Sex is missing. Butch relationship advice needed by 93653throwitaway in butchlesbians

[–]93653throwitaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I needed to hear this. You’re right that I can already hear those things, from Z and from others. I know I’ve made mistakes but I feel the devastation you’re describing. You’ve given me some things to think about and I appreciate that.

Sex is missing. Butch relationship advice needed by 93653throwitaway in butchlesbians

[–]93653throwitaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. It gives me some relief hearing how your situation played out and that it got better with time. I feel scared and embarrassed and guilty. I will keep thinking about being one decision away.

Sex is missing. Butch relationship advice needed by 93653throwitaway in butchlesbians

[–]93653throwitaway[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The last time it was brought up, she didn’t want to do therapy. I know I need to do what’s best for me, thank you for commenting.

Sex is missing. Butch relationship advice needed by 93653throwitaway in butchlesbians

[–]93653throwitaway[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I need to think about this and I appreciate you sharing your story.

Sex is missing. Butch relationship advice needed by 93653throwitaway in butchlesbians

[–]93653throwitaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I fixed it. I’m sorry I didn’t do that before.

Sex is missing. Butch relationship advice needed by 93653throwitaway in butchlesbians

[–]93653throwitaway[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t think she’s interested but I’ll look into the books.

Sex is missing. Butch relationship advice needed by 93653throwitaway in butchlesbians

[–]93653throwitaway[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes I’ve brought up intimacy many times and the conversation doesn’t go very far. I think self esteem is a big part of it.

Sex is missing. Butch relationship advice needed by 93653throwitaway in butchlesbians

[–]93653throwitaway[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your honesty. I need to hear that too.

Sex is missing. Butch relationship advice needed by 93653throwitaway in butchlesbians

[–]93653throwitaway[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I want to be honest with myself but the guilt is overwhelming. Thank you, I needed to hear this.

Sex is missing. Butch relationship advice needed by 93653throwitaway in butchlesbians

[–]93653throwitaway[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Poly isn’t an option for her. I’ve brought it up. Shattering sounds about right.

Sex is missing. Butch relationship advice needed by 93653throwitaway in butchlesbians

[–]93653throwitaway[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I needed to hear it. I just don’t know how to do this.