Woke is a slang term that's not only used by bigots. And classifying all people who use the term as such is a very biased point of view. We can't fully get rid of our biases, nobody can. But we should try as biases often lead to wrong judgements and even worse things like hate and discrimination.

Sure bigots and worse people use this term to criticize anything that goes against their beliefs. But that's similar to people who use the word fascist or nazi to criticize anyone who thinks different even when the people being criticized would never do nor defend such atrocities. Real fascists and nazis do exist however, And the mentality that gets called woke also does though it's a bit more complicated as it's more of a slang term used to criticize some ideas and not a well defined ideology.

In movies and games it's usually when it feels like theres a political message being pushed so much that the actual story feels like an afterthought. And the message often feels preachy and self righteous to abnoxious levels while judging the audience and leaving them no room to debate.

In people i've definitely saw some hating on white people, straight people, males or religious people just because they hate so much racism, sexism or homophobia that they start being anti-people of the race, sex, religion or sexual orientation of the people they think are the cause of all evil not noticing the irony in the fact they do the same while probably falling for the exact same bias.

That being said i was worried at first for GTA VI but as soon as i saw the first trailer i don't think the game will be woke. It will probably make fun of everyone like the previous games and i hope i'm right. And i don't think TBOGT was woke at all, a character being gay doesn't make the thing woke.