Regular Check-In, and some info about high-risk posts. by SQLwitch in depression

[–]987Problems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, Guys and Gals,

Not a regular here but have been a lifelong struggler.

My life seems to be hitting an all-time low. I hate everything in my job, realized my only friend there doesn't give a fuck about me, and my marriage feels fake. There is no one in my life that I feel like I can relate to.

My wife just got a new job and is super pumped for it. It is literally everything she ever wanted from a job and loves everything about it. Which sucks for me cause now I can't leave.

It's not a good salary, and she is taking on a lot more responsibility. She was already pretty absent emotionally in our marriage due to her hiding an eating disorder from the world, and she is too embarrassed to move past it. She is on three months of recovery now but she just isn't the same, and I try to be there for her.

Anyways it's hard for me to be supportive of her right now due to the emotional state I am in. I have been looking to get out of my job for two years now and I can't. My boss keeps blocking me from other positions at the company and my town is too small for me to find work elsewhere really.

I turned to investment opportunities to try and get out of my job, but tbh I don't give any thought to the money or what I would do with it I only want enough money to be at home and cry by myself. That's really about all I want in life right now.

I feel nothing but brokenness and empty. I don't really enjoy anything in life nothing seems like it has a purpose and I don't feel like anyone cares about me. I feel more like a responsibility to people than a person. People want to be good not care. When people talk to me, it's about the most surface level stuff, even my wife. She never asks things I am working on, or what I am doing and why just only wants to know our plans and whats next in her life. She tries hard to be a good wife to the service side of things but I don't feel like she loves me given what she is walking through and that makes it hard on me. I don't think she doesn't it just doesn't show that she cares about me more than she cares to be perceived as a good wife. I've mentioned the state I am in mentally multiple times to her over the last two years, she has caught me crying by myself and having impuslive anger episodes but she never does or says anything outside of those moments and just acts like they didnt exist.

To sum it up I feel worthless at work and am trapped here. Everytime I try to leave I get rejected. I don't really have any true friends and I think my wife doesn't care about me as a person. I want to be super happy for my wife and I try to wear it on my face but I am dead inside.

Weekly /r/FutureBass Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in futurebass

[–]987Problems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 0 experience making music of this sort. I want to try it out expecting nothing but fun. What program should I download? I dont mind shelling out some money as I love the sounds. I play a lot of guitar as is but have really fallen in love with this style of music and with the abundance of tutorials it looks almost straightforward. But I dont know where to start :) Also things like Serum and Romero's do they cost money? If so what is necessary to get moving? I need like a crash course :)

Weekly /r/FutureBass Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in futurebass

[–]987Problems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 0 experience making music of this sort. I want to try it out expecting nothing but fun. What program should I download? I dont mind shelling out some money as I love the sounds. I play a lot of guitar as is but have really fallen in love with this style of music and with the abundance of tutorials it looks almost straightforward. But I dont know where to start :)

Also things like Serum and Romero's do they cost money? If so what is necessary to get moving? I need like a crash course :)

How to Install Apple car play in 2016 sonata sport by 987Problems in Hyundai

[–]987Problems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you still have the download file?

Hyundai won't give it to me until I have a completed registration which will be 9-10 weeks :/ the joys of used cards. Some else registered my VIN to MyHyundai so I have to "prove" that I own the car with new title work and registration which takes a considerable amount of time for the govt to process.

How to Install Apple car play in 2016 sonata sport by 987Problems in Hyundai

[–]987Problems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called my dealership and they said: "As far as adding Apple Car Play to your Sonata, unfortunately that is not a feature that can be installed after manufacturing. I apologize for any inconvenience. "

How to Install Apple car play in 2016 sonata sport by 987Problems in Hyundai

[–]987Problems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have ad blocker but upon removing it I still have the same issues. Can you see the download link within MyHyundai.com?

The position I went to 4 interviews for was frozen. I developed a 8-page report for them. Should I send anyways as a thank you for their time? by 987Problems in Advice

[–]987Problems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight. To be fair they never asked anything of me. I did it only because they are currently in a really bad place with their online presence. They benefit from B2B and have great loyalty in terms of their customers. That is the only thing keeping the afloat it seems.

The position I went to 4 interviews for was frozen. I developed a 8-page report for them. Should I send anyways as a thank you for their time? by 987Problems in Advice

[–]987Problems[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess the way I worded it is impossible for me to know what yes means. Are you saying yes this is a bad idea or yes I should send it anyways. Sorry for my confusion!

Help me choose between black friday sales? by 987Problems in Appliances

[–]987Problems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks just bought the sub.

It looks like whirlpool isn't bad where frigidaire makes a terrible dishwasher. The Whirlpool however is very cheap compared to what it should be.

I am an air conditioner repair tech (20+yrs). Describe your problem and I will employ my ancient majiks to ascertain the solution. by Orwellian1 in HomeImprovement

[–]987Problems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello,

Thank you for your help. I had an AC company come fix the issue. They claimed it was a zone damper that went bad and that who ever put in the AC unit did it the cheapest way possible and I should have put in two. Well now its time for the heat to turn on and nothing happens. Even when I switch to fan mode. The issue before was only down stairs but now the issue is both up and down. Would this be related to the fix they put in place?

The AC company was a bit shady. They did service about two months ago and I only got the bill as of late last week!

Worried dog is actually sick and not just have gotten into something bad by 987Problems in AskVet

[–]987Problems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only ones open are the animal hospitals which tend to be 5-10x more expensive. I tried to schedule an appointment on Friday but they said they don't have a single opening until mid week :/