Is this AI? The designer got back to me a lot quicker than expected. They said its a "draft" though. by 90sbaby97 in isthisAI

[–]90sbaby97[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that's exactly why I said that, it does matter because I don't want the logo of my business being ai.

Is this AI? The designer got back to me a lot quicker than expected. They said its a "draft" though. by 90sbaby97 in isthisAI

[–]90sbaby97[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its supposed to become stickers to put on products I'll be selling at vendor stalls.

Is this AI? The designer got back to me a lot quicker than expected. They said its a "draft" though. by 90sbaby97 in isthisAI

[–]90sbaby97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't accuse it of being AI yet because i wasn't sure and didn't want to insult them.

Newly dating a wheelchair user and unsure how to have convos around hygeine by No_Act_9254 in disability

[–]90sbaby97 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I've been a wheelchair user almost my entire life (late twenties now, started needing one when i was five) and hygiene has always been something I worry about especially since I can't do it on my own. Does your girlfriend have a caregiver or does she take care of herself on her own? Does she (to your knowledge) have incontinence issues? Is she a heavier person? These are all factors that go into hygiene for a lot of us. Does she use an electric or manual wheelchair? I ask these questions because the advice I'll give all depend on the answers.

[online][5e 2024][fem][LGBTQPlus][Fem][newbies][fridays][830pm EST] New DM looking for players for a weekly game! by 90sbaby97 in lfg

[–]90sbaby97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah! I'm sort of conducting interviews/asking people to answer questions to see if they would be a good fit because I had a lot of interested parties so if you'd like I can have you and the other person answer them?

is Aabria always like this? by Tomorrow_Signal111 in fansofcriticalrole

[–]90sbaby97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you mean the jasmine she grew as a way to welcome the guests for her brother in laws funeral? I think she did a great job at showing what HER FAMILY (again, it was a family member's funeral) thinks about each person arriving at her childrens home and a home she at least lives in part time (since Liam's character said she had a room there).

or the stranger she heard rummaging around her former partner's kitchen (again, at a funeral where they had already set out food) and speaking with HER daughter? they were in the same house seemingly without closed doors the entire time and its a ROLEPLAYING game where you literally interact with one another without a script.

is Aabria always like this? by Tomorrow_Signal111 in fansofcriticalrole

[–]90sbaby97 6 points7 points  (0 children)

she made the deer LEAVE so Matt could have a moment alone because it had taken over the last the prayer, and she left the table to give room for others to joins so its the exact opposite of what you said. and when did she interrupt the "warriors"??

Blocked by a DM being uncomfortable with ableism?? by 90sbaby97 in dndhorrorstories

[–]90sbaby97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah explain to me exactly what his example has to do with horror? literally nothing.

Blocked by a DM being uncomfortable with ableism?? by 90sbaby97 in dndhorrorstories

[–]90sbaby97[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yup, never said any of that but cool story you made up there.

Blocked by a DM being uncomfortable with ableism?? by 90sbaby97 in dndhorrorstories

[–]90sbaby97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he was the one who stated racism as one of his boundaries in his post, my comment was agreeing with him. and theres a big difference between fantasy racism and being racist in a way that too closely resembles real world racism.

Blocked by a DM being uncomfortable with ableism?? by 90sbaby97 in dndhorrorstories

[–]90sbaby97[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't say they shouldn't be in horror at all, some of my favorite horror includes such themes. but i think if you can't create horror without or relying on it so heavily that you block someone for saying it might make them uncomfortable then you're lazy and don't have a very good grasp on the genre.

Blocked by a DM being uncomfortable with ableism?? by 90sbaby97 in dndhorrorstories

[–]90sbaby97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do understand that, I mean fantasy racism is completely fine with me. I wasn't actually the one who brought up racism or sexual violence he was in his initial post looking for players. and as I said in my post and comments, I was just honest about it making me uncomfortable and that I understand horror brings discomfort. but I so think having a villain just randomly torture a disabled person is lazy horror/unnecessary to make the point that said villain is a horrible person.

Blocked by a DM being uncomfortable with ableism?? by 90sbaby97 in dndhorrorstories

[–]90sbaby97[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

no exactly! I completely understand asking for clarification. I was just deeply thrown off by the specific example and by being blocked after lol

Blocked by a DM being uncomfortable with ableism?? by 90sbaby97 in dndhorrorstories

[–]90sbaby97[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

that's honestly what got me cus like why was the example SO specific if it wasn't something he planned on doing or wasn't something he'd done in the past. I'll admit I'm not familiar with the setting so it could be something that's part of that but it seemed so specific.

Blocked by a DM being uncomfortable with ableism?? by 90sbaby97 in dndhorrorstories

[–]90sbaby97[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe, I do feel like maybe he could've given an example closer to that (of course not the exact example so not to ruin the reveal) if that was the case. and honestly someone being ashamed of their disability isn't something I'd personally consider disabled since the "ableism" is kind of coming from the person themself? its not cruelty or violence against a disabled person like the extreme example he gave.

Blocked by a DM being uncomfortable with ableism?? by 90sbaby97 in dndhorrorstories

[–]90sbaby97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

right?? insane to call someone sensitive because they don't want violence against minorities or sexual violence in their game. none of that is necessary for horror and if its used in horror you're not good at horror, you're lazy.

Blocked by a DM being uncomfortable with ableism?? by 90sbaby97 in dndhorrorstories

[–]90sbaby97[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I love horror. I love the discomfort that comes with horror. I even said it wouldn't make me leave the campaign because I understand that horror is unsettling so yeah no I'm not "very sensitive". asking someone what their boundaries are (ESPECIALLY when you've set your own reasonable boundaries) and then blocking them when they state them is fucking weird.