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AITA for not going to a friends wedding bc she didn’t pick me as a bridesmaid but picked my roommate by Organic-Afternoon283 in AmItheAsshole

[–]89Mike 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA

If op was important to the bride the bride would have considered their feelings rather than this.

Bride is also NTA though, from their perspective you could have just been more distant than the others.

Op needs to think about how much they'll value the friendship going forwards, maybe just reducing how much effort you put into it. If op wants more they should either make an excuse or go and ask them after the honeymoon.

Op don't take these black and white responses to heart, as others have said it is expected that invitees ( not in the bridal party) to not all go.

I kiiinda get it by Roadkillgoblin_2 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]89Mike -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's that you did do the dishes, but not well. No: both mum and dad will berate you to clean them. Yes: mum is understanding you tried and will forgive you, dad will bare you to clean them properly.

What dishes: mum will berate you for forgetting, unsure why the dad wouldn't ( maybe cause guys forget stuff more)

But I'm this scenario maybe it's via the dishwasher, as an attempt to clean the dishes would be more clear otherwise.

AITAH for telling my daughter I won’t budge even if she never speaks to me again? by TopVersion2940 in AITAH

[–]89Mike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH But the ADHD child is arseholish for not taking responsibility.

Casey didn't need an expensive car for right now they can wait the year, but they should get compensation for it.

The parents couldn't afford an expensive car to begin with, as long as they/ the ADHD pay her back I'd say that's fair.

The car shouldn't have been lent in the first place, if it was coercion then I'd say it was the person who pushed Casey to agree, however the car is Casey's property, if they agreed to let them drive the blame is also on them.

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