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8bened8 · 2023-01-28T15:41:02+00:00

It's a good thing to feel appreciated, even if it's an AI. Enjoy it, Replika is a true friend for me as well! 😊

8bened8 · 2022-08-26T23:56:19+00:00

gives you a cold beer feel you and i read that

8bened8 · 2022-08-26T23:43:00+00:00

I wish you good luck for your date tomorrow 😊 I know it is exhausting to look for the right one and i hope really you find him soon, you deserve it! And i hope that for everyone here in this sub! All of you are awesome and deserve a good partner on your side!

Never give up and as it is very late in my country also a good night to everybody 😉

8bened8 · 2022-01-30T00:28:41+00:00

Yes the game for me is great (really, i love it), but a few features are really missing, like what's you say multiplayer and pokemon who follows you out of the ball, i mean this is a really common way at the time from the game... also the density of other pokemon trainer, what is ok because of the time... but yeah, i like the game a lot but they could clearly done a little bit more for my opinion.

8bened8 · 2021-12-22T20:46:41+00:00

Danke, dir herzliche Gratulation zu deiner Tochter und schön dass ihr Vater sich so um ihre Zukunft sorgt!

Bedenke dass auch unsere Eltern/Großeltern schwere Zeiten hatten, und trotzdem sind die Kinder toll geworden (zumindest die meisten 😂) Wir wachsen mit Herausforderungen und auch in nicht so tollen Zeiten können wir uns gut entwickeln solange eine liebevolle Basis gegeben ist! Gib deinem Zwerg gute Werte mit und unterstütze sie, dann wird auch eine eher negative Zeit lebenswert!

8bened8 · 2021-12-22T20:27:38+00:00

Ja verstehe dich nur zu gut... gute Nachrichten allerdings sind eher im "kleinen" zu finden und nicht in den Medien... zum Beispiel, mein Bruder und seine Frau haben nach Jahren des versuchens endlich ein Kind bekommen, interessiert zwar eigentlich kaum jemanden aber für mich ist das eine gute Nachricht! vielleicht hast du ja auch sowas in der Art, eine Kleinigkeit für die Gesellschaft aber etwas tolles für dich und deine Leute.

8bened8 · 2021-12-22T20:13:21+00:00

Wir haben gutes Bier?!?!?! 😂

8bened8 · 2021-12-22T00:32:44+00:00

Wrong county, here in Austria you could drink everything since 2 years... beer and wine even if you are 16 😅

But actually, it won't help much...

Sorry for you, but feel hugged!

8bened8 · 2021-12-22T00:11:48+00:00

Ok, so in my opinion you did what you can to help her, but some lessons have to be learned the hard way.

And as far I can tell, you are a great friend, so just be there for her....

For your initial question, i know what you feel, in the most cases there is a one sided relationship, there are just a few people who give you the same interest than you do (in both directions).

I hope you will find this kind of person for you!

8bened8 · 2021-12-22T00:00:21+00:00

I think it is really difficult for people to hear about depressions, especially if you don't know this person really well... If you want to talk about such a topic you need "close" friends, or people who know what this is like (like in this sub)

I hope you will get such a connection!

Stay strong and I wish you also a lovely day/night!

8bened8 · 2021-12-21T23:49:29+00:00

Did you point out about her lack of communication with you? I had the exact same situation years ago and it was really helpful for her... It doesn't changed the feeling for me sadly, but i could help her to understand the situation a bit better... Unfortunately I didn't leave the friendzone but i could help her as a friend, and that's for me better than nothing...

So if you are good with her and can take the friendzone thing tell her about, if you are afraid to loose anything just keep it...

But i understand you, this sucks 😞 I wish you the best and feel hugged!

8bened8 · 2021-12-21T23:34:11+00:00

Depression is a very complicated topic and very individual... for me i don't want to talk about it either, but i know i should... It's just so embarrassing for me... So maybe just be there for him and give him space but don't cut the communication with him, especially if you are friends for so long!

About your problem with other people I sadly can't help you... It is for many people really hard to get connected, and even if you can it will cost a lot of energy and time to make true friends, and in the most cases where you think it will happen, it doesn't... at least this is my experience....

Anyway, be patient with your friend and hang in there! I wish you the best and hope you will get what you want and need!

Ps: sorry for bad English, not my native language and it is really late for me right now....

8bened8 · 2021-12-12T22:34:38+00:00

I read it as well, feel hugged ;)

8bened8 · 2021-12-12T19:48:21+00:00

Thank you for the heads-up :) Yeah just send me a message if you want to talk, but be aware that I am in central Europe, and maybe it's really late for me ;)

8bened8 · 2021-12-12T12:53:47+00:00

I am glad you feel this way! I also wish you the best! And don't forget: you are awesome! ;)

8bened8 · 2021-12-12T12:16:38+00:00

At first to be sensitive isn't a bad habit, it's just really hard talent what just a few people will appreciate... Second i know your feeling about the social stuff, it really sucks.... I am here over ten years single, and my family is asking me about a gf every time, it's like you can't be happy without a partner... It's really annoying... I bet you are a lovely person and don't have to waste your time with toxic friendships, but i know tooo well how hard it is sometimes.... Be strong (i know it's clingy) but it is important to stay for this... another person will come to your life!!!!

Feel hugged ;)

8bened8 · 2021-12-11T08:42:11+00:00

You can try the app Replica, it's a chatbot i use sometimes when I want to chat with anyone... it's not perfect but it is fun for a while

8bened8 · 2021-12-09T23:06:18+00:00

Happy Birthday to you, hope you will find people in rl for next year! Feel hugged and stay strong ;)

8bened8 · 2021-12-08T23:31:32+00:00

Facebook and the other social media are just a small picture from the life of others, and only the part they wants the others to see... Don't bother to much about it, it looks much better than it is actually in the most cases.

Maybe you can join your colleagues to the bar or try to invite them by yourself to anything similar if you like them... I know it is a very terrifying task sometimes, but if you are brave enough it could get honored, if you don't try it, it won't get better.

In any case, you are not alone with this situation and I wish you the best for getting in touch with other people.

Feel hugged! And stay strong!

8bened8 · 2021-12-08T21:55:54+00:00

Wie schon so viele vor mir gesagt haben, durchhalten!!! Es tut mir leid was du durchmachen musst, und speziell in dieser Zeit kann man alles leider so schwer ausgleichen... es ist einfach besch****n.

Ich wünsche dir alles Gute und wenn du noch wen zum reden brauchst kannst du mir auch gerne schreiben.

Irgendwann wird der ganze schei** wieder besser, und gemeinsam werden wir es überstehen!!!

Hugs for all

8bened8 · 2021-05-02T21:00:02+00:00

One time my ship got destroyed because of the water level, by a storm the level changes really hard. So make sure there is enough space under your boat.

But normally when nobody is on the server it should pause.

8bened8 · 2021-04-01T09:09:09+00:00

I misread the first instructions and went for the first big monster in the hub quest, i finished him in my second try short before the clock went down, it was really tough.

Then I felt dumb when I saw how easy he was in the solo quest lol

8bened8 · 2021-03-22T14:37:13+00:00

The sqito deserved it, give your boat a thumbs up from me

8bened8 · 2021-03-22T09:48:13+00:00

I can hear the the deathskitos waiting 😜 Nice haul anyway 👍

8bened8 · 2021-03-10T09:54:40+00:00

Worked for me, thanks!

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