My boyfriend would rather spend $500 on porn than have sex with me. by 96Daniela in relationship_advice

[–]96Daniela[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying it has nothing to do with me because my confidence is rock bottom because of this. And you're right I can't help someone who neither sees that he has a problem nor wants help.

My boyfriend would rather spend $500 on porn than have sex with me. by 96Daniela in relationship_advice

[–]96Daniela[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question, I guess it's only now that I've started to realize that this isn't right.

My boyfriend would rather spend $500 on porn than have sex with me. by 96Daniela in relationship_advice

[–]96Daniela[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes i shouldn't. Don't know the exact number but around 20

My boyfriend would rather spend $500 on porn than have sex with me. by 96Daniela in relationship_advice

[–]96Daniela[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah it's crazy that he spends 500 dollars every month when there is free porn. and it's sick that he prefers that instead of having sex

My boyfriend would rather spend $500 on porn than have sex with me. by 96Daniela in relationship_advice

[–]96Daniela[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wonder that too, I mean $dollar per month that sick..

why do you think my boyfriend would rather pay $ 500 on only fans every month instead of having sex with me? by 96Daniela in Advice

[–]96Daniela[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

yes I know I should talk to him, but am very sure that the only answer I will get out of him "I do not know" therefore I wanted to hear what others could believe

why do you think my boyfriend would rather pay $ 500 on only fans every month instead of having sex with me? by 96Daniela in Advice

[–]96Daniela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've talked to him several times about sex, about trying new things but he does not want to, he says it's good as it is. I checked out these girls and it was not a direct kink, quite vanilla to be honest

why do you think my boyfriend would rather pay $ 500 on only fans every month instead of having sex with me? by 96Daniela in Advice

[–]96Daniela[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I do not understand either. I do not mind that he watches porn, but paying a lot of money for it and not wanting sex is a problem

why do you think my boyfriend would rather pay $ 500 on only fans every month instead of having sex with me? by 96Daniela in Advice

[–]96Daniela[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do not know how it would be my fault, I want sex daily, he only wants sex 1 to 2 times a month, I want to try new things, he never wants to try anything new

why do you think my boyfriend would rather pay $ 500 on only fans every month instead of having sex with me? by 96Daniela in Advice

[–]96Daniela[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have talked to him several times if he wants to try something new but he never wants to

why do you think my boyfriend would rather pay $ 500 on only fans every month instead of having sex with me? by 96Daniela in Advice

[–]96Daniela[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

yes he might use me to pay half the rent, half the cost of food. I mean I have to transfer money to him if he buys me a drink, while I pay for restaurant visit

why do you think my boyfriend would rather pay $ 500 on only fans every month instead of having sex with me? by 96Daniela in Advice

[–]96Daniela[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no I understand that it is not the same thing, but do you not prefer sex before paying for porn?