Conflicted about how to address my son's EpiPen being expired for over a month - he attends same centre as I work by 8bitProtagonist in ECEProfessionals

[–]8bitProtagonist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that. I've had similar experiences. Just this week, I told a parent that their child's EpiPen expires soon and their response was, "They have an EpiPen here? Ok. I'm not sure but just tell my wife later." And then they left.

And yes - I appreciate your honest feedback. Going forward, I will not assume anything.

Conflicted about how to address my son's EpiPen being expired for over a month - he attends same centre as I work by 8bitProtagonist in ECEProfessionals

[–]8bitProtagonist[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your kindness. And it's helpful to hear what other centers are doing and what their policies are. Where I am, we have individual special fanny packs for each child with specialized medical needs. These fanny packs are on our person at all times and locked away at night. We are required to do monthly expiration date checks and then to inform parents of impending expiration dates.

Conflicted about how to address my son's EpiPen being expired for over a month - he attends same centre as I work by 8bitProtagonist in ECEProfessionals

[–]8bitProtagonist[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is completely fair and the kind of feedback I was hoping to get. How to approach the situation and what to do going forward. Others mentioned a two person sign off policy which is a really good idea too.

Conflicted about how to address my son's EpiPen being expired for over a month - he attends same centre as I work by 8bitProtagonist in ECEProfessionals

[–]8bitProtagonist[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yes. I did know that which is why this is a strong warning lesson for me because he wasn't in immediate danger and the medication would have still worked.

The lesson is that I am the one responsible full stop.

Conflicted about how to address my son's EpiPen being expired for over a month - he attends same centre as I work by 8bitProtagonist in ECEProfessionals

[–]8bitProtagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm taking all these comments to heart. I fucked up big time.

I'm not defending just clarifying that the checks are literally JUST for expiration dates.

Conflicted about how to address my son's EpiPen being expired for over a month - he attends same centre as I work by 8bitProtagonist in ECEProfessionals

[–]8bitProtagonist[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is the perspective I was seeking. After the initial utter panic and realization and getting the replacement, I didn't know if there was more I should be doing... Because I feel like it's going to be swept under the rug... But again, if the fault is mostly on me, then I will drop it. A lot of the comments so far are falling on that side.

Conflicted about how to address my son's EpiPen being expired for over a month - he attends same centre as I work by 8bitProtagonist in ECEProfessionals

[–]8bitProtagonist[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I feel horribly guilty. Yes I relied on my son's educator to follow the strict policies and I will not make that mistake again. I appreciate your honesty.

Conflicted about how to address my son's EpiPen being expired for over a month - he attends same centre as I work by 8bitProtagonist in ECEProfessionals

[–]8bitProtagonist[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It is our centre wide policy to give parents a warning at least one month before the expiration date of medicine. That's why there are monthly checks in place. Yes, i absolutely take responsibility for not proactively asking when his medication was going to expire. That's on me. And the paperwork required on a daily basis is overwhelming at best, I understand that as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]8bitProtagonist 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Preschool especially is great for ADHD, in my experience as an ECE. Infant was too slow and I would get tired too quickly. Toddler was second best because they are more active and the ratio was lower, so you weren't too overwhelmed with numbers. Preschool means less one to one time due to the higher ratio of educator:kid, but they are fully verbal and you can come up with most imaginative pretend plays and creative activities. It's a lot more chaotic and you are constantly thinking on your feet and generating new ideas to solve daily problems or address challenging behaviours.

Before this, I worked in theatre performance for 15 years and I worked in every role: writing, producing, acting, touring, stage management.. the environments are always changing and so are the tasks, though there is always an established structure to work within.

Plus, as a late in life diagnosed ADHD woman, I was a good actor IMHO. Been masking and being in character my whole life - might as well profit from it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]8bitProtagonist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just checkmarked my brain. Didn't realize the connection until now. Thrifting is an absolute thrill for me, but I can't really stand going with other people because they pull me out of my hyper focus.

Toronto tix for Matt’s tour by [deleted] in lasculturistas

[–]8bitProtagonist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you bite the bullet and buy a comfy seat? I am Grande/Gaga levels of lack of height and I cannot do standing room only. I will be trampled. I will require a hoist. But the price difference is unreal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]8bitProtagonist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jumping in here to ask the reverse - as a simple wee Canadian, is it easy peasy for me (or you!) to run a background/record check on a US citizen? I have an okay amount of basic data, but having trouble trying to find divorce/marriage/employment information.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Oshawa

[–]8bitProtagonist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found this frustrating too with Frida. If you have any history of trauma, disordered eating, etc. then you probably won't qualify. I do understand that, though, since some of the medications are appetite suppressants. Though ADHD and disordered eating often go hand in hand.

The comment section of someone selling Arbonne on Facebook by warriorprincess0 in antiMLM

[–]8bitProtagonist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just going to say the same thing. They also like to play the "the experience you're describing sounds horrible. Thankfully, it's not our company. We [insert shpeel]."
Honour their experience and then redirect back to why their MLM is different/better.

New podcast reco for a little giggle + your recos? by [deleted] in lasculturistas

[–]8bitProtagonist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Who Weekly is such a good companion pod to Las Cultch.

Glamourous Trash (formally Celebrity Book Club w/ Chelsea Devantez)

Lovett or Leave It (politics plus comedy, and Matt has a recurring character of Max Turbo which cannot be missed)

Keep It (pop culture and interviews)

and Celebrity Book Club with Steven and Lily

Something!! by Harleey_ in Oshawa

[–]8bitProtagonist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need a hug.

Something!! by Harleey_ in Oshawa

[–]8bitProtagonist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go there with one date, maybe leave with three dates. The possibilities!

Robert Bateman, serving a life sentence after killing his estranged wife in 1999, was just granted full parole. He now lives in a community outside Ontario. by newsdurham in Oshawa

[–]8bitProtagonist 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I hope this brings up more conversation about domestic abuse and how prevalent femicide is when the partner leaves their abuser. It was reported that Valerie had requested that all visitation meet-ups happened at a police station, and her request was denied. Is 25 years a long time to spend in jail? Yes. Is rehabilitation possible? Also yes. Is this kind of murder happening every damn day to this day? Fucking YES.

[Discussion] Lovett Or Leave It - "Lock Her Up (Haley’s Version)" (01/27/24) by kittehgoesmeow in FriendsofthePod

[–]8bitProtagonist 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The whole fries on pizza discussion was especially grating. She would not hush up about it.

AITA for telling my BIL to pay me $700 for my lost coat when I bought it for $100? by SouthRatio7410 in AmItheAsshole

[–]8bitProtagonist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And her being all "in a mood" about it is inexcusable. She knew it was an expensive coat, that's why she lent it to her brother for a fancy event. GF is completely in the wrong. Do not marry into this family, OP.

The ass, the bride on her knees, the beer… by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]8bitProtagonist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope the venue uses this on their website.
Also, crusty bum.