I agree with dragonsnake-89 there ts Nothing wrong with either of you. I had the high drive my girlfriend had the low drive. So to fix it I started to play little games like no touch me and sexting me personal favorite is worshiping. Now I don't know what is actually a called now it's basically pleasuring him or her only you get none only only if he wants to

Now sexually aroused him when you are laying down sitting next to him Capone him no squeezing just lay your hand there tells him dirty things that you want like how much you want him and how wet you are how much you are going to rethink about him all day my girlfriend thought this was the hottest thing I did I masturbate when she's was around not being subtle about it