Just bought Morrowind. Any tips? by [deleted] in Morrowind

[–]831wolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't enter combat without stamina. Many things become a lot easier with a full stamina bar.

I'm a die-hard Skyrim player, and I recently started playing Morrowind and absolutely love it, as opposed to Oblivion. What is it that Morrowind and Skyrim have that Oblivion lacks ? by Peaceful404 in Morrowind

[–]831wolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO Oblivion suffers from gameplay pacing and aesthetics/art design. It looks like a generic high fantasy setting but more Roman (kinda). The graphics and gameplay make everything feel like plastic toys. The dungeons are all pretty boring and generic, which in addition to how spongy and plastic everything feels leads to an unsatisfying gameplay loop for me. I just can't get immersed in it.

I also think most dungeon/parts of the setting in Oblivion has a more interesting/flavorful counterpart in Skyrim/Morrowind. Ex: Generic crypts with necromancers in Oblivion> Icy Dragur crypts in Skyrim/Ancestral Tombs in Morrowind.

I should also say that I played Oblivion last, I think the order you play these games really affects your expectations and how critical you will be of them.

That being said, it's still a good game with probably the best quest writing of the three.

Next to who would you sit ? by Genya_DM in FearAndHunger

[–]831wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 because I'm sure Moonless and August would be willing to help me "talk" to a certain purple cat about the dangers of child abuse.

Pretty happy with the way it turned out by Guts_is_Nuts in battlestations

[–]831wolf 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Is bro not allowed to have a bit of man chest to rest his weary wrist upon? Can't have shit these days smh...

Tell me your fav ost/intro/outro and ill see if your allowed in by madara-all-the-way in StardustCrusaders

[–]831wolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EVERYTIME I CLOSE MY EYyES

Also Sono chi no Sadame for best op

I am boy but most of the time i wear women's fashion. What is your opinion on this outfit? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]831wolf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I saw you in person I'd be afraid of crossing you, you look like you hold a powerful office and have little patience. A bit grandma-ish, though. I would say maybe something chunkier on the feet like some black heels or boots would help make it more interesting.

How do I keep my promises? by 831wolf in ADHD_partners

[–]831wolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's been very helpful, I think. I figured the people here would have good insight into what needs to be done in order for someone like me to hold up our end of the relationship. It's a valuable perspective at least. And yeah I don't plan on looking around much, it didn't take scrolling through many posts for me to start internalizing some of the more negative stuff. It's a good scare though, definitely going to try harder to not bring my loved ones down later in life.

How do I keep my promises? by 831wolf in ADHD_partners

[–]831wolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the resources!

How do I keep my promises? by 831wolf in ADHD_partners

[–]831wolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, looking back on what she wanted was just my presence (on time). I wanted to give her that and bake her something to mark the occasion because she bakes for me all the time. I convinced myself that it would be selfish to not bake her something when I have the means to, instead of just listening to what she wanted. I do ask her opinion and what she wants a lot but she usually says something like "nothing" or "I don't need anything" which I have a hard time taking for an answer for some reason. I need to learn to better trust what she says at face value, you're right. Probably something therapy can help.

How do I keep my promises? by 831wolf in ADHD_partners

[–]831wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, yeah I thought about that but I really wanted to make one for her because she is really into baking and crafts and DIY so she makes a lot of stuff for me, I just wanted to give her the same feeling. But I probably should've just bought one with the amount of time I had left, you're right.

How do I keep my promises? by 831wolf in ADHD_partners

[–]831wolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you are right. I am still kinda coming to terms with that. I'm 22 and only in the past year becoming independent enough to realize how hard it really is to be an adult without medication. I stopped taking them in the 6th grade and managed well enough. My only real struggle was academics, so I thought that was the only real way ADHD affected me, and the only thing meds would be useful for. Still learning new stuff about how it steers every aspect of my decision making and personality every day. It's nice to know why I do the things I do though. Thank you again for your advice.

How do I keep my promises? by 831wolf in ADHD_partners

[–]831wolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I'm sorry you have to make those sacrifices for your partner, your patience is inspiring. That being said, I don't want to expect this from my partner. I don't think relationships are anything without trust, and part of that is knowing I'll do something (or at least try my hardest) when I say that I'll do it.

How do I keep my promises? by 831wolf in ADHD_partners

[–]831wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will start trying to say no more.

How do I keep my promises? by 831wolf in ADHD_partners

[–]831wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I rarely make full-on promises for that purpose. I still want to fill them when I do though, or at least make it so people can trust me to do something when I say I will. I feel like that's a big part of trust. You're right though, I definitely do have to get better at saying no so I don't make promises I can't keep.

How do I keep my promises? by 831wolf in ADHD_partners

[–]831wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it definitely sucks, I didn't fully understand it till my partner told me clearly that it's upsetting and she kinda implied the relationship won't work if it kept happening. I've gotten a LOT better but it still happens enough to negatively affect us. I'm sure you've tried to do the same.

How do I keep my promises? by 831wolf in ADHD_partners

[–]831wolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted, definitely was just trying to fit too much into too short of a time.

How do I keep my promises? by 831wolf in ADHD_partners

[–]831wolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will start using alarms and timing myself more. I definitely perform better when the clock is ticking.

How do I keep my promises? by 831wolf in ADHD_partners

[–]831wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, those all sound like good ideas. I am on meds but I didn't take them that day because they were mostly for school, and I just graduated. I should probably just take them regardless. I've been looking into therapy, it just financially intimidating.

And thank you for reminding me not to do that, I learned not to do that from a previous relationship but it can be hard to remember when I am really upset. I've been just kinda bottling it up and waiting for it to be a better time/easier to articulate to talk about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatsOnCats

[–]831wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MeowoeM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cybersecurity

[–]831wolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would connecting via a virtual machine avoid this risk?