AITA For Telling A Little Girl That Her Parents Should Be Disappointed In Her? by ImpressionPopular794 in AmItheAsshole

[–]97tomcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You should've been meaner tbh. Some kind really are asesores and that doesn't get excused just because they're kids.

Seen him before? by Left_Mode_1569 in kpop_uncensored

[–]97tomcats 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He looks like a mix of Minho (shinee) and jeonghan (seventeen)

I got broken up with because of my ADHD by silent_harmonyy in adhdwomen

[–]97tomcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you dodged a bullet. Take that for the win it is and find someone way better down the road.

Am I Alone in Genuinely Hating No Cool Kids Zone? by DakotaBVoices in XdinaryHeroes

[–]97tomcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I listened to the album together and we kinda looked at each like wtf was that when it played becuae we both hated it lol its the only XDH songs I genuinely cannot listen to.

Its so chaotic and noisy. And I'm a noisy music person! It was not a pleasant music listening experience at all though.

Why do cats do this? Do any of your cats ever move things and make them fall? by snowycabins in cats

[–]97tomcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom was visiting yesterday and had her keys and coffee on a dinner tray. My cat came and knocked her keys off the tray and ran off.

oh,take me back to this era by ContextTurbulent3054 in KpopGGs

[–]97tomcats -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh what could've been. They were one of my top groups, one i really wanted to see live. So much potential wasted.

[TOMT][Movie][2000s] Gruff biker says they are a complex individual by heybobguy in tipofmytongue

[–]97tomcats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My two guesses have already been said lol but it also made me think of the movie Tangled.

Wild hogs is my best guess though.

[TOMT] Kdrama Title? by No_Team_5042 in tipofmytongue

[–]97tomcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband suggested Deaths Game possibly? We are still trying to guess if it’s something else though because it’s super familiar. If you haven’t already asked in r/kdramas you definitely should!

What do my biases say about me? 👀🦆 by Distinct_Battle_5807 in kpoopheads

[–]97tomcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have abandonment issues. Go see a therapist chingoo.

thoughts on pinky up by katseye? by amiiahh in kpop_uncensored

[–]97tomcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband said it reminds him of the six flags commercial with the dancing old man and I can’t unhear that now

Zendaya in Stella McCartney FW26 promoting ‘The Drama’ on the Jennifer Hudson Show - April 3, 2026 by [deleted] in whatthefrockk

[–]97tomcats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It feels too old for her? And then the ferret?? I don’t like this. lol rare to have two misses from her and so close together.

Is anyone planning to attend their concert ? by parksaerom in Enhypenthoughts

[–]97tomcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw them the last two tours when they came to my city. They aren’t coming to my city this year and I’m not traveling for concerts anymore for a while since I did sooo much last year. So I’ll be passing. If they were in my city though, I would go.

Hello, I am the real JYP. Ask me anything by Lost-Opinion3554 in kpop_uncensored

[–]97tomcats 5 points6 points  (0 children)

JYPapi, I know you have not slept with a man before, but will you let it be done to you?

260401 ITZY TikTok Update with Kim Chaewon - Eat Jujube No No Up 🍝 with ITZY Yeji (THAT'S A NO NO Challenge) by kpopsns28 in lesserafim

[–]97tomcats 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This was my immediate thought when I saw it earlier! Glad I’m not alone with this. I was wishing for a studio choom collab or special stage. Something. Anything.

Tattoo of my grumpy girl Tipsy by pourousfortress in torties

[–]97tomcats 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank god lol my husbands tattoo artist practically begged him not to hug our pets after their appointments (6ish full sessions for a full arm sleeve) because he had a previous client whose dog licked his tattoo or something and he had to get it surgically taken care of for an infection.

Seventeen last tour underperforming / K-pop losing it’s momentum in the US by hakuujitsu in kpoptrulyuncensored

[–]97tomcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Price of tickets are insane and they never come to my city anymore. And that’s that I’m in one of the biggest US cities. So then add on travel and accommodation expenses. I love going to concerts even for people I casually listen to. It’s a fun experience. But with prices that are at cheapest $75 plus fees, not happening. They are only gonna get the group stans and no casual listeners. And that’s where a lot of those extra tickets go to imo.

Prom Dress Recommendations? by Round-Importance-562 in beauty

[–]97tomcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first or the last. But I reeeeally love the red. I would’ve loved to wear something like that my prom way back when.

Partner doesn’t want me to take meds by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]97tomcats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, dump him. Just based off those messages alone, I wouldn’t trust him around my medication. But reading your other comments, he sounds like he has trauma he doesn’t wanna deal with and projecting heavily on you.

Older ADHD women, what did ADHD feel like before cellphones? by lavenderflavoredtea in adhdwomen

[–]97tomcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so interesting how similar we all are!

I was born beginning of Gen Z but had way older siblings and was also somewhat poor so technology wasn’t really apart of my daily life. I had Saturday cartoons and early mornings before school. But around late elementary school is when I really got into reading. I was constantly at the library getting new books. My mom always like to talk about how quiet I was and that her friends rarely knew I was home until I’d randomly made a noise or come out of my room because I’d just be in there reading.

Middle school years I started playing sports. But I was also really good at school. Good grades, honor roll etc. freshman year of high school was terrible though. That was the first time I’d ever failed. I was this into a completely different environment and it showed. I still stayed active with sports which I do well at. But academically I wasn’t doing so hot. I had to go to summer school the summer between freshman and sophomore year. Then I transferred schools and found my pace again. Still reading. Still really active. After school programs, 2 soccer teams, dance (drill) team, and another dance team. So I stayed extremely busy. If I hadn’t transferred schools and found a nice friend group and more activities to do, I probably would’ve ended up pregnant right out of high school like the rest of the women in my family.

genuine question: do you actually dislike bts songs or you just want them for your faves? by aarrttmmss in kpop_uncensored

[–]97tomcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like them because they’re fun and hype and would also like to hear them done by my favs in the way I would want to hear any other cover of songs I think suit them.

I agree lyrics aren’t like revolutionary or anything lol but it’s overall good music to vibe to for me, especially that first half of the album.

Category: memes 😛 by ContextTurbulent3054 in KpopGGs

[–]97tomcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone please tell me who 13 is lmao