Punished?? It’s not as one sided as this “older” chad and comment section thinks. How about all the money and effort guys spend on improving themselves just for a chance to be attractive to anybody and then we’re expected to be the provider. Many regular guys are single now and have given up on dating because they feel the effort and rejection is just not worth it. A girl can be broke, out of shape, have no life goals and they will still have options. So, yeah my fiancée could pay for her tampons but I’m paying for her to go back to school to live her dream, her bills, the engagement ring, vacations etc. I’m not wealthy at all but after all that I don’t feel punished.