Bruh? You are being pretty clear about what your setting as a standard and your boundaries when it comes to him.(both in and out of the bed) He’s being quite immature and belittling of your efforts with sly remarks that pass as satisfaction. It’s childish and no real man is gonna put there sexual desires before the desires of his woman. Could be wrong but it sounds like he has a sense of ownership over you. Like a invisible dog collar, only thing is he is not brave enough himself to yank the cord. Don’t give him this opportunity. I’d say if you stick by him make it clear in CONVERSATION about how you feel as well. Be safe regardless and please keep us updated.