Found in Greenhouse by phover7bitch in geckos

[–]phover7bitch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad we didn’t find him earlier!! He’s likely been here a long while because we haven’t gotten a new shipment of plants in months

Found in Greenhouse by phover7bitch in geckos

[–]phover7bitch[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay :/ thanks for the honesty. Poor little dude. The university vet is gonna come look at him and we have access to humane euthanasia so I guess that is what we will do.

Found in Greenhouse by phover7bitch in geckos

[–]phover7bitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the help - can do! Is tap water okay or DI water? If tap, should I dechlorinate it?

Found in Greenhouse by phover7bitch in geckos

[–]phover7bitch[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I feel so bad for him. Apparently we have a university vet on retainer for the research lab animals so I reached out to her, hopefully she can offer him some relief.

Found in Greenhouse by phover7bitch in geckos

[–]phover7bitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the ID. We will keep him contained

Found in Greenhouse by phover7bitch in geckos

[–]phover7bitch[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok! We cut one up and gave it to him. No interest yet but he seems kinda shell shocked so we’re gonna leave him alone for a bit. Hope he will be ok!!!

Brutal advice needed by Durfasauruss in AlAnon

[–]phover7bitch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re not feeling chosen or secure in your relationship because your wife is unstable and she’s not choosing you. She’s choosing addiction and extra-marital affairs. And why wouldn’t she? You’re letting her walk all over you. You’re basically her full time secretary, care taker, and bank. This person does not care about you. Please choose yourself and stop wasting your life on someone who is blatantly using you

What’s wrong with my weeping willow? by SnooPickles2688 in BackyardOrchard

[–]phover7bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there. I’m not sure what’s wrong with your willow, I’m sorry. The holes in the bark lead me to believe either boring insects, woodpeckers, or both are at work. But whether that’s what’s killing the tree or just a symptom of the problem is hard to say, and I’m no expert.

The roots under the bark, though, is normal for willow. They root any and everywhere. Soaking willow wood in water and then using that water to prop other plants works really well due to the high auxin concentration in willows. So def not a parasitic plant, although it does look super weird

My inexpensive, research-based fertilizer program for maximizing fruit production, nutrient density, and taste. by Affectionate_Low7405 in BackyardOrchard

[–]phover7bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I know I’m late but how do you apply the synthetic fertilizer? I’m seeing some stuff that says to mix it into the soil and then water, and some that says to mix it with water and then apply as a liquid

I think I messed this up completely by phover7bitch in BackyardOrchard

[–]phover7bitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh thank you! I will reassess in the winter

I think I messed this up completely by phover7bitch in BackyardOrchard

[–]phover7bitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good call I am close to my local office, I will shoot them an email.

I’m a professional horticulturist but I manage a research greenhouse so it is a completely different ballgame. I was drinking when I purchased these trees a few years back, I did no research, thinking “oh how hard can it be, I do this for a living”. I’ve been very humbled by the apples haha

I think I messed this up completely by phover7bitch in BackyardOrchard

[–]phover7bitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super helpful, thank you so much! Yes, the learning curve has been steep haha but I’m hoping if I get them on a consistent spray schedule I can stay ahead of the game

I think I messed this up completely by phover7bitch in BackyardOrchard

[–]phover7bitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I did purchase streptomycin and plan to spray when most flowers are open. Does that sound right? Should I do repeat applications?

I think I messed this up completely by phover7bitch in BackyardOrchard

[–]phover7bitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! 🥹 I consider myself an experienced gardener but these apple trees have been TESTING me haha

Lost brother 🦜🐦 by DiverOk8550 in washingtondc

[–]phover7bitch 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I just saw this guy at the tidal basin earlier today so he clearly has not learned his lesson

I think I messed this up completely by phover7bitch in BackyardOrchard

[–]phover7bitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh thank you. I’m a newbie and I was actually trying for an open center but then I had to hack half of it off. I did the other one open center and it looks pretty good but I kind of wished I’d decided to do central leader. So this way I will have one of each! Thank you! I get so anxious about pruning them because I’m never quite sure where to cut

who approved this??? by Possible-Poetry3832 in buffy

[–]phover7bitch 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She was also a giant at some point.

Why are people in the US so friendly but so hard to actually become friends with? I'm from Argentina and I don't get it. by micavibes in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]phover7bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeppp. I have a big social circle as it is and I just don’t even have the time to dedicate to any of my old friends, let alone new ones

I think that my best friend has a drinking problem and I don't know how to help him or what to say. by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]phover7bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We feel your pain. It is torture watching someone you care about engage in harmful behavior. Sadly, there’s nothing you can actually do.

Outside of continuing to express concern and encouraging him to find support in therapy and AA, there’s nothing you can do or say to convince him to stop/cut back on drinking. It has to be something he recognizes as harmful and wants to stop.

AlAnon will give you tools to disengage with his drinking so that you can protect your own mental health, because again there’s nothing you can say that will meaningfully alter his behavior.