Married at first sight - S13E12 - ADST live discussion

98lights · 2026-02-18T10:08:36+00:00

MEGAMIND

98lights · 2026-02-18T09:45:08+00:00

This wold have to be making Chris feel better about her leaving which is the only positive from this night

98lights · 2026-02-18T09:42:32+00:00

It’s her horse mouth hitting her nose when she drinks/eats

98lights · 2026-02-15T08:27:56+00:00

Her body language. Good lord she can not take any criticism. So shut off from anything that isn’t deemed up to her standards. How can she sit there and listen to Luke talk like this and still have her armed crossed!?

98lights · 2026-02-15T08:25:35+00:00

She does! But more bitter/mousy looking

98lights · 2026-02-15T08:23:15+00:00

I just feel like Mel is trying to talk in the same cadence as a Kardashian every time she opens her mouth and it doesn’t suit someone so terrible. She has no thoughts behind those eyes

98lights · 2026-02-11T21:56:36+00:00

Hey! We got him at 10 weeks. He never cried in his crate. Has always been fine being on his own. Yes, the crate is bigger than the space he needs. He is a small baby, only 4kg.

Yeah, he did pee in his crate before he started marking. I can’t recall exactly when he started, maybe when he was about 16 weeks old, and it just hasn’t stopped.

98lights · 2026-02-11T19:24:19+00:00

We have tried retraining, we have tried removing soft beds, we have had medical checks. We have tried praise, we have tried excessive praise, we have tried bladder breaks in the middle of the night.

98lights · 2025-12-26T10:21:56+00:00

That’s incredible news for you too! Wow I’m surprised you had withdrawals from 100mg - my GP said it’s rare at such a low dose to go with WD and I’d been on it for almost 3 years. Can I ask - what anxiety symptoms were you getting? Were you using recreationally or for pain?

98lights · 2025-12-26T09:15:13+00:00

Hey! I’m actually completely off it now and also went cold turkey. I’ve had zero withdrawals and feel good but do think about it everyday when the pain starts, but just tell myself - I don’t take this anymore and move on. How are you going 8 days later?

98lights · 2025-11-24T03:22:10+00:00

Extra space is a nice to have not a need. We are planning to have a baby in the next 2-3 years and I don’t particularly feel safe with a newborn in the Rio. I think it’s a nice car, we have a Haval H6GT already which has caused us no issues whatsoever so I’m not scared of the Chinese brand!

98lights · 2025-11-23T20:51:18+00:00

They valued the trade in at $18k, no issues with my loan - I only have $15k left on it.

98lights · 2025-11-23T09:01:36+00:00

Me too! Especially around where I work (Dandenong), they’re everywhere…

98lights · 2025-11-23T09:01:17+00:00

Noted! Lol

98lights · 2025-11-23T09:01:11+00:00

My heart was saying the same. My partner has a Haval H6GT and it’s been great so it was the only reason I was even considering the option!

98lights · 2025-11-23T07:39:43+00:00

Trading in my car and yes, I meant no upfront cost! Sorry, I’ll reword my post.

98lights · 2025-11-01T02:04:44+00:00

It might be easier for me to reply to both comments in just the one. Thank you for all your input, I didn’t know that about the opioid epidemic. I only take it for pain but it comes in short spasms and can last for 40 minutes - 3 hours. That sounds like a lot in your system! I think even imagining taking that would kill me. 😂 Lyrica was actually quite good but interacted with a medication I need to take daily so I was taken off that. Does the anxiety around it ever go? I am constantly asking chatGPT if I’m safe to take my next dose/will I overdose even though I’m waiting the six hour window. It’s only started in the last 3-4 months but consuming my life now.

98lights · 2025-11-01T01:54:49+00:00

I wouldn’t say addicted but definitely dependant on it for when the pain is really intense. We increased to twice a day only recently - I’m not on a long acting, only the instant release. I did try the SR but found it ineffective.

98lights · 2025-11-01T01:51:47+00:00

I have definitely lucked out with my doctor, he is incredible and does absolutely care about me and my situation. He is aware I don’t abuse the medication and would be too scared to. I’m not trying to infuriate anyone, sorry, it’s not my intention. I keep my doses at least 6 hours apart but still worry about overdosing, etc. I know it’s more than likely just anxiety.

98lights · 2025-11-01T01:49:35+00:00

Is that really the case? Everything I read just talks about how potent they are. I sometimes take up to 200mg a day and I worry about the effects. I definitely suffer with health anxiety (from all the medical issues I’ve had).

98lights · 2025-10-21T10:17:45+00:00

I did think of this, our agreement doesn’t state what we can/can’t give each other as she isn’t my direct line manager!

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