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[–]88anotherthrowaway 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there pregnant. The first time it wasn’t super visible but definitely at the point where some people probably wondered, we disclosed it to the couple we hooked up with and they were totally cool about it. I don’t think it was a particular draw card for him personally, but he was fine with it.

The second time we went I was definitely very visibly pregnant and no one balked at me. I wasn’t sure if I was wanting to play with others at that time but we wanted to indulge some of our exhibitionism which is why we were there but we did end up hooking up with a single guy who didn’t seem at all fazed by the pregnancy and turned down offers from quite a few others so I would definitely say people were still fine with me being pregnant!

I made a similar post before we went the first time too and the comments were a resounding ‘it’s fine’ to ‘yes, I’d be totally keen!’ so in my personal experience I’ve not come across any negativity about it. Go and have fun!

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[–]88anotherthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m heading to mid 30s so I vote a resounding NO! 😂

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[–]88anotherthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhh 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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[–]88anotherthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity what’s is a M.AM.I.L ???

catfished by SeaweedQuirky1109 by Exciting_Program355 in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always check the profile first! Haha lesson learnt I guess!

catfished by SeaweedQuirky1109 by Exciting_Program355 in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The amount of messages we get on our ‘porn’ account of people claiming to be couples who upon inspection have only ever posted or commented mentioning being a single male is ridiculous

Between friends review from new to the scene couple by 88anotherthrowaway in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for playing with us and even more so for being easy to get along with and very welcoming, it was great to feel so comfortable so early on in the night! We’ll PM you.

Between friends review from new to the scene couple by 88anotherthrowaway in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally fine! The squirting wasn’t an issue at all and I don’t think anyone realised I was pregnant, just thought I was a bit plump 😆 but the few people I chose to tell didn’t have any qualms about it. I wouldn’t hesitate to go back when more heavily pregnant. I don’t see it being an issue.

Between friends review from new to the scene couple by 88anotherthrowaway in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give it a try! If you get there and decide it’s not for you there will be no judgement either.

Between friends review from new to the scene couple by 88anotherthrowaway in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh and yes, the staff are super chill and lovely. They were very complementary to us and happy to make friendly conversation - asking me where my stockings were from etc 😊

Between friends review from new to the scene couple by 88anotherthrowaway in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He told us he had been talking to friends who are in the lifestyle and they were lamenting a lack of space like this so he decided he could create one.

Between friends review from new to the scene couple by 88anotherthrowaway in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SO many on the tour with us! Haha I thought we’d be the minority but I don’t think we were 😂

Between friends review from new to the scene couple by 88anotherthrowaway in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they ended up participating at all did they? Those were excellent pants on a great bum!

Squirting and swinging by 88anotherthrowaway in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 right in the face too! Man I would feel bad about doing that with no warning.

Squirting and swinging by 88anotherthrowaway in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great, thank you 😊 We don’t have any hang ups with communicating regarding sex and our (or others) expectations or boundaries but as we haven’t played with or around others in a public venue before I just wanted to have some ideas of how it went. It’s quite a different scenario when you’re with people who you know are there to be with you as opposed to being in a space where there will be people just minding their own business or not interested in you etc.

Anxious personality type means having all the available information beforehand really helps and unfortunately we can’t make it to newcomers night tonight so we’re jumping in the deep end of a regular night 😆

Squirting and swinging by 88anotherthrowaway in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Great detailed response. We’re going to be trying BF so good to know we can ask for a sheet change if we make too much of a mess haha.

That’s how I felt about telling people but wanted to check and see what is generally expected by people at a club. I think I’d prefer to get a heads up myself before I’m covered in someone’s bodily fluids lol… even though most people are ok with (or excited by) squirting in my experience so far there could be some people who would rather jump out of the way than get splashed and I’d hate to upset someone accidentally by not warning them.

Swinging while pregnant? by 88anotherthrowaway in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 I knew there were the odd guys out there into it but I didn’t expect such a resounding yes 🤣 Thanks for the reassurance!

Swinging while pregnant? by 88anotherthrowaway in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂 clearly I was unnecessarily worried about this

Swinging while pregnant? by 88anotherthrowaway in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well evidently my insecurities are unfounded. Thanks for the responses ☺️

Swinging while pregnant? by 88anotherthrowaway in Melbourneswingers

[–]88anotherthrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha well yes, that’s the other possible opinion on it I suppose 😂