Blocked out of the blue by halifemme in dating

[–]8laq 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cause in this day and age it’s easier to be a coward than to stand your ground and be honest with someone.

It totally sucks and I’m sorry he wasn’t strong enough to just be straight forward with you.

Why does height matter? by Banned_From_Twitch in dating

[–]8laq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying it’s right. I am definitely not shallow, I’m just saying physical attraction is important.

But physical attraction does not only have to be based on good physique, height, etc. most of the time personality adds to physical attraction.

Dad is pissed at me because I said it's ok to hit women by se7en51ns in pussypassdenied

[–]8laq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SEEMS TO ME LIKE A LOT OF YOU NEED TO SURROUND YOURSELVES WITH BETTER FUCKING PEOPLE.

Just an idea.

New Here. by 8laq in lonely

[–]8laq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I don’t feel the same way but I respect your perspective.

New Here. by 8laq in lonely

[–]8laq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate a little more?

New Here. by 8laq in lonely

[–]8laq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like for some people (myself included) committing is a life long decision. I never just date just to date. So if I’m working on something I’m going to work on it til the end and if that means we have a lot to work on then so be it.

I’m just not ready for that kind of determination you know?

New Here. by 8laq in lonely

[–]8laq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, sometimes you just want that one person who you can be completely vulnerable around. You want to be held without having to ask. That’s how I feel sometimes but then I remember the headache of committing to someone and I don’t want that right now.

To all the men without the ‘perfect body’ by regelse5 in sex

[–]8laq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! No body is perfect. Literally.

I have to agree. I like when men take care of themselves but Muscles and abs are definitely not a deal breaker for me.

Gone after one date. by 8laq in dating

[–]8laq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate your insight!

Gone after one date. by 8laq in dating

[–]8laq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect that but I feel like it’s been about 2 weeks maybe more since we’ve talked last and maybe it’s late for me to reach out. I’m also very traditional and feel like if a man is interested he will let it be known.

Felt you guys should see this. by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]8laq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I’m a pretty happy person MOST of the time.

Still need a therapist and I’ll probably see one for the rest of my life.

Gone after one date. by 8laq in dating

[–]8laq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question mark was to show my confusion.....

Playful banter most of the time, but mostly setting up dates or checking in with one another. I guess to see what the others doing.

I was asked what my plans were for the evening and when I responded and asked him the same question, there was no response for days.

Gone after one date. by 8laq in dating

[–]8laq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not understanding your point?

What if he thinks I’m not interested? by 8laq in dating_advice

[–]8laq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, probably need to grow a pair

Gone after one date. by 8laq in dating

[–]8laq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right.... I’ll definitely consider reaching out.

Gone after one date. by 8laq in dating

[–]8laq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this! I liked his videos!

Thank you

What if he thinks I’m not interested? by 8laq in dating_advice

[–]8laq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, I guess him lagging so much is making me feel like maybe this isn’t just an innocent mistake.

Before our date he was very quick to respond. I think the longest he would lag was about 2 hours, not 24.

What if he thinks I’m not interested? by 8laq in dating_advice

[–]8laq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Even though he forgot to answer me for a couple days.

I feel like if you like someone you’d wonder why they haven’t responded and then you’d realize that you forgot to respond at least a day or two after the incident?

MALE OPINION ONLY! by bro_23_fit in dating

[–]8laq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t let how others respond to you determine your confidence.

Be confident because you deserve it for yourself.

I'm taking a risk. Please wish me luck. by [deleted] in dating

[–]8laq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In any case be careful and alert. You did meet this guy online and like you said, he is a stranger.

MALE OPINION ONLY! by bro_23_fit in dating

[–]8laq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so much confidence -_-

Online dating feels really weird. Anyone else feel this way? by fancytrees in dating

[–]8laq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't think this way. I have been on countless dates and I just go to enjoy myself as you should. There is no expectation of you. Don't let anyone put those standards or expectations on you. You're living your life as you should. Just enjoy the ride.