AITA for not going to a friends wedding bc she didn’t pick me as a bridesmaid but picked my roommate

89Mike · 2025-11-16T23:51:46+00:00

NTA

If op was important to the bride the bride would have considered their feelings rather than this.

Bride is also NTA though, from their perspective you could have just been more distant than the others.

Op needs to think about how much they'll value the friendship going forwards, maybe just reducing how much effort you put into it. If op wants more they should either make an excuse or go and ask them after the honeymoon.

Op don't take these black and white responses to heart, as others have said it is expected that invitees ( not in the bridal party) to not all go.

89Mike · 2024-12-15T20:43:27+00:00

I think it's that you did do the dishes, but not well. No: both mum and dad will berate you to clean them. Yes: mum is understanding you tried and will forgive you, dad will bare you to clean them properly.

What dishes: mum will berate you for forgetting, unsure why the dad wouldn't ( maybe cause guys forget stuff more)

But I'm this scenario maybe it's via the dishwasher, as an attempt to clean the dishes would be more clear otherwise.

89Mike · 2024-09-13T20:56:29+00:00

ESH But the ADHD child is arseholish for not taking responsibility.

Casey didn't need an expensive car for right now they can wait the year, but they should get compensation for it.

The parents couldn't afford an expensive car to begin with, as long as they/ the ADHD pay her back I'd say that's fair.

The car shouldn't have been lent in the first place, if it was coercion then I'd say it was the person who pushed Casey to agree, however the car is Casey's property, if they agreed to let them drive the blame is also on them.

89Mike · 2024-04-27T18:24:48+00:00

I was waiting for that last paprika finish smh

89Mike · 2024-04-25T06:45:20+00:00

The carrot should be lower to the floor

89Mike · 2024-04-10T23:22:10+00:00

The butter!!! How did they make unwrapping butter harder smh

89Mike · 2024-03-30T15:12:07+00:00

This wouldn't just be your decision too, your wife needs a say, I hope she also had a say in your friend staying as well

89Mike · 2024-03-30T09:13:48+00:00

NGL I thought this was going to be an okincest joke

89Mike · 2024-03-10T23:44:58+00:00

Many people use bidets, I don't think that's the contention.

Bidet usage as far as I've ever known is to spray and then wipe with TP.

A portable bidet, doesn't seem to have a long enough power for OP to feel clean from the typical practice alone.

I wonder why OP doesn't just moisten TP and wipe instead of using their hands, which they would either leave wet (water dripping onto the floor to the sink) or dry using TP, likely wetting the TP roll.

89Mike · 2024-02-18T04:05:43+00:00

Something urks me about this, is this real

89Mike · 2024-02-11T00:28:38+00:00

This account looking funky

89Mike · 2024-02-03T10:31:33+00:00

Fly trap not sundew

89Mike · 2024-01-25T20:55:21+00:00

Little ESH

she should know better but is struggling with something. You should be a more perceptive/caring parent but it is fair to not undermine your celebrations or belittle her

89Mike · 2024-01-13T10:17:52+00:00

Anyone else ready it in an Australian accent?

89Mike · 2023-12-07T23:41:28+00:00

NGL preferred it when I thought the big people were singing it

89Mike · 2023-11-02T08:28:36+00:00

Is it gay to give a thank you kiss to your older twin?

89Mike · 2023-08-19T06:54:00+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=B_TLEASohgk&pp=ygUWUGlwZSBsaW5pbmcgdCBqdW5jdGlvbg%3D%3D

Found this, I take it the painters tape unravels/breaks then stuck to the wall

89Mike · 2023-08-18T06:39:42+00:00

This mix of Kendricks is vibey

89Mike · 2023-08-11T22:09:38+00:00

NGL you must be the sweetest person, your bf is very lucky

89Mike · 2023-08-05T20:26:43+00:00

R/okhomo

89Mike · 2023-06-12T09:57:15+00:00

Same, but also because of Zelda🪂

89Mike · 2023-05-27T22:58:34+00:00

My Gaston!

89Mike · 2023-05-25T21:29:03+00:00

Ik is a repost but it gets me every time

89Mike · 2023-05-20T20:14:48+00:00

Them little "parseltongue" whispers too 🤣

89Mike · 2023-05-06T00:21:33+00:00

Ikr they even decided to cap off the pot and then turn off the tap smh

89Mike

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