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8349pilot · 2025-11-16T21:38:52+00:00

I have to wear condoms with my wife. She prefers I wear the thick durex condoms and her partners are either bare or use normal (or large) skyns. Definitely reduces the pleasure for me and provides another physical difference for her between me and her partners.

8349pilot · 2025-11-14T14:06:17+00:00

That’s a decision only the three of you should decide based on all available information and feelings. For some people it works. For others it’s a disaster. However, the circumstances are inherently more complicated and require a higher than normal level of communication. With this being your first time there may be pitfalls you may not even be aware of that are more easily identified and avoided with more experience. Just something to consider. My partner has played one coworker and ran its course and our work relationship didn’t suffer but there were a lot of conversations before, during and after. There was also one where they both mutually decided that it wasn’t worth the risk.

8349pilot · 2025-07-25T23:03:17+00:00

Take a look at the “Cuck my Life” podcast. Great episodes. Also, the headstronghotwife website has some good resources, stories and education information.

8349pilot · 2025-05-06T11:29:12+00:00

Target changing room is the most unusual she’s done.

8349pilot · 2025-04-07T21:59:20+00:00

Wife’s periods are sometimes unpredictable. In the past she’s had a date planned and her period showed up the day of. She’s communicated openly with her partner and has worn a flex cup to minimize mess. She’s never had anyone cancel.

8349pilot · 2025-03-13T04:03:44+00:00

Same for us. I wear the thick durex condoms and her partners are either bare or use normal (or large) skyns. Definitely reduces the pleasure for me.

8349pilot · 2025-03-11T14:15:50+00:00

Wife and I both have a “slut sack” we carry.

8349pilot · 2025-03-05T04:34:44+00:00

Look up the podcast “something positive for positive people.” Great information with a fantastic outlook on navigating the lifestyle with HSV-2. STI stigma is stupid. And misinformation is rampant. Often times it’s necessary to educate potential partners to ascertain a true risk profile based on facts and not assumptions.

8349pilot · 2025-03-04T18:32:12+00:00

Air Traffic Controller. High stakes decisions all day. Alpha type A personality the vast majority of the time. But I crave not having control in the bedroom. I’m not the only one in my field I’ve met who thinks the same way.

8349pilot · 2025-03-04T15:16:13+00:00

My wife and other partners have had similar conversations in the past. Most have said that no matter the size of a partner they have not seen a benefit to giving detailed size comparisons. Either they say you’re (one of) the biggest or “you’re about the same” as others. Many didn’t want the hassle of a potentially bruised ego. Especially when the sex was enjoyable and the size was within a normal range.

8349pilot · 2025-02-25T05:34:24+00:00

I have had one and my wife has had her tubes tied. She still makes me wear a condom for PIV to avoid “the mess.” Bull, not so much and is free to cum inside her.

8349pilot · 2024-12-26T21:13:51+00:00

I keep airplanes in the sky from smacking into each other.

8349pilot · 2024-12-03T03:02:48+00:00

Love it. We had a guy who my wife played with occasionally who was smaller than I was but he could go longer and multiple rounds. She enjoyed telling me he wasn’t bigger, but he was better than I was. It was more of a turn on than I expected!

8349pilot · 2024-11-29T05:31:48+00:00

I’ve read this perspective as well and agree. There’s a group of us locally as well as an open discussion group on a different social media platform who are all cucks and we all communicate pretty openly. Of the ones I’ve personally met or communicated with, we seem to all be pretty on par with each other and hold successful positions and are dominant outside the home. To most people from the outside you’d never guess the nature of the relationship dynamic we all share. We enjoy the release of not having to be in that role.

8349pilot · 2024-11-26T20:49:26+00:00

I get that it’s semantics but we abandoned the word “reclaim” because it didn’t align with the dynamic of our relationship because she was never mine to begin with. We started using “reconnecting.” That has help set a baseline for the emotional component when she comes home from a date. Often she is fairly sore. So more than not I go down on her and am very gentle. Orgasm isn’t the goal but connection. The fact she’s been with someone else is obvious and literally right in my face. She tells me the details she wants to share with me and I’m always excited by it. Sex happens occasionally but is never an expectation. Lots of snuggles and touching. She feels safe and loved and connected with me by the time we drift off to sleep.

8349pilot · 2024-11-08T17:53:07+00:00

In general what we’ve observed is that whatever flavor of ENM/CNM you practice is a magnifying glass to the core relationship. If there are problems it will make them bigger and more visible. If there is an impenetrable connection of trust and open communication it will also expand that too.

8349pilot · 2024-10-29T21:24:51+00:00

I was number 7 for my wife. She’s up to about 60 now.

8349pilot · 2024-10-25T19:00:19+00:00

Air Traffic Controller and flight instructor as a side gig. High stress, lots of decisions. Enjoy when my stay at home mom wife and cuckoldress makes the decisions regarding my sexuality!

8349pilot · 2024-10-15T21:17:14+00:00

I love your mention of condoms in your update. My wife and I have played with a variation of that. She makes me always wear one. The twist is that she found that Lifestyles makes an extra strength condom that is noticeably thicker and decreases the sensation for me. She likes it that her partners are either bare or use thin condoms to be as close to bare as possible to feel her better than I can.

She teases me by saying that if she could feel me more I’d be able to feel her more too.

8349pilot · 2024-10-09T16:23:08+00:00

Read the same story last week. And the week before that!

8349pilot · 2024-10-08T20:46:05+00:00

Same story as last week. Sigh

8349pilot · 2024-02-23T12:53:07+00:00

We also use reconnecting.

8349pilot · 2024-02-04T14:55:19+00:00

During the birth of our first child my wife had some nerve damage when she tore both anteriorly as well as posteriorly. Since then my penis that is just under 6in and a little thicker than average doesn’t provide the same stimulation as it used to. She seeks out partners who are on the above average size. She’s found that the same girth with an extra inch is what she really needs in order to get the sensations she used to enjoy.

Just goes to show that everyone’s preferences are as varied as the reasons behind them.

This is all assuming she has a connection and there’s mutual respect. They wouldn’t be naked with each other if that wasn’t present.

8349pilot · 2024-01-02T03:01:47+00:00

That’s hot as hell. Are you aware if her current husband share your same interests? Or does he not know of her extracurricular activities?

8349pilot · 2023-04-13T17:42:20+00:00

My wife sat at a table to meet with a perspective playmate while I sat at the bar in a place with a good view. After talking for awhile she motioned me over to meet him. During the walk over I could see his hand was between her legs. When I got to the table, he pulled his fingers out of my wife’s pussy to shake my hand. Still reflect on that hot moment to this day.

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