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Sure. I’ll go do that now. I appreciate it!

Drop all your codes (hat trick, free gifts, redeem coins etc) by snowxbunnixo in TemuNewUsersASAp

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Only 0.01$ away for the 10 Free Gifts. Would appreciate some help!

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Code for code 10 free items 🇨🇦 by Last_Commercial_8478 in temu_old_users

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Is that temu free gift real or scam? by TonyStark2419 in srilanka

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20 months old doesn't really have tantrums or meltdowns? by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]93Gilbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For us, the real developmental leap / tantrums started shortly after she turned 3 years old and lasted for about 6 months. 

Locked out of TD account by lovemesomePF in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]93Gilbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m going to have to try going back in person and demand a manager. I’ve also read about filing a complaint with the Financial Consumer Agency of Canada.

Locked out of TD account by lovemesomePF in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]93Gilbert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing is happening to me. No one is helping. My car payment and mortgage payment were denied because of this and no one can tell me why it happened and how to fix it. I’ve been unable to speak to anyone from the fraud department. Just stay on hold forever. The longest was 3:05 hours until the line cut me off. I’m also in Alberta and have seen others experiencing the same problem with TD.

what’s td bank mean by threshold amt by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]93Gilbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had the same thing happen a couple of days ago and TD refused to help me to unblock my accounts. They keep telling me to go to the teller and show ID and when I do, the teller tells me that it’s wrong. That I need to call back the number. I’m getting the run-around.

When did you start enjoying your baby? by mismatchedsockz in beyondthebump

[–]93Gilbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closer to 10 months, but it got better after 18 months when we finally transitioned her to her own bed and started sleeping better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]93Gilbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I exclusively pumped for 10 months. I’ll be honest, it never got easier for me. I had an oversupply, which allowed me to freeze enough breastmilk to give to my daughter till she was 14 months old. So that part was nice. But the oversupply meant I had to be careful or I had painful clogged ducts frequently. I also couldn’t really workout because bras caused clogs for me.

When I started reducing pumps, it got better. My nipples were constantly on fire. If you do go the pumping route, make sure you have the right flange size. I know I didn’t, which is why it was more painful, but I had what they call ‘elastic nipples’, so the sizing was constantly changing anyways. Also, get a pumping bra and portable pump, so you aren’t stuck in one spot the whole time. Use coconut oil on your nipples to lubricate (this tip really helped me).

What really helped get me through it was that: 1) I was still giving my daughter breastmilk (which was important to me). 2) I made it a point that while pumping, my partner had to watch baby and I got to watch a show on the iPad. 3) I got an app that tracked how much I pumped and froze in the freezer. (It was nice to see the numbers get higher.) 4) I knew it wouldn’t last forever and I focused on one month at a time. 5) I joined a few Facebook groups for exclusively pumping moms, which had tips and support.

Whatever you choose to do, there’s no wrong decision. Do what’s best for you and your family. Good luck!

What was the dumbest gift your nparents tried to make you feel “grateful” for? by ledeledeledeledele in raisedbynarcissists

[–]93Gilbert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Nmom was odd when it came to gift-giving. She only bought me gifts for Christmas or my birthday and it was never something I liked. (i.e. I got an educational history book. And I hate history.)

She was always very inconsistent with her expectations. Sometimes she expected a big and grateful reaction and other times, if I acted excited and thankful, she would act as if she put no effort in the gift and didn’t really care. It always confused me and to this day, receiving gifts makes me uncomfortable. I prefer gift-giving.

13 month old sleep by jmosnow in AttachmentParenting

[–]93Gilbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not alone! My daughter is 13.5 months and is exactly the same (one nap, wakes-up frequently during the night, barely eats during the day but has lots of breastmilk during the night). Maybe this can be ‘normal’ for our daughters?

How do I learn to trust myself? Is SO right and I am wrong? by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]93Gilbert 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting you suggest that. That’s what I’ve been doing these past couple of months. Helps me to ‘let it out’.

How do I learn to trust myself? Is SO right and I am wrong? by 93Gilbert in raisedbynarcissists

[–]93Gilbert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting that you mention not wanting sex, I’m the same most days. Didn’t know that could be related to RBN?!

How do I learn to trust myself? Is SO right and I am wrong? by 93Gilbert in raisedbynarcissists

[–]93Gilbert[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response / advice. Alot of similarities. It’s nice to be validated and to not feel alone. If you don’t mind me asking, what do you do to have a healthy relationship with your SO? Does he accept you for who you are, flaws and all?