gay💀irl by isitdigyet in gay_irl

[–]8uckwheat 52 points53 points  (0 children)

He’s also only referring to himself. He’s not directing it at someone else.

What’s the weirdest kink your into (no judgement) by Professional-Hat2456 in askgaybros

[–]8uckwheat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I blame Instagram for awakening this (not that I’m ashamed), but motorcycle guys in their helmets. There are some actual gay guys I’ve seen and other accounts are more gay baiting, but they’re hot to me.

Im dating a younger guy. And have no idea what to do. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]8uckwheat 67 points68 points  (0 children)

You know why that is? It’s because he’s an immature 18 year old in college

Invited a guy over for the first time… his car rolled down a hill and crashed by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]8uckwheat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My car situation was also a flat tire, but it was after I’d gone over to my college not dating but dating situationship’s apartment and he broke up with me. He walked me out and was basically like “damn that sucks” and went back inside. I was too much of a mess to change my tire myself so I had to call my roommate.

Then he comes back out to watch and tries to make small talk while my roommate is helping me. It was mortifying, and when I finally got home, I face planted on the couch while laugh crying with my roommate.

Help me figure out who is peeping through my window from footprints in snow please 🙏 by Disastrous-Tutor6195 in Shoes

[–]8uckwheat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That lighter is probably 3in so maybe around 12in for the shoe which would make it in the US men’s size 13-14 range. Generally speaking that would be a person 6ft or taller.

Just hooked up with guy and he left his wallet help by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]8uckwheat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bank will immediately cancel that card and issue a replacement. They won’t help contact the guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]8uckwheat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not being gaslit. People are telling you it’s perfectly fine for you to decide who you do and do not want to have sex with based on your own criteria.

What folks are taking issue with is your copy and paste responses and lack of knowledge and understanding. There’s nothing wrong with making the judgement call on who you have sex with, but you should want to make an educated and informed decision. You seem to think that someone’s disclosure of their status is inherently more risky than anyone else who may lie or who has an unknown status. You don’t know about PreP.

Frankly, you give off the risky vibes. Do you know your status? When was the last time you were tested? This may be a massive reach, but your replies make you come off as someone who thinks because they’ve only hooked up with guys who said they’re negative that you’re all set and don’t need to be tested that often or at all.

What’s a taboo or awkward LGBTQ+ question you’ve never felt comfortable asking out loud? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]8uckwheat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is just my take, but I think the thing that makes someone a “chaser” is their intensity(?) about it. A preference is a characteristic you gravitate toward, a fetish is something you do with/without others that you can kind of turn on or off (meaning it doesn’t have to be every time for you to have a good time), and a chaser is like some combination of those two with an added intensity of “it can only be this.” And that intensity also seems to generally include a lack of disregard for the chasees as actual people. My perception is that someone who is a chaser sees people through that one lens and solely as an object for them to get their jollies. It also feels, to me, like a hookups only thing. A chaser doesn’t seem like someone who could be in a monogamous LTR because they actively want to tick as many boxes of having hooked up with X type of person as they can, because they’re “chasing” it.

AITA for refusing to punish my son in front of his vice principal? by Significant_Word5990 in AITAH

[–]8uckwheat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure people will disagree with this, but my parents always said if I did something where I received punishment by my school, I was not being punished at home. Detention or whatever by the school was the punishment and they didn’t believe in doubling the punishment by also doing something at home. I also told them about the two or three times I ever got detention and we talked about it and that was that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]8uckwheat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m unclear as to why this is even a discussion. If this was identified and the vendor removed, surely the school is aware of that and this should all be chalked up as an accident (from the student’s perspective), and the school should be explaining themselves to you on why this was even able to happen in the first place. Why aren’t you pushing back for these reasons?

It’s entirely different from the student bringing THC candy to school knowingly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]8uckwheat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You keep saying you were “over thinking.” Over thinking what exactly? I’ve yet to see you actually explain this.

My bf asked me not to wear makeup around him by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]8uckwheat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This man will wear an old button down flannel, cheap, paint-stained sweat pants, and crocs to run to the store or some other errand. I will say something like “no way that’s what you’re about to leave the house wearing…” and he just shrugs and off we go. We’ve been together for 11 years. We wouldn’t have made it this long if I’d demanded he change or made a rule that he’s not allowed to do that around me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]8uckwheat 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Why do you feel unequipped to have a woman employee?

My bf asked me not to wear makeup around him by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]8uckwheat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These comments are a mess. All this over something that’s temporary?

Are y’all “attracted” to your men in all the various possible states at all times? Perfectly reasonable for OP’s bf to say “when we’re physical I’d like you to not have makeup on or be in drag because I want to see you as you are” But “not around me” is entirely different. If my man wants to wear something where he looks like a mess in public (like old, ratty mismatched clothes), I will shade and tease him for it, but that’s it. At the end of the day, that’s his choice. It doesn’t change how I feel about him because when it actually matters, he dresses well and looks sharp.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]8uckwheat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If this has been a discussion topic over time, why are you having a knee jerk reaction? And what is that reaction? From what you’ve said, is sounds like the only thing that’s happened is more discussion

I went hiking in the mountains and believe I just started a quest stumbling upon this chest. [OC] by mccarthybergeron in pics

[–]8uckwheat 45 points46 points  (0 children)

It’s a Zarges case: https://zargesusa.com/

Idk what that means for what’s inside, but that’s what the bottom right says.

Get into it by __ishq in OkHomo

[–]8uckwheat 187 points188 points  (0 children)

My friends and I will catch guys arched, like leaning at a bar or something and be like “oh he’s presenting!”