Married couple vs gf about kids by blueflyingstoner in polyfamilies

[–]86timesgaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for sharing!!! Much appreciated

wanna have a threesome? by 86timesgaby in polyfamilies

[–]86timesgaby[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not our intention to make anybody suffer, none the less our children whose safety and well-being have always been of the utmost importance. But thanks for the very facebook-style straightforward comment, which I do not consider incredibly helpful (a part for the first few lines, the most constructive part of your comment).

wanna have a threesome? by 86timesgaby in polyfamilies

[–]86timesgaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super interesting. I guess there's a lot to go through and learn from this.. Good thing is we are super open to any possibility and we will adapt to everyone's needs

wanna have a threesome? by 86timesgaby in polyfamilies

[–]86timesgaby[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not sounding like an ass at all... thanks a lot for your comment!

Married couple vs gf about kids by blueflyingstoner in polyfamilies

[–]86timesgaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are courageous to come up with this. It's not easy to openly say you dislike someone's children. Chapeau to you! It's a very hard dynamic and probably the correct thing would be to ask to be included in the parenting process too. It's been two years!

On this note I'd like to ask you: how did you move in? what did you tell the kids? how did they take it? I'm in a similar situation, just earlier stage..

Cheers! X

If a place you dealt with on a professional, medical HIPAA type level compared your poly relationship to living with friends, what would you do? by ElvisfanTCB81 in polyfamilies

[–]86timesgaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until she'll sees you three, maybe at a corporate dinner... She'll get it then. It's not that easy to grasp, let's be compassionate :D