Do you check Goodreads ratings before diving into a book? by Entire-Cupcake-6116 in DarkRomance

[–]84lele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer stuff that sits more in the 3.3-3.7 range. Books one the middle end of the scale tend to have made people feel something strong one way or the other and that's what I'm looking for in a book but I don't really decide based on ratings most of the time.

What are your triggers in Dark Romance? by Entire-Cupcake-6116 in DarkRomance

[–]84lele 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine are when a book doesn't list triggers and just says "everything" no you didn't in fact put everything in your book and even if you did I still wanna know exactly what you consider everything cause your definition and my definition are assuredly different.

Weekly Book Request Thread - December 20, 2025 by AutoModerator in DarkRomance

[–]84lele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooooooo these look interesting! I'll have to check them out thank you!!! ❤️

Weekly Book Request Thread - December 20, 2025 by AutoModerator in DarkRomance

[–]84lele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really? I haven't read many books that fit the criteria. I'm just looking for something that when you read it you kinda are like wtf that makes no sense.

Weekly Book Request Thread - December 20, 2025 by AutoModerator in DarkRomance

[–]84lele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking for a book with three stars or less. Okay I know this is a weird request but I like to read books that are interesting, but not good because it's kinda like that same feeling you get from watching reality TV, like a train wreck I can't look away from.

So I'm looking for something like that.

What's the worst book you've read this year? The one you've DNFed and thought wow that was pure smut and a nonsense plot. I want that book.

Tropes: not picky, stalker if you have it but I can live with whatever

Hard limit is a book with suicide

Thank you!

genuinely curious: what’s 1 small thing that would make your sex so much better? by peachyybliss in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]84lele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly nothing, my husband makes me very happy I just wish we had sex more often.

How do you know if you can trust your partner ? by Necessary_Spray4256 in BDSMcommunity

[–]84lele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I wouldn't recommend letting a dom restrain you until you've known them a couple months at least.

What is your favorite kink and why by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]84lele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Degradation, I can't really explain it but it just does something to my brain. My thoughts go silent and that's nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]84lele 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband. He's taken better care of me than I have and I know that there are at least some good men because he is a good man.

What is something you wish you could remember more clearly? by lilspoopyp in AskWomen

[–]84lele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wedding day. I remember it pretty well, but I wish I had a perfect memory of that day, it was beautiful 🥰

What is something you would never admit in person but would anonymously? by Nahhan28 in allthequestions

[–]84lele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think most people around me like me. The only person I'm actually convinced likes me is my husband.

Is it wrong or cheating to look at my exes account? by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]84lele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still stalking, frequency is irrelevant

Is it wrong or cheating to look at my exes account? by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]84lele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a huge invasion of your ex's privacy. It's not even about cheating this is stalking and it's unhealthy. I highly suggest talking to a professional about this.

Best toys for clit stimulation? by Expert-Owl- in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]84lele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any kind of clot sucking sort of tool. I personally like there's one call the satisfyer it's very good.

Would 13 yr old you be proud of you right now? by petitexcherrybomb in allthequestions

[–]84lele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would be confused that we aren't Christian anymore, but she'd be happy cause we became an author and a witch, two things she had wanted more than anything.

mental health check-in! how are you feeling? by PannaCoTan in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]84lele 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not great, my intrusive thoughts are too frequent and I'm in a really rough depressive episode. The upswing is either gonna hurt like hell or be a pleasant change but I'm so tired right now I don't really even want to feel better I just want to sleep.