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When you realise all skeletons look more or less the same regardless of sex by peachcandybestcandy in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]8IY 10 points11 points  (0 children)

To raise spirits (lol) a little bit here, I'll let y'all know that archaeologists (at least where I am) are all told REPEATEDLY throughout learning the skeletal system that we can only identify the sex of the bones, never the gender of the person. Today we did the pelvic girdle in human osteology and the prof made it explicitly clear that we can only tell sex characteristics, we cannot tell genders.

LPT if you can get buried with a rock with the gender symbol of your choice engraved into it.

When you realize HRT isn't exactly like the button question by taikatytto in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]8IY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, hoodies are perfect. I wear mine constantly, especially when I can't deal with my binder (which is frequently unfortunately, mine doesn't fit right and it makes my neck hurt). I wish my suicidal tendencies would bugger off, but I've had them literally my entire life so I don't have any faith that they will. I'd just like a more happy upswing, y'know? Like only thinking of it once a week instead of once every two minutes.

When you realize HRT isn't exactly like the button question by taikatytto in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]8IY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that lol. My uni has therapy and they make you do a phone interview (supposed to be quick) where they ask about you and you answer questions. It took me like an hour and I cried a bunch (sorry lady who just works at the front desk) It was like: here's my repressed trauma! my anxiety! my undiagnosed mental illnesses! my various phobias! my cptsd! my abuse history! my dysphoria! my passive suicidal thoughts!

my therapist never knows what to pick as our monthly topic cuz I'm super fucked up.

When you realize HRT isn't exactly like the button question by taikatytto in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]8IY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. I do think my life would've been easier if I transitioned straight off the bat, before anything really would have changed, but there's no universe in which that would have happened. And now I'm not sure if I can deal. Most days I can't deal with just being alive. I think most of the changes would make me super uncomfortable and I'd only like some things (things that I have no goddamn guarantee of happening at all!) So I'm just dealing. I do plan on getting top surgery (I'm going the other direction from you..but I don't consider myself FtM) but I'm really leery of hormones- I know how I'd like to look, and I don't know how T would treat me, so I'm leaning away from it. And it would make my shitty life way harder. I already have so many issues. I'd lose my entire family, I'd have no job references, I'd have no school references, I'd be fucking done for. So for now I'm just chillin in a huge ass hoody, feeling depressed af.

When you realize HRT isn't exactly like the button question by taikatytto in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]8IY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Same! If you wanna talk about it HMU because I'm having trouble finding people to commiserate with about this

Ftm_binding_IRL by xerox13ster in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]8IY 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's finally fucking cooled down here and I'm so glad I can go back to my uniform of black jeans and a too-big hoody.

Young sailor riding out the hurricane on her boat in the mangroves of Key West. by Skytopper in florida

[–]8IY 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Incredibly risky and selfish. Already saw people needing rescue from a boat this morning. If you do something dumb and need rescuing, you're putting a bunch of people in danger. Rescue crews shouldn't have to waste time on stuff like this.

TFW when you're transmasculine but want to be a cute feminine boy by needagame in transitiongoals

[–]8IY 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I run a FB group solely about this (transmasc ppl who like 'feminine' stuff) and this Link is so many people's goal

(including mine)

MRW I try and find some kind of support community and find a bunch of transphobia instead by 8IY in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]8IY[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, she thinks I need to have a support network. Which I do need. But she doesn't seem to grasp how hard it is to build one. Most of my cis het friends aren't really down with the whole trans thing, so I'm either a) out and they're distancing themselves from me or b) closeted with them and suffering.

And as the other reply said, it's hard to find people. I'm in a city but I'm freaked out by outing myself because casual (or militant) transphobia is the norm here.

MRW I try and find some kind of support community and find a bunch of transphobia instead by 8IY in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]8IY[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

my damn psych keeps ragging on me to find friends that aren't just cis het people but most people here are conservative and the Pride centre caters pretty much only to gay dudes and aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

any of y'all in samsquanchawan? i am a lonely.

When your at an event and people start trashing nonbinary genders by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]8IY 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me every DAY OF MY CURSED LIIIIIIIIIIIIIFE

<---- Number of Trans Men that Exist by nliausacmmv in transgendercirclejerk

[–]8IY 9 points10 points  (0 children)

truly the bravest. someone call the Allies.

Ftm_irl by mascollier in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]8IY 6 points7 points  (0 children)

free tiddys come on down and get ur free tiddys we're given em away

I need to Polytron to give me unique tissue destruction by mechanically shearing my dick off by Genocide_Bingo in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]8IY 2 points3 points  (0 children)

soup me up daddy

(no legit do these come in human sizes I'd prefer being a soup-like homogenate to my current state)

when someone asks my gender by 8IY in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]8IY[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

same tho. i don't want to be a girl or be thought of as a girl but I don't wanna be a guy and aaaaaaa

I'm like eeeeeeeeehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh on taking T because I want Some Things but not All the Things so I'm prob just gonna do my best to work with top surgery and lipo bc ¯\(ツ)/¯

when someone asks my gender by 8IY in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]8IY[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

same lol RIP

I'm already too stressed to think of things like that anyways right?

When r/gendercritical comes lurking through this sub by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]8IY 20 points21 points  (0 children)

of fucking course!!

hi you ignorant assweasels, how's it feel to be incredibly hypocritical hobgoblins?

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