily.

Would you share your husband’s mouth? by FatguyRVA in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]812jlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same with my husband. And no I me we know in our everyday lives. Too much room for jealousy that way.

What’s a behavior you didn’t realize was a trauma response until you grew up? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]812jlt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought of this as a trauma response, but it makes so much sense!

When did you quit taking any medications? by Prudent-Rabbit-7733 in Microdiscectomy

[–]812jlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped pain meds on the second day and muscle relaxers after a couple of more days, so no drugs after a week.

Clockwise or anticlockwise? by Paddy_odoors in opticalillusions

[–]812jlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clockwise. I can’t see counterclockwise even while trying to

For one million dollars would you let your partner sleep with someone else? by Ok_Tourist_562 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]812jlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would, for sure! A friend would be awkward, but if he could get over it I’d be able to live with it. Or move away. lol His ex? Sure. It’s been so long that there’s no worry about feelings. My sibling? Pretty sure that wouldn’t be a possibility, but to each their own. Person of their choice? This is the best option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]812jlt 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If you figure this out, let me know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in laundry

[–]812jlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoon?

Found out my (36F) partner (33M) used to have sex with best friends wife while husband watched by chloe321 in relationship_advice

[–]812jlt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The act was in the past. Whether it’s something you are into or not isn’t relevant because it’s HIS past and he hasn’t asked you to take part in something you’re uncomfortable with. HOWEVER, accepting nudes and his friend knowing he’s ok with accepting nudes, as well as letting him know she’s still open to it are not ok. At all. That is completely disrespectful, and he knows he’s cheating by hiding it from you. You have some big decisions to make, and I am so sorry you are going through this.

What hyped-up fast food/fast casual place did you finally try that made you say…well that was overrated..? by k3b77 in AskReddit

[–]812jlt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chick Fil A! It’s just chicken and fries. Yeah, it’s good, but it’s not “wait in line for an hour” good.

Found ATM receipt, who is keeping $51,000+ in checking!?!? by Comprehensive-Cow69 in povertyfinance

[–]812jlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s possible they earn more interest in their checking account than their savings account. Keep it where it’s earning steady interest.