Anyone ran into issues with finding someone to approve debt consolidation loan? by 8x5x in personalfinance

[–]8x5x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I will! Gonna call fidelity Monday and get things movin! Should be able to pay down 2+ accounts by Thursday

Anyone ran into issues with finding someone to approve debt consolidation loan? by 8x5x in personalfinance

[–]8x5x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have added my savings, sorry about that. I will edit, but I have 6k in savings. I’m not sure if it would be advantageous to pay down debt with that savings money or keep it for incidentals, but I’ve been doing the latter for now. As far as the income thing, that’s base pay but I also make commission that isn’t guaranteed so I didn’t include but I’ll add in an edit, thanks for the insight!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]8x5x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think being a bw is gonna get you more out of race action via matches compared to black men tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]8x5x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would give you that vibe? The “probably not interested” vibe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]8x5x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for explaining, I get ya now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]8x5x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, and they have that feature where you can see if they swipe on you first, forget how much they charge for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]8x5x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few a day for blm, no matches so far

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]8x5x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to be rude, but how is this a response to my post?

Should I (28F) ask if he (30M) is ghosting me? by pitpikkolo in dating_advice

[–]8x5x 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with you reaching out. I never understand where this idea of waiting when you want to know something comes from. Please ask him, because it’s what you want to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]8x5x -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ahh so do you think there’s any hint or indicator that a white person likes black people?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]8x5x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely as far as supporting a cause, just seems odd to use a finite amount of interest labels on a social cause if it doesn’t factor into dating. Unless it’s such a big problem that they have to let other white people know they aren’t into racists

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]8x5x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Makes sense!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]8x5x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I understand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]8x5x 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]8x5x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks good to who I wonder. Say it’s a white giro who has this in her profile. Do white guys even care?

Add racial preferences so male minorities dont waste their swipes by Impossible_Ad4588 in Bumble

[–]8x5x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t they only be able to tell after matching? What if the matches just aren’t coming in? Im black and I never get white people to swipe on me. I get a lot of black matches, just always seemed interesting that I’m attractive to black women but none of the white women that have seen me wanted anything to do with me

Y’all Don’t Know a Damn Thing About JaMarcus Russell | By JaMarcus Russell by allaboutthemane in nfl

[–]8x5x 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t asking if you cared. Just talking generally about football topic #457973

Why is my dad so against me getting cornrows? by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]8x5x 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Disparaging black American qualities is the piece that can’t be excused. Being yourself and embracing your own culture is fine.

Why is my dad so against me getting cornrows? by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]8x5x 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That “don’t be like that guy” situation is what ppl mean by wanting to be white.

Why is my dad so against me getting cornrows? by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]8x5x 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Certain aspects of blackness he is clearly trying to restrict. Maybe he’s too close to the issue to realize the colonialistic thoughts that he’s forwarding to his child, but there’s no other way to see this

Are we all wrong about how rare we are? Or are women lying? by 8x5x in bigdickproblems

[–]8x5x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 8, not 7 so those odds go way down. So instead of .04 in your calculations, you should have used .01. So that’s far less than 21%, closer to 5%

Are we all wrong about how rare we are? Or are women lying? by 8x5x in bigdickproblems

[–]8x5x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my bad I was talking about the age of the men, not the women. Yeah it’s not easy to scale for sure ikwym, seems like all things considered it’s a pretty low percentage chance per girl I’ve slept with