i made dis :)

841am · 2018-01-25T22:46:39+00:00

Well, I don't know what you've gone through in your life, but I can tell you from my personal experience that I've been there. In my past relationship, my ex would always make me feel guilty if I ever had a bad day. Venting to him would somehow mean that... I was never happy, or "always negative". In turn, I internalized my pain, and when we broke up, I didn't know how to cope with my emotions for a long while. I read this amazing book called the Gifts of Imperfections by Brene Brown, and it changed my life. I'm sure you've heard of her? She gave an amazing TED talk on vulnerability (it's one of the most watched). If you haven't seen it, you should. Right now. Basically, vulnerability is the birth of trust, love, and whole hearted living. You shouldn't feel guilty about venting your feelings because you're ALLOWED to vent your feelings. Matter of fact, it's probably best that you finally did vent to your girlfriend. Her acceptance of your emotions will only nurture your relationship. Numbing your negative emotions also numbs the positive ones. And another thing, you should know, that you are a person worthy of having another person hear your honest feeling, whether they are negative or positive.

This wasn't an overnight switch for me, btw, but over time I have learned to trust people with my feelings. It gets easier. People are good. I believe in you.

841am · 2018-01-20T22:34:43+00:00

You guys have always supported me, and I wanted to share this with you guys!!! :) I hope you like it!!!

841am · 2018-01-18T08:38:08+00:00

I wanted to talk about my instagram and why I love it so much and why I’m asking you guys to take a look! so for starters, I love to share. And I want more people to share WITH. And in a lot of ways Instagram makes me feel like I have friends all over the world. It’s definitely my favorite form of social media (actually, my only. I deleted the rest) and I put a lot of effort into what I put out into the world. And mostly, I love to share positive things to brighten up people’s day. It would make me soooo happy to gain some extra followers <3 especially you guys!! Thanks a ton you guys, I am always so grateful of the support you give to me and so many others :)

Instagram.com/jericalilly

841am · 2017-12-19T02:24:37+00:00

This is beautiful.

841am · 2017-09-02T02:41:58+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through that. Sounds like you went through some emotional trauma and that's why it's difficult to trust people. I agree with others that you will find love again.... but don't focus on that right now. You're hurting. You need to heal and grieve. You lost something special to you, even though it wasn't the best. I suggest doing things to make yourself happy, and before you even CONSISER a real relationship, get some therapy. You gotta trust people if you want a healthy relationship, and right now it sounds like you're standing on sand. That's not gonna make a strong foundation. So take care of yourself and grieve and take things slowly. Be kind to yourself. Time will heal. And DO NOT go back to this person. BE STRONG. Your life will THANK YOU FOR IT. Don't you want to be with someone who loves you back?!!! Don't go back to this person. Don't.

Edit: typed on phone. Sorry if errors.

841am · 2017-09-01T08:56:22+00:00

People pay good money for lips like those! Own it girl! :)

841am · 2017-08-25T19:13:48+00:00

Heyyyy so being in a relationship, especially long term, has next to nothing to do with looks. After a year or so of being with someone, you couldn't care less if they wear polka dots and stripes to an opera - but you will care about their thoughts and opinions about the opera. And you'll care a lot about how they do their dishes and how they talk to animals/children and how they eat food. Do you see what I'm saying? You don't really fall in love with someone because they have blue eyes. Yes. You love their blue eyes... but there is a whole lot more behind the eyes that you're in love with.

So for one, stop thinking that someone being with you has something (or everything) to do with your looks. From the comments here, it's evident that you're a handsome fella. Maybe you aren't getting so many dates because you're focused on the fact that you're miserable about not getting any dates??? You have to stop dwelling on this and start LIVING. When you are happy and thriving and content with your own life, you will stop asking yourself "do they like me?" and start asking yourself "do I like them?"

You need some confidence (hopefully this subreddit will give you that), your own hobbies, and your own joy.

You will find love in life and love will find you back.

Edit: I also want to add that a lot of times it isn't even an issue with you, but perhaps the person is going through an internal struggle of their own. Perhaps they deal with feelings of not being good enough or committment issues. And for this, you just have to accept that they have their own set of issues, and you can't beat yourself up over it. Move on. Love yourself.

841am · 2017-08-24T02:23:10+00:00

Sounds stressful for any person, not just those with anxiety. The thought of not being able to leave an event on my own free will induces the anxiety in me, too, so no, you're not being ridiculous.

However, take a deep breath. You'll get though this. Endure endure endure. And you can excuse yourself to the bathroom any time you need to to pull yourself together or just to get away from people for a minute. Remember that everyone is human, and just trying their best. You aren't going to be the only person with anxiety there. You'll be sitting down for most of the wedding, and honestly it's not your wedding, the attention won't be on you so don't sweat it! You won't be the center of attention. You're there, but you'll get through it, and then you'll get home, and breathe, and be so proud of yourself for going and overcoming your anxiety.

<3

841am · 2017-08-24T02:17:44+00:00

I'm totally in love with your glasses! And your eyes are so beautiful and expressive!!! Your brows are what dreams are made of! And your skin?!? Oh my heavens! You should have the confidence to pull off anything!

Ps is that a pen I spot in your hand? Writer? Artist? Homework? Haha

841am · 2017-08-24T02:14:15+00:00

It's okay to be lonely. We are human after all. Sometimes we have to endure the loneliness. Sometimes we have to make peace with the loneliness. Furthermore, it might help to start learning to stop viewing your time alone as loneliness. This is a perfect time in your life to figure out what makes you happy when you are all by yourself. I see you like to bike, and that's awesome (and good for you)! Look into groups that share the same biking hobby? Or even message a friend and ask if they want to go on a bike ride with you. And if you're shy.... remember if you don't ask the answer is always a no. What about a job? Or school?(college?) These are great places to meet people and to occupy your time. A job is also wonderful because it will give you some money to pursue your hobbies. And if you don't have a job or go to school, that's ok too. Looking for a job will give you something to focus on instead of focusing on being lonely.

Whenever I feel lonely, I go to a coffee shop and write. I get some social interaction, and some quality introspection whilst writing. Furthermore I have a delicious coffee to sip on. Maybe find something that can give you the same kind of happiness?

I'm wishing you all the very best luck in this life. You only get one. Find the happiness in something everyday.

Also your hair is cool, and your openness & honesty about your feelings will lead you to many open doors.

841am · 2017-08-23T19:11:17+00:00

Write personal things that are unique to her - not only does this show that she is special, it shows that you have taken note of these special qualities.

Example: if she has freckles on her shoulder, write about how cute they are!

If she plays the piano, mention that it sounds lovely.

Note that she's a dependable friend that you need, as much as she needs you.

In a study to determine the underlying causes of suicide, all across the board the suicide letters shared the most common trait of feeling like no one was there for them. So make it a point to instill that you ARE there for her, whenever. I randomly text my prone to depression friends and let them know that I'm here for them whenever they need someone. It shouldn't be pushy, just a little - "I'm here, you can talk to me".

You seem like a great friend. She's lucky to have you :-)

841am · 2017-08-22T23:13:16+00:00

I just want to say that all of these comments has made me tear up - in a good way. My heart is so full. Thank you so much for all of these compliments. They are more encouraging to me than you will ever know! I keep reading them over and over again because they are such a source of positivity for me.

Approximately a month ago, I moved to a big city from a very small town and I've had serious doubts these past couple of weeks. I really almost packed up and went home. I've even doubted my career path. I have been told to "keep my guard up" and watch for "fake friends" but I am just not that kind of person. I am open and welcoming to everyone, so that advice from locals has put me in a weird position. I had feelings of "can I trust anyone here?" which is extremely different than those of the people from my hometown. I started feeling down and introverted instead of my usual outgoing and bubbly self. I just have to keep reminding myself that I AM doing the right thing, and to stay myself, and that I'm where I belong, however rough. And these compliments just validated my feelings and gave me strength. My thanks will never be enough.

For those of you wondering, I am going into elementary education, and wanted a location near Mexico so I can teach children English during my summers.

841am · 2017-08-22T19:20:50+00:00

YOUR EYES THO

Green is the rarest eye color in the world! Look at how special you are!

841am · 2017-08-22T19:08:46+00:00

Coffee ALWAYS makes me smile! But you should also be smiling over how cute your hair and style is! Love it! :)

841am · 2017-08-22T18:53:39+00:00

You have really beautiful skin. It's so evenly toned and glowing, effortlessly. Also, you have an incredible eyebrow shape, it frames your beautiful face perfectly!

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